DoubleClickHeaven.com: Shared Female Masturbation Techniques and Experiences: Collection 8

Anonymous

I am a 14 yr old girl--I don't want to say my name. I masturbated when I was 9 or 10 to the point of orgasm, until my parents made me take Prozac (for unrelated reasons, of course). I have not had an orgasm once--I try about once a week. It was really bothering me, so I told my mom I think the Prozac had an effect on me sexually--of course she wanted to know if I masturbated, and I denied it. She has always made me feel guilty about sexual things, a. because she is a Christian and b. because I am her only child, and she expects me to 'perfect'. Masturbation to her is as bad as premarital sex. Anyway, thanks for letting me vent. It is very frustrating when you feel like half a person because your sexuality is not there. I wish I knew how to get it back.

I would hope that parents are more aware and supportive of their daughter's sexuality than the mother in this situation. If your child is taking medication it is wise to be aware of all the possible side effects and to take into account their sexuality. In this instance, while the Prozac may have treated one problem, it obviously created another that is having a very negative affect on her emotionally.

Velvet

Hi. My name is "Velvet" and I'm 20 yrs old. I started masturbating when I was 13, or younger. Most of the time I use a Q-Tip (Yep, those cotton things for you ears) Before I do, I imagine I am being kissed "down there," By an actor. If anyone has ever watched a TV show called Forever Knight about a vampire cop, Played by a very handsome Welsh actor named Geraint Wyn Davies. Though in my fantasies, he is his vampire self. I start to visualize he is kissing me, sucking on my clit, and then draws blood, still sucking. Gets me wet almost right away :)

Another thing I do is roll up a couple towels and ride them till I cum. I have very intense orgasms, quivering so much I shake all over. I do this late at night, with the lights off in my room, a couple of candles lit. Though I stifle my moans by biting my bottom lip. I can cum real hard most of the time. I also slide a finger into myself and move it back and forth till I almost cum, and then I play with my clit until I let go.

Anonymous

I'm 15 and I've been masturbating for like 3 years. Anyway, I masturbate by either setting the removable showerhead to jet and putting it two my clit and I sit with it there and have the most amazing orgasm or the other way is with a back massager, I rest one part on my ass, the other on my clit. It's wonderful! Whenever I do this, I think about being tied down two my bed and blindfolded. Then I imagine a friend or just another girl eating me out over and over till I cum like 10 times. Even though I can't really cum more than once on my own will, it's my fantasy to have that happen. Anyway, I also like to cyber with other girls because they understand my needs. Anyway thanks for reading.

Vanessa

Hey the vacuum worked. It made me have an orgasm real quick. This site has helped me to give myself pleasure. When I used the vacuum I experienced my erected clitoris, which was surprising to me. I didn't know that your clit could be erected. The vacuum does get cold though so you have to stop at times. But that is a good thing because if your orgasm goes to long it's not good for you. I believe that masturbation is a very good thing to do. This page is a very good and helpful site.

She is using the hose on a vacuum cleaner, and placing the open end of the hose around her clitoris. I presume cool air is rushing in through the holes in the end of the hose that prevent too much suction from developing; a safety feature in vacuum hoses. I do not recommend this technique as there is a risk of injury.

Cara

I'm 18 years old and I've been masturbating since I was 10. Even though I've been masturbating for as long as I have I didn't achieve an orgasm until I was 17 - I didn't even deliver it. My boyfriend was actually the one who gave me my first orgasm (manually). I was really kind of embarrassed about it, but it was better that I finally came... one way or another. Since then I regularly reach orgasm by myself. My problem was that my mental state and technique was all wrong.

As you can imagine, trying to orgasm for 7 years and getting nothing was very frustrating. I figured that something was wrong with ME... so I would go online and read up on it. I read on several sites that not achieving orgasm was totally normal and that only 50% of women achieve... so I lost hope and just stopped masturbating. This is where my boyfriend came in. Just by playing with my clit by hand he gave me a blindingly powerful orgasm. Afterwards we talked and he shared a lot of information with me. He masturbates regularly and achieves multiple orgasms so I figured that I couldn't go wrong with his advice. He told me what he did for me and how to concentrate when I masturbate... all kinds of stuff. When I went home I tried it out and it worked like a charm. It actually kind of made me mad that it was there all along but I just wasn't doing things right.

So to pass on the favor... for all of you girls that are like I once was... 1) Get yourself really turned on first... think about what turns you on and fantasize about it... and STAY FOCUSED. For me, my biggest turn on is going down on my boyfriend. I love it... I'm good at it... and thinking about what he does, his facial expressions, everything during, before, and after his orgasm totally gets me going. So when I want to reach orgasm I think about that. My problem was that I was going into it cold (not turned on) and doing that made touching my clit irritating... so I ignored it. That made me try to orgasm vaginally - which I don't think I can do. 2) Focus on your clit... if nothing else. After I had my own manual orgasm I realized that, at least for me, focusing on my clit was all I had to do. No rubbing anywhere else, no tools... just clit. BONUS) I've found that for stronger orgasms it helps to have strong PC muscles and to somewhat flex your legs. Having strong PC's increases sensation and makes the vaginal contractions stronger... flexing my legs makes my muscles tighter... so it magnifies the orgasm a little bit more.

This is what works for me and it might not apply to everyone but I hope this helps somebody else. Also, I love your site... it seems very comprehensive.

Anonymous

I seem to come across a lot of information on how men can delay orgasm, but I haven't seen anything for women on that same subject, so I thought I'd add my technique here. It's similar to the squeeze technique for men. When I masturbate, I use two fingers to rub my clitoris in a circular motion. If I feel an orgasm coming on but I want to last longer, I press down firmly on my clitoris and breathe slowly and deeply until to urge to have an orgasm passes. I can then continue to masturbate and repeat that technique until I feel ready to have my orgasm. I don't often have multiple orgasms, so I find this helpful when I want to last longer.

Jessica

My name is Jessica. I'm 19 and I just started having orgasms. I've been masturbating since before I can remember but I couldn't have one. I'm still too worried about it, so it is a little hard for me. I always liked masturbating but I did kind of feel embarrassed about it. I didn't know that I was missing anything until one of my former boyfriends asked me if I had cum when we were fooling around once. He kind of laughed and said I was missing out when I said that I wasn't sure I was having orgasms. That messed me up for a long time. I worried about it for 4 years and it made me feel really bad about myself. I started having sex with my boyfriend 6 months ago and I started getting really upset. Sex was great, but I guess I really thought that I was supposed to be having orgasms. It didn't help that my boyfriend told me that his ex could have lots when they had sex. I have since told him how much that upset me and he's very sorry. Sometimes I get pissed because he told me she would never admit to masturbating - I love to masturbate and I have trouble! : P Sometimes it is just not fair.

