Female Masturbation Techniques
& Experiences: Collection 6
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Jen
My name is Jen and I'm 16. I've been masturbating since I was very young, probably three years old, but only recently has it become a pastime for me. I'm a virgin and definitely not ready for sex, but I do embrace my sexuality. I feel that by masturbating I get to know my body more and then I will know what I want from a partner in the future when I'm ready for a physical relationship.
Since I was little I've been rubbing against things like blankets and pillows. I was caught a few times but I didn't realize why it was 'wrong' or even what I was doing. As I got older I learned more about my body and exactly what masturbation was. Since then, every summer when I was home alone I'd go through my daily masturbation routine but after a while I started feeling guilty. I don't know why, I guess because I had been told that it was 'bad' so I tried to stop. Well, as a sexual being that is very impossible. You can't suppress your sexuality once you've discovered it.
Up until last year I wasn't very experimental, then I discovered the Internet and sought out information on masturbation. I learned about the 'shower technique' but was a little discouraged since my shower-head was not detachable. I finally perfected a way to control the water flow and once I did it was wonderful.
Orgasms for me are really beautiful and euphoric; I hold them as sacred as I do my own virginity. Up until that point I still did not understand the origin of my pleasure until one night I was visiting my dad and stepmother and they had rented a movie for me with my favorite actor in it. I had no idea that the movie had any sexuality in it but as I watched it, it became apparent and I started getting aroused. I put my hand between my legs in a fist and rotated my thumb against my clit. It took me a while, I went into the bathroom so as not to be interrupted, stood against the wall and continued. That was really my awakening. I was so weak and euphoric; I shook for an hour afterwards and fell into the most wonderful sleep.
The good stuff:
When I returned home with my new found knowledge of my body I experimented with everything. I'm not comfortable with penetration so that isn't part of my practice at all but I have tried everything I can think of on my clit. The shower is still my favorite technique and I have since gotten a detachable shower-head. I've come up with a few techniques with that that I haven't seen mentioned here that I'd like to share.
The obvious one is laying on your back holding the shower head near your vulva and finding a comfortable setting for the water spray, then opening the vulva and spraying the water on the clitoris or labia minora. Well...it usually takes me forever to climax and my fingers would get tired of holding my labia open so I hooked the shower-head between my big toe and second toe and put my leg up letting the water hit my clit. This works very well if you like to be 'open' while masturbating.
Another good one is to stand with your legs spread and bent slightly then let the water hit your open vulva, clitoris and labia minora. It also helps to be near the faucet so you can change the water temp from cool to hot (the hot water mimics your own internal body fluid temperature causing a wave of 'cum' when it hits your labia minora, its a very nice feeling). This resulted out of a want to clench my leg muscles while climaxing, this way you can tense your muscles and bounce or gyrate against the water spray, plus you're standing up which is a great feeling.
Other than that I've tried the vacuum but it causes the air to be cold around your clit which isn't pleasant, pearls massaged against the clit but that can catch your skin and pinch it, also not pleasant. I'm still working on just using my fingers around my clit but haven't succeeded yet. Also, makeup brushes (obviously ones that have no been used and will not be used for makeup) are wonderful on the clit. The days I wear tight jeans I come home in a frenzy to 'get off' without realizing why at first.
The one really big perk of masturbation that people seem to neglect are its effects on your physical appearance. Between drinking lots of water and eating semi-sensibly and masturbating I've lost 20 lb. and toned my whole body, especially my leg muscles. It's GREAT for those of us who happen to store fat in the butt and hip area. So not only does masturbation contribute to your awareness of your sexuality and your body it contributes to your love of yourself and the love of your physical appearance which is SOOO important in a society where women are constantly pelted with images of 'attractive' women that they can never look like due to the lack of real-life airbrushing.
It really has made me a better person. Thanks sooooo much for letting me share:)
Anonymous
I'm 14 yrs old. I've been masturbating since I was 9 or 10. When I first came across masturbation, I used to feel really guilty. I would get out of the shower and sit on the floor in my room and pee on the towel. I never had an orgasm, but it felt so good. Later, I discovered it felt good to rub my pussy on things. So, I would lock the bathroom door and turn on the shower, like I was taking a bath, so no one would suspect. I'd get on my knees on the bathroom floor, with a washcloth or bath towel underneath me. Then I would hump or ride the washcloth or bath towel. I would think about this older guy I had a crush on; he was 15 at the time. I would picture him naked. I got my first orgasm this way. Then I started humping stuffed animals. When I was 12, I used to hold it [urine] in when I had to use the restroom, for like 2 hrs. Then I'd take one of my younger brother's pull ups [a diaper], and turn on the shower, acting like I was taking a bath. I'd pee in the diaper and then lie on my stomach on the floor and just lie there in the pee. It felt so good. I would start moving back and forth, and have a great orgasm. I still use some of those methods, and now I also use the showerhead. But I like to get nice and wet, usually by porn that I look at over the Internet, and then go sit in front of the mirror in my room. Then I start to rub my clit and fantasize. It's so good. I love it!
Anonymous
I always use a vibrator and at the same time insert my middle finger into my vagina and stimulate my G-Spot slowly. If I go slowly with both clitoral stimulation and fingering in and out, plus G-Spot stimulation, I will have multiple orgasms constantly. I find it arousing to do the same technique bent over as I enter myself from behind, my finger slowly dipping deeper, and the vibrator on my clit underneath me. I sometimes go to the whirlpool and have the water spray directly on my clit; that starts the throbbing underwater orgasms. There is nothing better than being a sexually oriented woman!
Kathy
Hi, I only discovered masturbation five or so years ago but only in the last few years have I got really good at it. I feel in order to have a sense of your sexual needs you must discover yourself first. I am not afraid to masturbate in front of my husband in fact many times we just masturbate with each other and we seem to have a stronger connection. I also recently discovered my attraction to other women and have experienced the relationship with another woman, I feel more women need to be more open with their bodies and not be afraid like we were taught as children, when I have a daughter of my own someday, I am going to teach her not to be afraid of her body, but to love it. Thank-you for this wonderful site!
Amanda
Hi. My name is Amanda; I'm 16 and bi-sexual. The way I like to masturbate is, when I'm kissing my girlfriend I fantasize about seeing her naked and that usually gets me ready. I like to start with one finger in my pussy and as I start to finger myself faster, I insert 2 or 3.
Anonymous
Hi. I love my pussy and it stays hot all the time lately, no matter how much my husband fucks me. I have been masturbating since I was a kid, and I still do it a lot. I seem to cum too quick when I get off by myself, and I wish I could make it last a little longer.
One great way I discovered I have not read on your site. I took one of the big sized plastic barrels that the mini M & M's come in and used it to masturbate. Talk about orgasms! Wow! I could do it over and over and still keep cumming. I pulled off all my clothes and propped up on my bed in front of a mirror. First I rolled around some and played with my giant tits. I started getting all wet and horny so I took the can and started stroking my pussy with it. I did not fuck myself with it because of the edges on the end. But, as I took bigger and bigger strokes, the plastic got hotter and hotter as it rubbed against my hot, wet pussy! Wow! I was cumming in about a minute. I was still so hot so I stroked my throbbing pussy some more with the can and I was cumming again. I must have done this three or four times in a row and was still so hot I could not stand it. My pussy was dripping and I could smell its sweet smell in the air. Best of all, with this much masturbating and cumming, my fingers and wrist weren't tired at all. Man, I am getting so wet and horny just thinking about it! My next fantasy is to see how many times I can cum while I am in the tanning bed! Talk about fun!
Emily
Hi, I started when I was about 10 or 11. First I found out that just rubbing the whole area on a arm of a chair, or with my hand or something really made me feel good. As time went on I would find new ways to making that pleasure come back only better. I started inserting things into my vagina. Anything I could find around the house worked. In the past, I've used candlesticks, carrots, markers; I've even made my own dildos. After I would get these things from around the house I would lie down on my bed and spread my leg apart as far as they could go and bend my knees. Then, I would take the object and rub it in between the lips to get myself and it wet. Then, I would insert it moving in and out while massaging my clit in a circular motion. I could orgasm in minutes this way. I'm now 16 and I do this at least twice a day when everyone's asleep. If during the day I feel horny, I just stick something small in my vagina like a maker and lay on my bed and read while moving my legs a little to make it stimulate just a little. I can do this for hours just teasing myself to wait for the night. I wish my friends would tell me how they do it to.
Renee
Well for me the technique I use is I get in the tub; I have a regular size tub. I lay on my back first and turn my water to the hottest I can bear. I play with my nipples and get them hard, then I use my two fingers on my right hand and play with my clit. I get as close to the water as I can putting my butt against the back of the tub and put my clit under the water and turn it up full blast and let it run on my clit until I can't stand it. It feels like a long tongue going to work then.....bammm.....I move cause it feels so good it is unbearable. Then I take my two fingers and put then in and move them in a circular motion until I cum a second time then play with my titties and I do this every morning or every time I get in the tub. Try it boy does it work.