I'm really glad I found your site. I used to look up stuff about pre-orgasmic women almost obsessively and I was just so hard on myself. I couldn't even hear the word orgasm I would get so upset. I've been crying a little writing this because it has been such a journey for me. But this site helped me to relax. I finally realized that lots of women have problems like me - I'd read lots of things but I still felt like I was alone, not "normal." I realize now how I was trying too hard. I also realized that I felt bad for masturbating on my stomach, which is what I like to do. I read one woman's description and she described what I like to do exactly. That night I had my first orgasm. Since then I've realized (from reading stuff on this site) that my "method" makes it hard for me to orgasm with my boyfriend. He is so sweet and he only wants me to be happy. He even bought me a vibrator- that was a very nice surprise (but I was embarrassed to use it at first). I'm so glad I lost my virginity with him. I told him that I wish that I could cum all the time with him inside me like his ex, but he said that it is more special every time I cum when I am with him. I haven't been able to orgasm with him inside me, but he holds me tight and kisses me and tells me sexy things. I used to want sex all the time, but now I want it less. I am less stressed out too.

I know I still have a long way to go before I can truly relax about having orgasms, but I have learned so much about myself. I'm starting to get better at fantasizing. I haven't figured out what will make me cum all the time, but I also know that I tend to feel guilty and gross about what sometimes turns me on. I'm trying to train myself not to be so judgmental of myself. I realized that I like watching porn and masturbating. I like to watch lesbian stuff, anal sex, interracial stuff; I guess lots of the things that I feel guilty for thinking about. But everyone on this site has their own thing they like - I really liked the aubergine lady's story- funny and cute, but not something I think I'd try. This has really helped me a lot. I also want to let other women know that they are not alone if they have trouble having an orgasm. People always told me I needed to relax; I never thought that I would help my sex life! It is so much fun to learn to love your pussy! Thanks again for your awesome site!

Alix

Hi my names Alix, and I'm 18, from England, stumbled across the site and couldn't be more pleased! I love to masturbate its the biggest form of stress relief ever and it really helps me to unwind! I actually had to when I was reading everyone's experiences...OOPS. My positions are strange but I mainly use an electric toothbrush and take the head off where there is a little piece of thick metal and it rapidly vibrates and moves from side-to-side, I have to wear underwear though because otherwise its too tender. I imagine some really erotic stuff, mostly about one of my friends and I have a whole story line, I go round to her house and she disappears upstairs and because she's a masseuse she has all the oils out and when she comes back down she is wearing one of the sexy see through nightie and we starting kissing and touching each other, we strip and then I'm lying on the floor grasping whatever close and moaning loudly as she starts licking my pussy, she then sits on my face and we never really get any further because I've usually cum! It's really strange though because I very rarely have an orgasm when I'm masturbating, I just have huge sexual climax.

I am bisexual cuz I love girls! But I could never have a relationship with a girl, it would be all about sex...that a bit slutty? I love the way that they're sensitive and that they have more of an idea than men. I usually lie on my floor or kneel like I'm sitting on someone's face and I get my electric toothbrush and place it on my clit and move it in circular motions and occasionally slip my middle finger 'inside.' I also like to watch porn. I couldn't live without porn! It's great. I love it when my boyfriend goes down on me, he licks my clit and uses his fingers to enter me and I love shaking with the excitement, is there anyway I can get that on my own? A sexual climax is all well and good but nothings better than cumming and smiling loads after!

By the way I love your site so much, it's the best thing since sliced bread (is that just an English saying)? Thanks for making a difference...

Angel

I'd like to start thanking the person/people that came up with this entire site. I found it while exploring the net about masturbation late one night (curiosity as to what I was doing and what was "normal"). Everything was pay-per-view porno except this one, so I checked it out. It's really awesome; not pornographic and very informative. It's opened my eyes to the fact that masturbation is ok for girls, and helped me get some really incredible orgasms through increased knowledge of myself and liberation that masturbation isn't shameful.

To add my two cents, I first masturbated when I was 9. This wasn't to orgasm, but I put the showerhead to my clit, just for curiosity, and it made me feel sexy. I did this on and off for a year. Then one summer when I was 11, the weather was particularly hot, and I was getting kind of itchy. So, I excused myself to the bathroom to apply some anti-itch cream to relieve the itching. While applying the cream with a Q-tip, I found this very pleasurable, and rubbed my clit till I couldn't stand it anymore. I didn't know what an orgasm was (my parents were particularly tight-lipped about this, as were my friends' parents, so none of us knew), so I just went until my clit was too tender to touch anymore. I did this the next day, and the next day, and haven't stopped masturbating since, 7 years later.

As far as technique, my only rule is shaking-it-up. I have no one-way of masturbating, every time is different. I usually like to masturbate for a while and just enjoy the sensation, so I frequently change positions during one session, as well alternating between the electric toothbrush and my fingers. Other times I just want the orgasm as quick as possible. Because I've been masturbating for what I consider a long time, I have many different techniques, which have been thoroughly tested, so I know what to do to cum immediately. I try different things all the time, many of which have come from this site. Although, by far my favorite, is when my boyfriend calls me. He talks dirty to me while we masturbate. Usually I start on my back, putting a few fingers inside my pussy and rubbing clit with my thumb. I move around variously, and typically end in a 'riding' position, with the phone balanced between my shoulder and ear, with one hand working my clit and the other working my pussy. It's incredible, and his aid just heightens the pleasure. I've found this to be an awesome experience because I'm particularly shy, and this was a very soft, cushy way of getting to know myself, as well as exposing myself to partner-sex. I am still a virgin, but am more comfortable with losing my virginity than before phone sex and masturbation. I don't see why masturbation is so taboo. It's the ultimate safe sex, you learn about your body at a comfortable pace (i.e., no pushy partners), making sex less of a shock, and hell, it just feels good. To thyne own self be true...happy masturbating.

Kelly

My name is Kelly and I'm a lesbian. My girlfriend used to get jealous when I masturbated so she started to do it for me. I'll lie on the bed or where ever we happen to be at the time and she starts to hold back the folds of my vagina and slip her fingers in. Once I'm hot, wet and gasping for air she takes two fingers and moves them around in a circular motion. It used to take me 10 minutes or so to come but with her doing it, I come in at the most 2 minutes.

Maryam

I've been masturbating since I was 13 yrs old. My favorite way of masturbating is using a vibrating dildo that bends. Once I'm excited I penetrate the dildo inside of me; not on vibrate yet. I like to move it in and out. I'm usually on my stomach with my knees bent a little. Then I remove it for a while and use the tip of the dildo on my clit, just rubbing it back and forth. When I'm about to come, I put it inside and turn it on med-hi. I move it in and out and bend it to my clit. The vibes are out of this world and I climax all over the vibrator. It's great.

Anonymous

I'm a 15-year-old student from England. I had no idea what so ever that girls from such a young age masturbated. Personally I always thought that girls do at some point finger themselves, but I had no idea as to what extent.