Tia
I have different techniques of masturbation, depends how I feel that very moment, when I am horny. Sometimes, I do it 3-4 times a day. Today, I got down on my knees, watched myself in a mirror and started to grasp my nipples and than lick them. I imagine that my boyfriend watches me (he lives far away from me, in another country, for the moment I hope...). Then I started to rub my clit with my vibrator, fast, but with a very soft touch and kept licking my nipples. When I was about to come I extended the excitement towards the vagina zone and then thrust the vibrator inside my pussy and had a mega G-spot orgasm. I like anal stimulation too, my boyfriend bought me some toys and I use them often. I like to excite my clit, my anus, and my vagina at the same time and explode into a great orgasm. I am crazy about oral sex, so I fantasize a lot on this theme while I'm masturbating.
Kelly
I am a 20 year old married woman. I have been masturbating for a pretty long time now. I have really short fingers, which makes it hard to have vaginal penetration. I have tried many times to no avail. I have found a really great technique for vaginal penetration since my fingers are not a choice for me. I have a lotion bottle that is about 2 inches wide and 6 inches long. I love to stick it in my pussy and get off like that. It feels so exhilarating! I have used a variation of bottles, such as shampoo bottles, other lotion bottles, face-cleansing bottles, etc. My pussy throbs like never before when I do this!
Another method: I lay flat on my back, preferably on the floor so there is no bouncing around of the bed. I straighten out my feet and put them together. I then place my right hand on my pussy and my left hand on top of my right hand. I use my middle finger of my right hand to rub my up & down, up & down on my clit. I have always put my left hand on top of my right hand. It just feels better that way. I can't come if I don't. I suppose it's because my left hand provides more pressure to my pussy that just my right hand alone. Using this method, I usually come in about 1 minute. After I come, I usually do this again 3 or 4 more times. It takes up a lot of energy to do this. My legs are straightened out in front of me and very tensed up. But it feels damn good!!!!!
I have always wanted to try using other objects such as cucumbers, squash, and other edibles to insert in my pussy but have never gotten brave enough. Maybe some day I will get brave! Wish me luck!!!
Anonymous
I have a really good masturbation technique that I've recently discovered. I prop myself up against the headboard of my bed (leaning back), with a couple pillows behind me with my legs spread wide. Then I use a vibrator to lightly touch my clit, and bring it back, kind of teasing myself. This gets me really horny and lubricated. Once I feel like penetration would be pleasurable I insert a cylinder-like brush handle into my vagina. I rotate it inside of me, while still teasing myself with the vibrator. After I get really hot, I let the vibrator come in contact with the part of the brush that's outside my body. This makes the brush vibrate inside me, while the vibrator is still on my clit...OMG! Then I squeeze my vaginal muscles to hold the brush in, so my hands are free to work the vibrator. This gives me the most intense orgasms I've ever had.
Carol
Hello I have enjoyed this site and reading about how other woman masturbate. And I wanted to share my favorite ways to please my self. I love to lay on the bed with all my clothes off and I first start playing with the boobs and gently pinching my nipples this starts me to feeling really good. I then start to feel my vagina getting hot and wet then I take my left hand and open my outer lips really wide I love to have my lips spread open then with my right hand I use my finger and slowly at first rub my clit up and down making sure that I go down and get my finger wet I like for my clit to be wet then, I start going around in circles on my clit it feels so good then take my finger or sometimes two fingers and stick in side me and take them in and out slow then a little faster till it starts to really feeling good then come back up and rub my clit and sometimes I'll smack my clit this feels so good it makes my clit start to swell then I rub around in circles on my clit faster and faster then I feel like I'm ready to cum I stick my fingers back in me and rub my clit at the same time oh my; what a orgasm I have it's great. I also use the hand held shower attachment and hold it directly on my clit and have some of the most wonderful orgasms ever. Thanks for letting me share my story.
Barb
I've been masturbating since I was about 9. I used to do the way where I would bunch up a blanket or jacket or something, and hump it. I still use that technique, but I recently started using the showerhead technique. OMG it feels sooo good! Feeling the hot water pounding on my clit! I reach orgasm in about a minute. For people who haven't tried this way... You have to! It is wonderful, and the orgasms are intense and unbearable!