I found it weird that most of the fantasies played out by girls masturbating were lesbian orientated, but I suppose that just depends on how you feel. (Excuse the pun)

I asked my girlfriend if she ever masturbates and she flatly denies it. It maybe because its ridiculed here mainly because of "what you can rub into yourself" and because "why do it yourself if you can have a lad do it for you" but also because most girls here (in England) I know of seem to think it sick to masturbate.

I've always thought it to be a part of natural behavior to masturbate, as I know 100% of blokes do it (yes I do before you ask), and I think my sister let on that she had started it at the age of 14, 3 weeks ago (she's now 25), but that was the first I'd heard of a girl masturbating until today.

This page has opened my eyes to the real ways of the world; I thought that girls fingered themselves only if in porno's or whatever.

Thanks for this eye opening experience, this has also given me an insight as to what girls may experience and enjoy.

Meagan

I masturbate a few times a week. I am 15 and have been masturbating for about a year now. My favorite technique is to get horny, then wet the corner of a towel with cold water, place the bristles of a power toothbrush on them and hold it on my clit, while I'm wide open. Once it's there for about 30 seconds, I open up my vulva more and pull up my clitoral hood to get the toothbrush on that too. I hold the toothbrush there varying the pressure of the toothbrush and sometimes I move it up and down or in circles. It's great! This is the only way in which I have found I can successfully reach orgasm. I have tried vaginal penetration but it doesn't do much for me, and I haven't tried anal penetration, but this site has given me lots of ideas -- thanks. I'm horny now -- only problem -- people are home, and they'll hear the toothbrush -- I'll have to wait until later :(! If anyone has any other ideas, please post them on the site. Thanks Meagan

Tharia

You've got a wonderful site!!! I thought I was really weird but reading the other stories maybe I'm not so weird..... I'm 15 and I started when I was about 7, my sister she's 22 now always did it and I just copied her.....it's FANTASTIC!!! I never thought of it as being molested though. I don't put things inside me, only my fingers.......I can come really easily but I like drawing it out for ages and ages too! I loooooove masturbating, I go at least twice a day.....mostly more! I like teasing myself, just like touching lightly all day, we're home nudists so its really easy and like building up for hours and then....WOW!! I haven't got a special favorite way, I like lots of different ways but a Jacuzzi jet is really like wowowow!! But its best doing it together :) mmm!

Darcy

Hi, just thought I'd check in again.

In my other post, I mentioned how much I love to get turned on before I even start to masturbate, and how much this enhances the experience, and I thought I'd say more about that.

There's a local phone sex line I like to call sometimes, on lazy weekend afternoons or late at night when my boyfriend's not around. I almost always choose to chat with other women rather than with men. Anonymously sharing sex fantasies with another woman is SO hot - you have got to try it!!!

I love talking a woman through an orgasm over the phone - listening to her getting excited and moaning really gets me wet. And I love using a chat line as a confessional with other women - telling all about my own sexual exploits, and listening to them confess theirs to me. Very liberating, very hot.

I usually keep my panties on while doing this and only occasionally rub myself a little bit during the conversation. Then, when I hang up, I usually tear my panties off and rub my clit and come really fast. Then I'm usually still quite turned on from the sound of another woman coming, so I push a nice thick dildo in side and use a vibe on my clit, and pretty soon I'm coming again.

I really urge any women who find experiencing orgasm difficult to try that kind of thing - dirty talk gets you so hot!

Ok, now for another physical technique that really works for me:

Place two pillows on the bed and straddle them lengthwise. This gives your thighs something to squeeze while you masturbate - something I find really heightens the sensations. Place the base of a nice dildo you're comfortable with on the pillows, and take it inside you as you straddle the pillows. Now, place a vibrator against your clit (or just the hood if you're too sensitive). Control the vibrator with one hand, as you bounce up and down on the pillows, feeling the dildo against your g-spot. Now, reach behind with your other hand and gently tickle and rub your anus.

Warning: This technique is very addictive!

Anonymous

I am 18 years old and what I like to do is gather 4 pillows (or whatever feels comfy) and stick something into my vagina then I take lube and start rubbing it on my clitoris. Then I move back and forth really really fast while still rubbing my clit and then I have an awesome orgasm. I hope you try this out and thanks for making such a great site!

Aquagrl

Is it really true that lots of girls can't or don't reach orgasm, ever?

That really surprises me because I always have.

When I was little I used to sneak my moms vibrator and hold it between my legs. All I knew at that time was that it felt REALLY good. I didn't realize there was a name for what I was doing. I don't know exactly how old I was when I first did it. Now, I'm 19 years old and have tried all kinds of things. At this age I'm pretty used to masturbating and it's kind of lost the appeal that it had when I was 12, so I don't usually get creative with the pool pump hose or anything, lol. Although I did recently try something new. My little niece had a bag of those long balloons that clowns make animals with and she wanted me to fill one up with water for her to play with, like a water balloon. Well, when I saw the shape of one fully filled, it gave me an idea! That experiment didn't go too well though. The balloon burst before I could get it fully inserted into my vagina. What a mess that was!

I usually can bring myself to orgasm through simple "fingering", or by the use of a back massager I keep under my bed. Most of the time those are the methods I use, but sometimes, I get feisty and try other things. The balloon being one of them. I think I've settled on those 2 basic techniques because their simple, don't require a lot of preparation and seem to get the job done.

Well that's about it! Thanx for letting me share my intimate techniques: ) By the way, I'm still a virgin and haven't tried actual sex yet. I'm really worried about getting pregnant, so I probably won't EVER try intercourse until I get on birth control. Maybe some of the girls out there today need to take that concept into consideration.

PJ

I just found your site and am enjoying the women's accounts of their masturbatory experiences. As I'm gleaning ideas for my own play sessions, I'd like to share my favorite way to get myself off.

I'm 40 and have been masturbating regularly and enthusiastically since before puberty. As my libido continues to increase (since my early thirties), so does the frequency and length of my sessions. At a bare minimum, I masturbate weekly, but more often I do it daily or almost daily. During particularly horny periods and if time alone permits, I may pleasure myself two or more times a day (especially if I don't have a lover).

My toy of choice is a silicone dildo, which is about 6" long and 1 1/2" in diameter. For initial lubrication, I might use a bit of almond oil, but require no repeat applications since the silicone retains the heat and moisture produced by my own body. And it feels oh so nice once it's warm and wet...closer to a real cock!

I usually start on my back and will fantasize about a current lover, someone new I desire, or a memorable past lover. The seduction scenarios vary. I'll caress my breasts until my nipples get hard. I'll remove my panties and play with my clit with my fingers. When it starts to get moist and as my arousal increases, I'll straddle two or three stacked pillows, spread my legs wide apart with knees bent and thighs hugging the pillows. I manually spread my labia apart and wedge the dildo lengthwise between them as if placing a hotdog in a bun. I place the dildo with the head pointing towards my anus. I then embark on an incredibly pleasurable ride, usually sitting upright at first, eventually leaning over the pillows. I employ a combination of movements including rocking sliding, back-and-forth, side-to-side, and up-and-down motions to optimize the friction on my clit. I hug the dildo with my pussy lips. The variations and possibilities are endless. The pillow setup renders my hands free to explore other erogenous zones. The dildo begins to marinate in my juices and as I get increasingly wet, the juices start dripping down the inside of my upper thighs. I repeatedly bring myself to the verge of orgasm building up to a crescendo until I cum.