Tabbie
Hi my name is Tabbie and I'm 19..I"ve been masturbating since I was about 11 I think, I used to get those gloves from the doctor's office and fill them up with water, and hold the water in one finger so it was hard and insert it in my vagina while I rubbed the top part over my clit that I really didn't even know was there as the time, I think I really discovered myself when I was about 12, I started with water spray in the bathroom, I would lay on my back and turn the water on full blast and get under the bath spray, I think the first time I did this I came instantly...after that I used everything I could, my favorite was the bath, or this vibrating pen I used to put on my clit while I spread my pussy lips apart while sitting in front of this large mirror I had in my bedroom...God I remember how easily I use to cum then...I have recently discovered a new technique since I have moved out on my own. I like to lay on my back on my bed and I have this back message thing that has a heat radiated head, I press this against my clit while I insert a dildo in my vagina and my middle finger into my butt while keeping the top of my hand pressed on to the top of the vibrator and I start to move my finger in my ass and the vibrator in my pussy in thrusts while keeping the massager on my clit..omg! I cum so hard and fast..sometimes I can't go to sleep without it, try it..it works wonders!
Anonymous
I have been masturbating since I can remember. I started by rubbing up against arms of chairs or couches and humping my stuffed animals. I used to find my dad's porn and read and stare at the pictures. I also read some of my mother's romance novels. All these things made me so hot and wet. About two years ago I finally discovered how great it was to touch my hard juicy clit directly when I was really wet. In fact it makes me wet just thinking about it. My favorite thing to do is rub my clit while boyfriend is fingering me or even fucking me (especially from behind) I love tightening up on something hard inside my pussy. I love this sight and visit it at least once a week. Its given me some awesome orgasms. Thanks keep them cUmming!!!
Ellie
I'm a 41 year old woman....seems kind of funny writing this but actually I promised a friend I would...I have always had a very huge appetite for sex and been very orgasmic, but was raised with the "old fashioned" attitudes...you don't "touch yourself down there"...My sex life has been wonderful been married to a awesome man for many years. I really never knew what I was missing till I began reading your site...I've always been very orgasmic....just never brought myself to pleasure alone...I love oral sex and very sensual foreplay...My story begins...One day here on the web I met a very sexy older man...we began a very sensual online relationship...he is very sexual...very caring and makes me feel very sexually open...one day we started to play....just sexy chat..and I got very very hot....I think he did too....it was kind of amazing....he kind of took control of the situation and I found myself wanting to touch myself with every sensual sweet word....I sat back and began to finger my wet lips....as he instructed I began massaging my clit.........I had never had an orgasm like this...OMG...Just slowly massaged in slow soft circles...spreading my thighs fantasizing he was doing it.....wow...what a rush...as we kept the sensual chat up I began to get more and more excited...I had a different feeling I had never experienced....I think me controlling the strokes and movements on my body made it more exciting......it was kind of cool....I felt like a "Virgin" all over again....all of a sudden the familiar feeling came upon me.....I was instructed to stroke my clit faster. OMG it was so awesome....I bursted into I think one of the most explosive orgasms I had ever had....I could barley touch myself things were so sensitive....I think having your mind stimulated as well as your body is wonderful....Just want to say in closing "thanks" to my very special friend for opening a new and wonderful world up for me.....he'll never know how much it means to me....heh heh heh gonna send this letter to him. Love your site.
Anonymous
I have been masturbating since I was twelve. I would often stay home from school and spend the day exploring my budding body. I would first caress my breast and then move down to my clit. I would sometimes use a brush to provide vaginal penetration. Now that I am older and married and can truly appreciate my beautiful pussy. My clitoris is bigger than average and I truly enjoy it. My husband does not have as strong of a sex drive as I do. I can't wait until he leaves home so I can pleasure my self. I have a dildo that is truly amazing. I read the experiences of other women and insert this special piece of equipment into my wet pussy. I get very juicy and enjoy listening to the slurping sound it makes. It also has a clitoris stimulator, so I enjoy getting both spots going at the same time. I have to go now and finish.
Adrian
I have masturbated from about 6 years old and love to play with myself, on my own I lay on my back and bring my legs back so I can get both hands between my legs. Then I spread my pussy lips open with one hand and quickly flick my clit with the middle finger of the other hand. As I get wetter I slow down and start to rub my clit and then begin to penetrate myself, as I get more turned on the deeper my two middle fingers go until I am fucking myself harder until I come.
The best way is with my b/f, we strip each other from the waist down and I sit on the side of the bed or the couch. I open my legs and he kneels in front of me or sits on the floor. The sight of him naked below and dressed up top adds to the excitement, I begin to pull myself open and let him watch me finger my pussy as he starts to jerk off. We look at each others genitals as we masturbate and encourage each other to come, the sight of his balls moving and the slapping sound as he pulls his cock is a real turn on for me and sometimes I smear some of my juices under his nose so he can smell me as he jerks off. Just rubbing my clit really hard and dipping my finger in is enough to make me come violently and noisily, I am usually first to do so and my b/f will finish off by coming on my pussy or tits. I haven't tried the showerhead method, as I am frightened of burning myself with hot water!
Anonymous
Hi, I'm 12 years old, and one day I decided I wanted to learn how to masturbate, so I came to this site. No body was home, so I decided to take off all of my clothes, and try out some of the techniques. I came right away, and had my first orgasm. Thanks!
Kathy
I love this sight! I just stopped in yesterday for the first time.
I am 42 years old and have been masturbating since I was a child. Recently I have been doing it more frequently due to a hormone replacement that makes me quiet horny.
To be honest while reading these posts I feel myself becoming wet as I become very aroused.
My favorite way of masturbating is to first undress myself. I love to massage myself all over with oil, paying close attention to my big breasts. I gently rub and squeeze them. Then I massage my stomach legs and butt, It feels so good. I then love to feel something cool against my clit. I spread my lips far apart and gently lean against the bathroom sink. It feels so good. I also enjoy watching myself in the mirror so I often masturbate in front of the mirror. My favorite fantasy and desire is to make love to another woman. I love to look at pictures of lesbians loving each other. I imagine myself kissing her all over. Holding her warm body next to mine. Gently stinking my tongue in her mouth. Kissing her nipples and finally sticking my tongue inside of her a gently flicking my tongue against her clit. I am so close to cuming as I write.
It is so good to know that what I am doing is very natural and my fantasy is very natural too.
Thanks for this site.
Kelly
I'm Kelly. I'm 19 and have been masturbating since I was four or five. I don't really remember how I got started, but all I know is that I touched myself down there, and it felt good. Now I masturbate almost every day. First, I usually start be looking at sexy pictures of women and reading smut. Then, when I feel my pussy getting really wet, I start to touch myself. I usually lay down in bed and start by touching my breasts. Then, when my nipples get hard, I touch my wet pussy. I start to move my fingers over my clit while I imagine some one watching me or another woman touching me. While I'm not gay, I think that another women touching me is very erotic. Once I feel myself getting close to coming, I sick two fingers inside me. I come so hard.
Mirjam
I masturbate quite a lot, sometimes several times a day. Since I am single and a partner is not always available, it is a great way to get rid of sexual tensions. I recently discovered a nice technique; I use an electrical toothbrush! I know this sounds weird, but it feels absolutely great; just hold the brush against your clit, and don't put too much pressure on it. WOW!
Anonymous
I am a 28 year old female who can not seem to get enough sex.. Seems I always am in the mood when my man is not around. I have learned a great way to masturbate. I have a 6 inch long vibrator that I slowly work around my outer lips until they become aroused. I slowly insert it in and out until I am wet and then lube my clit area really good. I then turn it on high and insert it as far as it will go. While holding it with my muscles, I also turn on another vibe that I have. This one is like one that you would use on sore muscles. It has a "cup" on it that is about 2 inches round. I then separated my lips again and place it on me. I can rock until I get to the right position...and then BAM!! It is a great feeling. Reading a porno book also helps while doing this....
Norma
I will sit and think about 2 men enjoying my body one with lips sucking on my clit and the other sucking and biting on my nipples. I then begin to fantasize that someone else walks in the room and wants to join us. This person is a woman and she says let me do this because I know exactly where the clit is. I then undress and stand in front of a mirror and open myself completely up while caressing my breasts. Once in a while I will squeeze my clit. I can do this for a long time - sometimes getting dressed and starting over again later. The excitement building is wonderful. When I get ready to cum I then place a mirror on the floor and kneel over it. Spreading my lips open exposes the already swollen clit, and working either my finger or using my clit kisser, while pumping the knob for suction. Watching my clit, which is already down and out, go in and out with the suction creates the most wonderful and intense orgasm.
I also will use a plastic bottle with the larger the mouth the better. Create suction first by squeezing it somewhat and then place open top against the clit and releasing the suction is the most incredible feeling. I often do this while reading the letters here. Every so often I squeeze the sides of the bottle to create the suction. Do this just enough to keep the excitement going and then I use my finger to rotate around my button. The clit is swollen and very extended after being in the bottle top.