After resting I may repeat this and experience another clitoral orgasm before penetrating my pussy with the dildo and utilizing the same types of motions as before to cum vaginally. Sometimes my clitoral orgasms are so intense that I'm satisfied and stop there.

The "hotdog in a bun" technique is great for partnered sex too. You still need to use birth control but it provides direct clitoris to penis or dildo contact. It allows a woman to be in control and since the underside of the penis is often very sensitive, is pleasurable for men.

Emma Q

I can't believe I'm actually writing this, haha I've been masturbating since I before I can remember! When I was little in art class I used to push myself up against the corners of the desks and hold my breath until I experienced orgasm, I think it was an orgasm anyway!! When I feel the urge to orgasm, it's usually when I have to pee although I don't know why. I lie on my back and finger myself and rub my clit until I feel aroused enough for orgasm. The way I actually orgasm is kind of weird, but I lay on my stomach, and recently I've been using a dildo of some sort. I lay on my stomach and hold my breath and push with the hands on my pussy, not in any particular spot or position, but I do that until I start to shake (you can take breaths, haha, but I hold them for long as possible) then I just start to push a little harder and more intense and VOILA, haha I orgasm! It works every time and I have never been able not to orgasm, I can orgasm as many times as I want but I get tired after a while. For a while I thought I wasn't having an orgasm because everyone seems to have so much trouble doing it by themselves, so I thought it couldn't be this easy, but I am sure that I am now!! I hope this works for at least some of you because it has always worked for me!!! And I will never change the way I do it!! Thanks!!

Holly

I'm a bit vague about exact ages, but I started masturbating at about 8 when my older female cousin who is five years older than me showed me how when she slept over. She rolled up her pillow and rubbed her pussy against it and I copied her. I didn't cum at first, but after watching her cumming a few times I did and I loved it. We must have done it all night!

I would do it that way most nights after that until I learnt to cum by stroking my clit with my fingers while lying on my back. After that it depended if I wanted a long session (pillow) or short session (fingers). LOL!

When I was about 11 I caught my brother, who must have been 13, masturbating when I came home early from school one day. He got mad but I told him it was ok and that I did it too. For some time after that we would often do it together when we were home alone. Do you think that was a really weird thing to do?

I also masturbated at sleepovers with most of my friends in my early teens and I discovered how large my clit was compared to most of my friends. My friends were so jealous.

I still masturbate most nights but now I try lots of different ways I learnt here, specially the showerhead in the bath thing.

Thanks for the great site!

Sibling sex play and exploration are probably more common than most believe. We explore sex with whoever is available and many times that is a family member because we spend a lot of time with them. Sharing bedrooms, bathes, and homes creates opportunities to explore and share. In this case, she learned how to masturbate from an older girl and then she and her brother learned how the opposite sex give themselves pleasure.

Anonymous

I masturbate and it is so good I usually lie on my side with my hand between my legs and rub up and down varying in speed I am not all that imaginative but I still orgasm.

Anonymous

I am 30 years old and have been married for quite some time. I love to masturbate! I'm very happily married but I always have fantasies of being with a woman and having her suck on my clit very slowly and then sticking her fingers inside me and rubbing my G-spot. I wish all men would read this site because then they would all realize that it's all in the CLITORIS! I like to masturbate when I feel I might get caught. Sometimes when my husband is coming to bed I will try to come to a climax before he comes into the bedroom. It just seems exciting and the thing that makes me cum is almost getting caught. In my head I'm saying hurry up, here he comes, and then I can climax in about 30 seconds. I prefer to be alone though and then I can take my time and build up to the moment that every muscle in my body is tight, my legs are locked in an outstretched position and my fingers are banging away while the other hand goes back and forth over my clit! Sometimes I cum so hard that there is a huge wet spot on the bed. I'm so glad I found this website. It makes me feel like I'm completely normal for fantasizing about women! Thank you clitoris.com! I'm going to have my husband read this whole site!

Eve

I personally love masturbating, I know it's not good but I prefer masturbating to making love cause it's a lot easier for me to reach orgasm. To masturbate I use two techniques, the first one is sit in front of my computer and look at some porn movies while I'm rubbing my clitoris in circular motion. But when I really want to reach orgasm rapidly I use the hand held shower at a hot temperature but when I feel the orgasm coming I turn the hot water down and shoot only cold water it gives my orgasm a boost.

Netta

Masturbation has always been a beautiful and erotic experience for me. I am 22 years old and have been raped more than once, so it is important for me to take things slow. I start out lying on my back with my legs spread and knees bent. I massage my clitoris with one or two fingers and wait until I get wet (if I'm not already). I fantasize about men or women, usually someone performing oral sex on me. I will even fantasize about myself masturbating in some other place or time. I use my fingers to spread my wetness around, and then I roll to my side and insert my middle finger into my vagina. One finger allows me to feel every aspect of my inner walls and labia. I try to masturbate for as long as possible and contain my orgasm until 45 minutes to an hour have gone by. I moan near the end and caress my nipples with my wet fingers. My orgasms last for 10 minutes as I my body rocks and shivers.

Anonymous

I'm a 30-year-old woman who is just rediscovering masturbation. I absolutely LOVE fingering myself to an orgasm. Just lately I've been doing it once or twice a day. I have an incredible body and I love to watch myself in a mirror. What I'll usually do is wait until I'm alone, or until everyone is asleep. Then I'll lie on the bed or on the floor in front of a mirror, propped up by pillows, with my lubricant in hand. The wetter the better, although I'm sure my pussy juice alone would make me wet enough. I spread my legs as wide as I can and start out slowly, stroking and rubbing my whole pussy and clit with one or two fingers, inserting a finger or two inside and pumping myself, finger-fucking so I get even more excited. I rub my tits also, wetting them and getting my nipples hard. I also like to hold my pussy open with one hand while stroking my clit with the other. I shave my pussy so I can get a good view of how swollen and pink I get when I'm ready to cum. Feeling the wetness and looking at myself starts getting me hotter and hotter, and by then I'm usually moaning and ready to cum. I feel like I can't get my legs spread far enough apart and sometimes, my hips are coming off the bed as I'm rubbing harder and pushing my clit higher. I'm usually also flat on my back by now. Sometimes my hips are thrusting with my strokes, and by now I'm using two hands, rubbing up and down, going harder and faster with each stroke. As I'm cumming, I'm moaning and sometimes saying "ooohhh, ooohhh...I'm cumming!!!" It's so very sexy, and I feel so sexy doing this. I'm ready to do it right now.....I want to cum right now...so sexy and so ready...it makes me want to fuck. Thanks for having this site so I could share what no one else knows about me.

Inga

Hi, I am 21 years old. I have been masturbating since I was thirteen, late at night when everyone was asleep I would lay in bed take off my panties and start to rub my clitoris very gently. Now that I am older the feeling is more intense but boyfriend tries but he can't give me that orgasmic feeling that I give myself. Sometimes I would take the hair cutting machine and because it vibrates a lot I would strip naked lay on my back spread my legs sometimes arouse myself a little by inserting two fingers inside my vagina and getting them all wet and gently rubbing them on the tip of my clitoris then I would take the machine and place on the tip of my clit and let it vibrate and I would have that hot sensation going through my whole body while I buck my hips against the machine faster and faster and my juices would be running out of my vagina making me so hot. Then I would fantasize about someone sucking on my big fat clit and tonguing my wet pussy until I reach my orgasm. I love it. It is a lot of fun.

Rose

I love to masturbate!!!! I find that thinking about a woman or women helps. I fantasize about a woman slowly sucking on my big breasts. Then she slowly runs her hands down my naked body and puts her fingers in my pussy and rubs my cunt. While thinking this I have my fingers in me and rub my clit slowly but firmly. Then I imagine her slowly going down on me, and she puts her tongue in me and starts to rub my clit. While thinking about this I rub my clit up and down and in circles. I can feel myself becoming aroused. Then I think about her being on top of me while our pussies are pushed together and she begins humping me and I can vision her big breasts bouncing up and down as she humps me harder and harder. I can even imagine her moaning. I now have my fingers moving up and down very fast and I have the best orgasms. I feel weak in the knees.:->

Lissa

The-clitoris.com is one of my most favorite sites. Thank you for creating it. I visit here frequently, but this is the first time I have really had a strong urge to share any of my own experiences. I am a 35-year-old woman, and I was so lucky to have had my first orgasm when I was 11 years old. I was swimming one afternoon in a pool at our motel, and suddenly found myself shaking with orgasm after having pressed my clit up against one of those water sprayers for quite a little while. AMEN!! It felt so good, and I've been happily playing with my pussy ever since!

Sex was sort of taboo in my household, but luckily I had an older sister who I was able steal erotica books from for my little masturbation sessions. I also snuck into the bedrooms of many of the households I babysat at and read erotica from girlie magazines and also stared at the pictures. I still wonder today if they ever knew what I was really doing while they were out for the night!

Although I have explored masturbating with all sorts of techniques, positions and fantasies, I still feel that I have so much more to explore and learn about my sexuality and my body. I only feel now that I am starting to bloom into my sexuality. Of late, my favorite masturbation technique is to fuck my pussy with a g-spot vibrator while holding my egg vibrator on my clit and pushing my pussy flesh up against the vibrator as it moves in and out. All sorts of sexual images and bodies get me off so my fantasy life is pretty rich. Just about everything turns me on and I get really turned on thinking about being with both women and men. I love using lesbian fantasies, guy on guy fantasies, women with men, threesomes, foursomes, or you name it. It's all great!!!!

Although I've never had trouble bringing myself to orgasm through self-pleasuring it has been more difficult for me to cum with my boyfriends. It has grown much easier as I get older because I've become much more secure in my body and with my sexuality. I love reading all the descriptions written on the pages here, and will admit to how often reading them makes me wet and horny, which inevitably sends me off for another masturbating session. I have also found this site to be of great comfort when I've had doubts about or struggles with my sexuality. Thanks so much to all the women who have shared a bit of themselves here!

Rachel

Hi my name is Rachel. I have been masturbating since the age of 12. I usually steal my moms back massager and slowly tease my vagina with it. Then, I'll start to think of very dirty things, like my best friend Shannon. We both have had a few experiences together, where we'd play dress up. Then, we would start to finger each other, and finally we would eat each other out. I get extremely wet using the back massager. Before I orgasm, I usually run to the bathroom. Then I turn on the bathtub faucet and lay under it, while the warm water runs on my vagina. Then I climax and it's the greatest.

Shirely

I really thought I was a freak until I found your site. I am 55 and when I was young it wasn't a thing you read about. I remember touching and rubbing against things when I was very young indeed but I only realized it was a sexual thing when I was 11, which was about when I first had a come. From then on I masturbated every night and often at other times. It was mostly the wonderful feeling of coming that I wanted but there was one strange sort of fantasy I had. Quite early I had a thick growth of pubic hair. I was sort of proud of this sign of maturity and enjoyed letting my friends see this at every opportunity. In bed I would imagine them staring and begging me to let them stroke the hairs. For some reason this thought excited me very much.

I have been married for 30 years and I still masturbate every day. My husband has no idea. I don't use toys and rarely penetrate myself. My clitoris is very sensitive and large and gives me all the pleasure. To be alone and locked in the house safely is my happiest time when I can masturbate freely and wild. On some days I have made myself come six or seven times.

I have never been unfaithful and only once have I approached doing anything like it. A few years ago I was changing in the swimming baths and I realized that a young teenager was staring at my bush. I was taken back to my early fantasy and took ages to change. I was actually trembling as I felt her eyes on me. At home I locked myself away and relived the experience watching myself in the mirror. Since then I often use the mirror in this way and seem able to act out two parts, one as a girl gazing at the thick black forest and wanting to touch. Of course you will see this as lesbian tendencies but I have never wanted that.

Roxanne

My name is Roxanne, and I'm sixteen years old. I began having sexual desires very early, even if I didn't know what they were. I have always been precocious, learning things early, and I suppose that sex is no different. Also, with the books I read from an early age, I knew about making love. I fantasize about many, many different scenarios. Oddly enough, one of my favorites is about two gay men.

I started masturbating regularly when I was seven, after years of denying what I felt. I didn't know any techniques, but I discovered the bathtub faucet. I'm known, in my family, for taking very long baths.

When I was fifteen, I found out that rubbing my clitoris could give me a pleasurable feeling, same as the bath. I wouldn't go so far as to call it an orgasm; I was so sexually frustrated that I couldn't reach orgasm.

As I became better at clitoral stimulation, I noticed that right when the feeling was becoming very intense, I had to urinate. I thought this was bad, thought I'd injured myself, and so I tried to avoid it. I'd heard of female ejaculation, but I'd never found out any real details.

I found this site and its helpful information. The next time I masturbated, I didn't fight that urge. I let go. I then experienced my first orgasm ever, after nine years of desperate attempts

Thank you! I'm so glad I found this site.

Anonymous

Hi! I am 18 years old and have been masturbating for as long as I can remember. This is my second time posting here. The first time I posted was a couple of years ago. At that time I couldn't find a way to buy any type of vibrator but I had this pen that vibrated and I used it a lot but I could only use it when everyone was away from home cause it was loud but recently I was able to purchase a strap on vibrator called the Lightnin' Bug and OMG it is incredible. Since buying it I have used it a ton everyday. I also bought a removable water hose and that was incredible the first two or three times but then it got kind of boring. I have now purchased another vibrator and am very anxious to get it. If you are looking for the best vibrator out there that I know of check out the Lightnin' Bug. It kind of goes on like panties....it doesn't look like panties but you can put on panties over it and it is very very quiet. It is very discreet, kind of big and awkward to walk-in but you get used to it and then it is marvelous!!!