Cathleen
I am 23 years old and have been treating myself to the pleasure of masturbation since I was a little girl.
I am quite an innocent person in that I have only had sex with two men before and felt that I loved them both. But...at the same time I am very sexual! I touch myself sometimes 3 times a day! This may seem mad but I love my orgasms! I can have two or more each time just from touching my clitoris in a special way.
I lie with my feet upon the headboard of my bed and a mirror wedged between my knees, the visual effect really works wonders for me! I then part my labia and look into my vagina and this gets the desire going in me! I rub one side of my clit up and down, not in a circular motion and what a sensation!
I have a large clit which has always been so tender or sensitive, my school friends never got turned on when anything brushed against them down there and always laughed when I did!
When we skipped at school there was a time when some boys ran by, grabbed the rope one on either side and myself with it still between my legs, the rope was raised and pulled back and forth...I had my first orgasm on that occasion and don't think any of the other kids knew why I went week at the knees and had to sit down!
Anyway, I am lucky to have such a great disposition to pleasuring myself, it is very much in ones mind too.
Anonymous
I am 19 years old and have been masturbating since I was about 14. I had thought about it plenty of times before I actually tried it, but I was too scared to give it a go. I can't make myself orgasm manually, nor can any of the guys I have been with, the only way I seem to be able to orgasm is by lying underneath a stream of running water. I fantasize about watching my boyfriend masturbate (this really turns me on - mainly because I picture him to be thinking about me).
The only problem is I don't like only being able to orgasm using this method. Not only do I want to find other ways, but I want my boyfriend to be able to make me orgasm. I really enjoy it when he licks and sucks on my clitoris but I still don't end up having an orgasm, well I haven't so far. Another thing is I love sex. I love the feeling I get when we have sex; it's just completely different to being under the bath. I would love to be able to combine both... I can only imagine how good that would feel! If any one has any suggestions please let me know!!!
Ilze
I am coming near to my 30th birthday, but I have masturbated since my childhood; at least since I was 5 y.o. Although I did not realize then that it was masturbation. Unlike most of the other women, I mainly love to play with my nipples. I would like to suck on them, but although my breasts are very beautiful, they are not big enough I could reach. Therefore, I feel myself in heaven when tweaking my nipples and imaging a male is pinching and sucking on them while his penis is in my vagina. One of my favorite tools I have used since very early childhood is a couple of laundry pins; I squeeze my nipples so they hurt a little, but is not traumatic. This little pain is the best I have ever felt and gives me feelings. My clit is less sensitive, but when I stimulate my nipples I get wet, although this for me is secondary. I can reach the best feelings only when I play with my nipples.
Anonymous
Hi, I'm 14 and bisexual (no its not a phase) I usually masturbate using stuffed animals or pillows. Please, can anyone tell me different ways to masturbate the old ways are boring? Thanks :)
Anonymous
I love to masturbate! Every since I found your website I cannot stay off of it. I like to do it when I am alone. I usually take all of my clothes off. I start my playing with my nipples until I just can't stand it. Then I let my hand find my clitoris and I start rubbing. I usually tease myself by thinking about kissing another woman or playing with her breasts. I also like to think about licking her nipples and touching her until she comes. I think also about having sex with my husband while another woman watches or including her....
I usually daydream until I just can't take it anymore. Then I rub my cunt until I come. Sometimes I hump the pillow on my bed or just my hand. I also like to finger myself. Thanks for helping me pleasure myself!!!