Sara

I simply love your site, and I just had to send you my favorite masturbation technique. I'm a 24-year-old single woman. I've been single for 2 years now and masturbate regularly. It's a great sexual release in the absence of a partner. I masturbate in a number of ways but my favorite technique involves pressing my thighs together. I cross my legs and squeeze and rub my thighs until I orgasm. This way it leaves my hands free to stimulate my breasts. I can do it wearing jeans but it's much nicer in sheer pantyhose under a skirt or dress as it feels more sensual. Also because pantyhose are soooo tight you can 'ride' them much easier.

Rochelle

Hi, my name is Rochelle and I'm 13 yrs. old. I've been masturbating for about 2 years (since I was 11). I use an electric toothbrush. First I make myself wet by looking at lesbian porn (I'm pretty sure I'm bi). I don't think anyone knows that I masturbate. Well anyway, I take my toothbrush and put on high, then stick it on my clitoris. I hold it there, applying more and more pressure until I'm just about to cum, then I stick it into my vagina and move it around on the walls. At first I also thought I had peed on myself (yes, I know, lol) but then I tasted it and figured out I wasn't. I also use the bathtub faucet...it feels ssssooooo good lol but I don't think I've ever had an orgasm before.

Sue

My name is Sue. My husband would be horrified if he knew I was writing. I have been masturbating for 40 years. I love to wear a skirt and panties and just my bra. I lay on my front and pull my skirt up and my panties down. I have tried it on my back but on my front I just fantasize - usually rubbing against another woman - and rub my clitoris on the sheet. I get very wet and always come. Each orgasm is different. Once I have come I pull my panties up and stop.

Janey

I am 17, nearly 18, and a freshman in college. I've been masturbating since I was about 14. I didn't really realize what it was I was doing at first, sad as it sounds, for a 14 year old, but true. Much like the 14 year old Anonymous on page VIII my parents had drilled it into my head that Masturbation is WRONG, so I never set about to do it deliberately. I'm a stomach sleeper, and discovered an interesting sensation, when lying face down while wearing a button down nightgown... I did this several times, without reaching orgasm, until one night I did, by accident. It took me a good hour and a half with this method however. Once I realized what it was I was doing I convinced myself that it wasn't sinful unless I took my underwear off. *Sighs.* Eventually, I got over that, and discovered that I could speed up the process, by instead of using the buttons, I tied a knot in my nightgown and humped that, and after that I moved on to a sock full of other socks... It wasn't until a good year and a half later that I tried it on my back, which is the way I still do it to this day.

Now, I like to lay on my back, and using the first two fingers of my right hand, I rub back and forth over my clit. Sometimes I read sci-fi erotica (Both Het, and Lesbian, it doesn't much matter to me) before or while I masturbate, but I never view porn. I have tried that, and it does nothing for me, they focus far too much on the physical act, and far too little on the reactions of the participants. Sometimes I penetrate myself with a finger or two, or the handle of my Mini-Mag light flashlight, but mostly I prefer clitoral stimulation. But always I lay down tissues or paper towels beneath my ass, fanned out toward the front, but bunched up in a ball between my ass cheeks. This serves two purposes, one to catch moisture, so my bed doesn't get wet, and two, I like the feeling of the crumpled portion between my ass cheeks.

I can orgasm in 4-5 minutes if I put my mind to it, or I can draw it out for up to an hour, to an hour and a half, if I'm so inclined. I have also tried the water technique, but I find it works much better with my fingers. I do this anywhere from 2 times daily, to not at all for a whole week, mostly based on my menstrual cycle (which is 5 weeks instead of four), I find my drive is greatly diminished just before and during my period, but much higher during the week and a half before that. *Shrigs.* Technically I suppose it's a sin, but so is using condoms. My parents do that, so why on earth can't I do this? I see no good reason. But Anonymous 14, and other's like you: You are Not Alone. I'm confirmed; I sing in church choir; I participate fully in my church. You CAN be a Catholic (Or any other sort of Christian), and Masturbate.

Anonymous

I'm a 22-year-old female and have been masturbating since I was 8 or 9 years old of course I didn't know what it was back then I certainly do now. My favorite thing to do is to go naked into a hot tub and flick the jets on to pulsate and get on my knees and open my pussy onto them....this feels really good and makes you cum in no time flat...you can stop & relax for a bit before going back for another go. If you haven't tried this...you should it's WONDERFUL.

Kim

Hi, my name is Kim and I think your site is excellent!!!!!! :}

I love masturbating! I started when I was 13 (I'm 16 now) and have done it practically every night since. When I first started masturbating I felt really dirty but with the help of your site I am totally comfortable with my own body and my sexual experiences.

I normally start by picturing a woman/man focusing on my every need. As I feel myself getting aroused I slowly circle my nipples and sometimes pinch and pull on them. Then I slip my right index finger into the top of my vulva. I massage my clit slowly to start off with but I soon get faster. I find that my pleasure and feelings are much greater if my pussy is full. As I live with my parents I can't buy any sex toys incase they find them so I have to compensate. I normally use the round handle of a hairbrush or a big makeup powder brush. My legs vary in position but when I come I normally clamp them together. Can any one suggest how they masturbate when they are on their period so that there isn't a mess?

I also have another problem. I was masturbating the other day and just as I experienced orgasm my 10-year-old cousin came into my room. As I was having an orgasm I couldn't talk to her at first and she was quite distressed to see me sprawled naked on my bed shaking. She asked me what I was doing but I really don't know how to explain it to her so that she will understand and wont be appalled. Please help as I see her every day and so can't avoid the subject.

Everyone should be so proud that they were brave enough to contribute to this great site! Keep being yourself and always be happy!!!!

The subject of masturbating during your period is addressed on the page Menstruation and Sex.

Honesty is the best way of explaining to children what they have seen when they witness sexual activity. In this case, you can simply say you were giving yourself pleasure by masturbating. Children witnessing sexual activity is not harmful, what can be harmful is how adults react. While they may be confused by what they have seen, yelling at or scolding them is what often tells them there is something bad about it or them.

Anonymous

Hi, I'm 17 and I have been masturbating for about 4 years. It started when some friends of mine wondered what the clitoris was. So when I got home, I looked in the sex-ed book from fifth grade. It said that is the raised area at the very top of your private place. It also said that if the clitoris was stroked or touched there would be a great sensation. The next time I was home alone I rubbed up against chairs and soft objects, it felt good but it was a lot of work and I wasn't experiencing an orgasm so I stopped for a while. Then I just directly stimulated my clit with my forefinger and I increased the speed as I thought of lesbian love and oral sex being performed on me. I finally had an orgasm. It felt great! The best time was when I was on the phone with a boyfriend and he started getting me aroused and so I started to stroke my clit. He didn't know what I was doing until I started to heavily breathe and make noises. That was really great.

I usually masturbate about once a week. It is so amazing and I'm glad that I discovered it. Your website makes it even better. I masturbate while reading all of the experiences and I imagine myself being stroked by a woman. Thanks for the wonderful site.

Anonymous

Hi everyone, like me you've probably been reading down everyone's stories and fantasies of masturbation and am feeling VERY HORNY!! I know I am, so I thought I'd share my techniques with you all!! The best way for me is definitely with fingers, taking my time, very slowly starting with gently rubbing my right nipple through my silky underwear, around in circles with my left hand middle finger, slowly in circles, my body soon starts to relax with intense feelings starting from my nipple right down to my throbbing, wet, erect clit, every few seconds the whole of my pussy and clit throbs, so hard it aches deep inside my pussy, but I carry on just slowly teasing my nipple, move to the other nipple, my clit still desperately throbbing, soaked......aching..

So I start to feel my way down towards to top of my pussy, slowly stroking the hair, moving down using my middle and index finger, which stroke my pussy at each side of my outer flaps, each side, the whole of my pussy throbs. Slowly I start to gently feel myself at the entrance of my pussy, I'm soaked, dribbling down to my anus and crack with my clit and hole aching to be stroked. Very gently I caress my inner lips, slowly, they ache and throb, I slowly push my two fingers into me, slowly, slowly and gently, then work my way up to my huge clit. The sensations are electric and I haven't even started to rub myself. I love slowly rubbing just between my hood at the top and what is inside it, at that special, tiny part that gets me feeling soooo horny and tingly all over, still throbbing and getting wetter and wetter, my pussy is aching so much, needing to be entered but I keep stroking, small circles around that special part, not letting the rest of my body move, lying as still as I can, the build up is so intense, I just what wriggle and bounce, but I don't, it makes my orgasm so much more intense, I'll be fantasizing about a guy touching me, making me get so near to coming by teasing me to the point of no return with his mate watching us, his mate then starts to feel horny and starts to wank himself, then the guy that's doing me wants some action, and gets his friend to take his ass and wank him at the same time.

We're all getting to a point of no return, still I don't move, only my fingers in turn in slow circles, getting a little faster until my body starts to quiver, first in my thighs, tingling down to my toes and back up my body, just before that point your clit throbs uncontrollably I stop. For a moment or two. Again, I get that spot immediately and am soon at that point, my fantasy who was giving has come and is watching me and what the guy is doing to me, my face and moans, I feel the tingles moving around the whole of my body, slow circles, my clit is about to explode! cum pouring out of me, my clit throbs and throbs uncontrollably, my hole contracts, inside contracts sooo strong...!! I keep my finger on the spot, pushing down into my clit, throbbing still.....relax, slowly come down from out of this world total body ecstasy!! Oh to find a man that can do that!!

Linda

I'm so glad I found your website because it makes me feel quite normal to know that my love of masturbation, and being masturbated, and having great orgasms isn't some kind of a perversion. Although you'd think I'd know that at my age of 37, and after masturbating since I was five or so. The difference is, although I touched myself as a child and liked the feeling, it wasn't until I was about seven that someone else touched me and stroked me until I actually had an orgasm.

Thinking about that, even though it was long ago, is still very erotic to me, as I see it now after years of sexual experience and masturbation. I know in my heart, now, that it was child molestation, but that was never how I thought of it. Or, how I think of now.

It happened only that one time. It was my friend's grandfather, of all things, and we all used to gather in their front yard to play. He had a huge peacock feather we all loved, and he used to rub it across our backs because it felt so good. I, particularly, loved the feeling and was always asking him to do it. I'd sit on the lower step with my shirt pulled up in the back, and he'd sit on the top step moving the feather back and forth for as long as we wanted. So, being an innocent, I told him that there was other place that felt good to touch, and I realize now that he edged me on with his gentle questions. I ended up telling him it was between my legs, at night, and I used all sorts of things to touch myself - my fingers, the corner of my blankets, a soft blouse, etc. He suggested his feather would feel good there, too, of course. This memory is now one of my favorites to masturbate to.

One summer at dusk we were all in their backyard and he'd been put in charge of looking after the "kids" while our parents had gone somewhere together. We were just sitting around, and I asked him to tickle my back with his feather. That day I had on a dress, and when my friends wandered off somewhere, he asked if I wanted to feel the feather between my legs, and I instantly agreed to it. I pulled up my dress and he suggested I lay down facing him, with my wide-open legs wrapped around his kneeling knees. It's amazing that I can remember this so clearly, even today, and that I don't remember any feelings of doing something wrong. But then, going over and over it as I gently stroke my own thighs and pussy have probably carved it into my memory.

He said it would feel better if I took off my panties, which I did. I can remember him watching me as it began to feel really good, and I asked him not to look at my face, so he just stared between my legs. He made that feather do wonderful things, moving it slowly, then very fast, then placing the large end of the quill right against my little clit and vibrating it until I thought I'd exploded and couldn't stop jerking my hips around. I made him do it for a very long time. Miraculously, no one caught us, and it never happened again. Although, he'd often ask me if I could now make myself feel the same way at night, and I assured him I could. And, did! I'd learned how to have an orgasm and couldn't seem to stop having them! I even asked him if he'd do that to me again, and said maybe, but he never did. My orgasm certainly weren't intense, but there did seem to be a "peak" to my rubbing myself.

Finally, I got so good at bringing myself to somewhat of an orgasm that I went wild and began masturbating in all sorts of public places, not openly, of course, quite secretly. One favorite place was in a movie theater. I was about ten or eleven and I'd go with friends to a movie, then I'd move away from them and sit alone - usually close to the back. I'd lift one leg and put my foot up on the seat, and reach around the side of my leg so I could rub my fingers up and down my slit through my panties - or underneath the crotch. I stopped that when I noticed a man a few seats away watching me from the side of my raised leg where he could see everything. It was the very first time I ever saw a real, live, penis because he was stroking himself watching me and he moved his hand up and down very fast and came right in front of me. I saw it all, and stared, open-mouthed. I got very scared. He moved next to me and said he'd do the same for me, but I got up and ran.

My life progressed and so did my masturbation. For a long time I had to share a bedroom with my brother who was five years younger than me. I'd wait until he was asleep in his bed then I'd "tickle" myself until I "burst". Then - my mother caught me. She'd opened my door very quietly to check on us, and there I was, spread wide, covers down, nightgown up, rubbing my pussy with my stuffed bear! Unfortunately, she stood quietly watching me until I came. Then, she spoke and scared me to death, and told me never to do that again. Which, of course, had NO effect upon my masturbation habits.