Anonymous
Wow, reading all of your responses made me recall how I first got started masturbating. I am 58 and had forgotten about my first masturbation experience. I think my first experience was playing "doctor" with a little girlfriend around age 6. I don't remember having an orgasm but I was fascinated by both of our bodies. I do recall around age 11-12 using my mother's weight reducing machine because I wanted to lose a little weight. It was a machine that had a motor on it with a wide belt attached. You put it around your butt or thighs and supposedly it shook-off the fat. Well one day I got the belt a little too high while on my thigh and WOW, I hit my pussy. I immediately became excited and wet. Soon I learned to direct the belt to "just the right spot." I would masturbate on that thing for hours while my mother went shopping. That way I could make noises and not get caught. One day she came home early and I was nervous because I had gotten the belt all wet. I never lost any weight but I had a huge smile on my face. It was a sad day when that machine went to the second hand store. I then had discovered the pleasure of my clitoris and figured out how to masturbate in the bathtub and shower. I was never so squeaky clean. As I had my first "real" sexual experience with a man I didn't seem to masturbate as often. The first time I had sex I was 22 and we did it in a farmer's wheat field. Ever since then I have had a fantasy about having sex out in nature. I've had the pleasure of doing "it" that way several times. But back to the masturbation. I have found that when I am traveling by car on a long road trip that my fantasies begin to run wild, particularly it I am traveling alone. So I have often found myself driving on long stretches of highway and slipping off my bra. I have VERY large breasts and find them extremely sexy and exciting. I start by playing with my nipples under my shirt until they are very hard. Then when I am good and horny I slip my right hand down my pants and start stroking my clit and lips. I can hardly stand it when they get wet and if it is safe I rub as fast as I can stand it until I cum. If it is not safe then I pull off at the next off ramp that is somewhat remote and have a huge orgasm. I try to keep rubbing at least one nipple, usually the left one because that intensifies the whole experience. One time I even used a zucchini I had in the car and worked it so hard it fell apart. Then I am on my way again. I usually just leave my hand in my pants until the urge comes again. Sometimes I'll masturbate 5 or 6 times on a one-day road-trip. It's exciting to try to be discreet when a truck passes by that might look in, on the other hand it is exciting to think I might get seen. When my husband is along then we sometime please each other as we drive, but I get a bigger thrill out of masturbating myself on these trips. I also used to go with my family on trips to Las Vegas. I always got my own room. Little did they know that I used this as a fantasy party for myself. I would go into the fancy bedroom with all the mirrors, take off my clothes and begin "playing with myself". I would end up on the bed rubbing my fingers on my clit and scream to the top of my voice in ecstasy. I'm just wondering does any other woman out there like to smell her juices after she's masturbated? I am kind of get turned on by the smell. I know my husband does. I also just remember masturbating when I was 16 in the far back of the station wagon on a road trip with my dad and his friend. They never knew, I think they thought I was asleep in a sleeping bag.
Anonymous
I'm a 15-year-old girl and I masturbate regularly. When I was younger I used to like the feeling I got when my clit pressed against the corner of the furniture, though I didn't know what it was at the time. I'm a twin and I used to take baths with my sister, we used to play with each other and pour water over each others genitals and stroke each other, it felt good and we didn't realized why then, we stopped doing this once we were about 9 years old and realized it wasn't "normal," I used to also play "doctors and nurses" with a friend from down the street when I was younger with involved fingering each others clits and vaginas.
Once I was older, I no longer did these activities with my sister and my friends, and I started masturbating on my own. Mostly I would just cross my legs and press them together which felt good, but I didn't know how to stimulate myself in a better way than that. When I was about 13 I was staying at my grandmas house over the summer and it was a really hot and sticky night and I was lying on my bed with all the covers ripped off, and I found myself experimenting with putting my finger inside my vagina like my sister and friends used to do to me, I found that it felt fantastic to lie back and ram the middle finger of my left hard right inside me, especially if I pressed forwards slightly, hitting my g-spot! :D I never reached an orgasm this way though. This was the method of masturbation I used for about a year, until I discovered my clitoris.
The method I find works best for me now is to make a fist of my right hand and rub side to side over my clit, slowly to begin with, and work up the speed. This gets me really wet really fast, and feels great, though I have bruised myself by doing this too hard before so take care if you try it!!! I often find my wrist gets very tired just before I reach my climax, I have a bed which has a sort of railing on the side as it used to be a bunk bed so I grip onto this with my left hand while I use my right fist to grind my clit. When I'm about to come I slow down slightly to get my breath, then I rub really really hard and fast till I get a fantastic rush through my entire body, and my legs shake slightly. I don't make any noise as I cum, I just breathe faster and pant a bit. Just recently I tried leaving one or two fingers inside my vagina just before I reach an orgasm, and rubbing my clitoris while they are still inside, this gives me a longer orgasm and it feels great to have my vaginal muscles clench around something as i cum and makes me feel more aware of the contractions.
I have also tried the shower technique that many of the people on here have talked about, but I do it slightly differently. Instead of just letting the water hit me, I press the shower head against me while the water is coming out, which feels like you are being licked and rotate it over my clit. If I can't get the water to a suitable temperature I just rub without the water, but this can be slightly painful because of the small holes which stick up and bit and grate against you.
I've masturbated to orgasm while reading peoples experiences on your site, and other things like the descriptions of cunnilingus, so thank you for a wonderful site. :)
Rachel
My name is Rachel and I'm 19.
I first started masturbating when I was about 4 or 5. I would go in my room and sit on a pillow and bounce up and down. My parents caught me a few times and at first they just told me to stop and that it was bad, but then when they caught me again, my dad started spanking me for it, with a belt. I tried to stop, but I just couldn't stop thinking about how good it felt. So I would do it in the bathroom, just take a pillow in there with me, or do it in my room after my parents had gone to sleep. I never got caught that way, thank God, but I always felt guilty and I was always scared of being caught in the act. I used this same method until I was probably 17 when I first looked on this website. At first, I felt very uncomfortable trying to masturbate with different techniques, like it just wasn't right or something.
After a lot of practice, I finally reached orgasm laying on my back using my index finger to stroke the right side of my clit. I always keep my legs apart, and my hips start to move when I get really aroused. Now I prefer to use a vibrator. I lay on my back in my bed, with my legs apart and touching my feet together. I take the vibrator and rub it against the sides of my clit, in a back-and-forth motion. I usually reach orgasm in less than a minute (I wish it would take longer but I haven't figured out how to do that yet). I can usually have multiple orgasms.
I have decided that when I have children, I will not punish them if I catch them masturbating. As long as they do it in private, it's their business. I feel that because my dad spanked me so much for this, that is why I don't have a very good relationship with him now. Also, I have felt that sex is a bad thing, probably because of getting spanked for masturbating. I'm working really hard to try to make myself understand that masturbation is natural, and that I'm not a freak for doing it. This website has helped a lot and I'm really glad I found it.
Anonymous
My technique of masturbation works quite wonderfully for me. I like to masturbate at least twice a week. I use a chair, one with ripples on the legs. I straddle the leg of the chair and rub my vulva up and down while lying on my stomach. I come so quickly. I wish it would last longer sometimes. Although I sometimes make it last by stopping and just catching my breath. Teasing myself. I have done this in front of my husband and he really enjoyed watching me. Sometimes I would perform oral sex on him during this, while he watches my buttocks hump up and down on the chair leg, while talking to me and telling me how sexy I look. Although, I come quicker and more intense when I am alone, and sometimes I will use my spandex bathing suit bottoms and pull them down just enough to slip the leg of the chair between my crotch and the bathing suit bottoms. This allows a little more pressure. I can feel the chair leg rubbing in between my buttocks too. A wonderful feeling! Sometimes I will use lubrication on the chair leg but most of the time I don't have to though. I have also used plastic wrap, wrapped around the leg of the chair for a little variation, and smother friction.
When I was younger I had a table (sewing machine table) that I used to use. I would scoot it up to the edge of the bed and lay on my back, at the edge, and ride the table. Pinching my nipples and fantasize that another man or woman was performing oral sex on me. I am 39 years old and have been having wonderful orgasms like this since I was 18. Hopefully if others try this method, they will find the same type of satisfaction as I do. I love it!!
Anonymous
Hello. I'm 23 and still a virgin, and I masturbate often. I enjoy it very much. I've been masturbating since I was about 9 or so. I have never gotten caught yet! I love masturbating it feels so good. The part I like most is the pinching of the clitoris, at times its so intense that I have to slow down on it. However to me masturbation gets me up when I'm down, and have a lot on my mind. It relieves stress, and gives me that tingling sensation that I enjoy.
Anonymous
I am 41 years old and had my first orgasm when I was 10. It happened by mistake, I had been messing around "down there" in the bathroom one lunch time. As I had to go back to school I stood up and suddenly had my first orgasm it was amazing so much so I moaned uncontrollably and had to straddle the bath to rub my vulva. It took me ages to find out how to have another orgasm but when I did I couldn't stop. I used my fingers at first and masturbated several times a day. One night I had around 20 orgasms one after another. I masturbated at school sitting at my desk with my hand busy underneath rubbing my clitoris, in the public swimming pool with some guy watching me although I didn't know why. I have masturbated in my car whilst driving along. I have used an electric toothbrush, the shower head with pulsating water, the Hoover [vacuum cleaner] with the very thin tool attached - just big enough to fit my clitoris in (wow what a sensation that is when my labia vibrates against the plastic) -I come in 30 seconds. I like to masturbate with a full bladder and force the pee out especially when I come. I think your site is wonderful - I regularly read the experiences and yes you guessed it - I masturbate whilst reading - Thank you
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