As life progressed, I dated, went steady, got engaged, married, divorced, and the same thing over again three times. Sex has never been a problem area in any of my relationships because I love it. Thanks in great part to my love of masturbation. It's played a major role in making me very mature, sexually, and in becoming very familiar with my own body and how I feel when I'm touched. I've always been able to say or show someone just what I'd like, and it's always worked. It's encouraged them to be open with me about their masturbatory preferences, too. In fact, if it weren't for masturbation I'm certain I wouldn't be as knowledgeable or experienced about my own body as I am today. I've rarely ever used a vibrator because I was afraid I'd become addicted to one and not be able to use my hand, then.

Not to sound like a slut or anything, but mutual masturbation can be very satisfying with a partner if you don't want to actually have sex with penetration and risk pregnancy or disease. Just having your partner masturbate you using their creativity, has been wonderful in giving me even more ideas for my own masturbation, alone.

I've done a few things in my life of which I'm not particularly proud, but fantasizing about the few times I've been 'naughty' to an elderly man, and masturbated myself in front of him while I pretended he wasn't watching, was among the most exciting. I discovered I have a deep exhibitionist thing inside that absolutely makes me have an explosive orgasm. I did this to an old landlord who found every reason to come to my apartment to fix things. I finally gave him what he wanted, wearing a slinky nightie and laying across my bed masturbating while he watched me.

I did something similar in a friend's home when her husband kept coming on to me and I explained that I would never let him touch me since she was my friend. I figured out a way, however. He came into my room in the middle of the night, and without any words between us at all, he sat on the side of the bed, while I uncovered and proceeded to masturbate by every available means right in front of him, not allowing him to touch me. A few orgasms later, he was ready to burst, so I went down on him, and sent him back to his room. Not very nice, I know. But enormously sexually satisfying to both of us while never touching me. And, providing a wonderful memory for masturbation.

My experience with a professional masseuse, however, has become almost my favorite sexual experience to remember while I masturbate, I can't seem to ever make myself feel the same or bring about the same intensive orgasm I had during the actual experience. I'd asked for and paid for a "complete" massage, which, at this facility, meant "the works". I had no idea! The masseuse was very good and gentle (I hate hard massages unless they're sexual in nature) and I could not believe it when she actually uncovered my breasts and began gently stroking my nipples, which immediately responded by becoming very hard and erect. Then, she did my entire chest, and I was afraid to move. I was very relaxed and was becoming excited, but knew I could control myself. Until she began massaging my stomach and mound over my genitals. When she did my legs, her touch got very soft and she was circling around my thighs just letting her fingertips and hand touch between my legs. She slid her hands back and forth along the creases of my legs, then used both hands, and actually pulled open my vaginal lips and began massaging my pussy - or rather, all around it. I was a goner. When her fingers actually touched the hood of my clit in a soft rhythmic motion, my orgasm came in one huge, intense first spasm and my hips shot straight up in the air, No way to hide it if I could have done so. She was ready and pressed down and rubbed me harder and harder and kept me coming, and she rode each wave of my orgasm with me, making each one more intense. This lady really knew what she was doing! Afterwards, as I tried to catch my breath, I asked her why she'd done that, and she replied that I'd requested it!!!! We live and we learn!

I love to relive my sexual experiences while I masturbate. I believe my favorite turn ones are the hand held shower massage that I've now learned at least four ways of making myself come. My favorite being standing up and holding it about two inches away from my clit, pointing down, and parting my pussy lips with one hand - then, moving the shower back and forth up and down my whole slit. Each time it comes back to my clit it's very intense. I can tease myself up to coming over and over again, but when I want to come, I sit down and direct the hard spray directly on my clit and move the force all around my clit very fast, and up and down. It brings a wonderful orgasm and I can keep my orgasm coming with the steady pressure. I've almost passed out because the showerhead stays steady and can keep making you come. I really need to 'recover' afterwards, though, as I'm usually gasping my heartbeats so hard, that's usually the reason I stop.

I also love a long, gentle, masturbation. A nice bath, great music, and watching a very good porn video, makes me so ready that it's difficult to try to prolong it. I've also used some rather amazing items to make myself come, or so make it seem as if I'm not touching myself and someone else is doing it. I've used a turkey baster, using Astroglide on the rubber bulb and using that to rub all over my pussy. These are also the times that I remember the masseuse experience.

During a gynecological exam I was startled to feel the doctor begin to stroke my entire genital area with his moistened latex fingers. He even went around my clit a few times and back over it, while he examined me. He explained, a few moments after he'd started, that he was examining the outside, as he spread open my lips and continued to run his fingertips all over me, very gently. In a few moments he increased his pressure as he slid his finger inside and felt around, and I felt that he purposely hit my "G" spot, because I jumped. He pulled out his hand, and gently rubbed the outside again, then using a great deal of pressure, for only a few seconds, right on my clit as he manipulated it back and forth. He was saying something this whole time, but I'll be darned if I know what it was.

That man had stroked me into a wonderful state and I knew by the feeling that my clit was standing up - and, that he knew it, too. Naturally, nothing further happened and he was the picture of professionalism as he did the exam. BUT - here was a new fantasy! I bought very thin latex gloves, like he used, and used Astroglide and stroke my clit for only a few minutes before I had an explosive orgasm! I masturbated with that fantasy for the next few weeks, at least twice a day, and had some of the very best orgasms I'd ever had.

I love the feeling of repeat pressure and stroking over the top of my clit. No matter what source the pressure may be. I was once standing against the back of a regular office chair and the person sitting in the chair was rocking it back and forth. I was leaning forward to help them, and found the edge of the chair pushed right into my crotch, pushing right up against my lips on top of my clit. As she rocked back and forth I pressed in further and almost had an orgasm, but pulled back just in time. Another time I was leaning against a large piece of machinery that was hitting and drilling holes into large stacks of papers. Each time it would hit a new stack of paper, it pulled up and down several times very quickly to drill deeper into the papers, and the corner of the machine was pressing against my crotch. I began to get very turned on with no sexual thoughts, whatsoever, and came to the fastest orgasm ever - without even trying to! I was not alone then, and couldn't show any sign at all that I'd just had a wonderful orgasm.

Needless to say, I love to masturbate by any means that bring about a reaction. I can do it with lots of pressure hard and fast ...... or, slowly and gently. I think it's the years of experience that have taught me to be varied and do just what my libido happens to need. I also masturbate frequently before going on a date so that I'm not tempted during the date. Sort of like eating before you go out to dinner. ;-)

I've really appreciated the opportunity to share such private thoughts and feelings. It's the very first time I've ever put to paper my childhood experiences, too. I believe I'm an intensely tactile person who reacts strongly to the touch, and that has a lot to do with my love of orgasms and masturbation. I'd love to know what others think, too. (I just reread this and I'm shocked it's so long. I'm very sorry.)

Britney

When I masturbate, I first get undressed and start thinking some guy is touching me all over. Then I take a real big marker and slowly shove it in my pussy. For a few seconds I push it in and out. Then I take my pillows and roll them up and straddle them on the floor. I start humping them and imagine I'm humping my crush. My juices start running out and before I reach orgasm, I stop. After doing this a few times I take out the marker and finish humping the pillows until I orgasm.

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