Female Masturbation Techniques
& Experiences: Collection 32
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Well, for me, I start off by sitting in front of a large mirror, fully naked. (Its the best view you can have while your boyfriend/husband is gone!) Then, I start to massage all over my body till I'm in the mood. Once I get my juices flowing, and my clit is all hot and finished being teased I slide my finger up in me to get a good orgasm. But sometimes I slide a dildo or something round in there while my right hand is rubbing on my clit and my left hand massaging on my nipples. The best way to get turned on EVEN MORE is to stare at yourself the entire time. Getting a god look at your own body is very sexy, and it creates an ecstasy like no other!! TRY IT!!
Arie
Hi, I've been masturbating since about 10. I discovered my clitoris by accident, as I thought that was 'where your pee came out of' whilst in the bath tub, and it felt really good. I realized it was a bit sensitive to touch, so would just stroke it a bit. Then I used an electric nail file - with a soft buffing pad on, to stimulate my clitoris and I did this for 4 years. I could make myself ejaculate - without knowing what it was - at only 13.
Now, at 18, when I get horny, I stroke my clit until my panties are soaking wet. Then I spread my legs as far apart as possible and roll my clit in between my fingers, thrusting my hips as I go. As I get nearer to cumming, I place a finger to the opening of my vagina, and tease myself (as the pleasure get stronger, I reward myself by pushing my finger in further.
Masturbation is a strong part of my life- and I'm proud to say I do it. And I plan on doing it for the rest of my life.
Jen
I like to masturbate using an electric toothbrush. I use the Oral B Pulsar, I put it on my clit and massage it moving it gently, in circles or side to side, twisting it what ever if feel like,I come so hard. I have another two of them too sometimes i put one in my pussy, which feels so good having them both at the same time. The other day I was feeling so horny I had one on my Clit and one in my pussy and the other one in my ass it felt AMAZING.
Kirsty
So I'm 18, I've been masturbating for about 3 years now. It just started with slow rubbing, and I would put my finger in. in the beginning I didn't really get it, and I didn't know about my clit.
The best thing I've done is in the shower with a moveable head, and making it rush against my clit, it is so intense, when I'm doing it, its all I think about.
Now, when I talk to a friend of mine, we'll cyber a bit and I end up fingering myself, and cumming all over my pants. but its never the same as in the shower, and I'm just afraid that I'm getting used to this feeling, and with a guy I'll be slightly defective.
Is cumming the same as an orgasm? Because to me being with a guy beats masturbating, but I haven't been with a guy in a while, and I just feel horny like all the time..
Payton
I have been masturbating since I was about 10 or 11. I don't remember how it started, but I do remember having cable that was connected to all of the TVs in the house. I remember watching HBO and Cinemax late at night when the soft porn would come on. I would play with myself and watch those. It seemed like I was horny all the time! When I was a teenager I used to enjoy talking about sex with guys online and describing my masturbation to them. I have even done it on the phone with strangers! I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21, now I'm 24 and engaged and I am constantly horny. My fiance surprisingly does not have a high sex drive. So I masturbate. Sometimes I masturbate in front of him and it MAKES him horny. I usually just rub my nipples and that gets me going. Then I just rub my clit over the hood until I get close. then I stop, get close again, then stop. When I finally cum its pretty powerful. Sometimes I fantasize about being with another girl, but I am defiantly not a lesbian. I get super when and I drip a lot but I've never been able to squirt... would love to though.
Sondie
I was reading the experiences of others on the above and was very excited by them. However, I have a more practical approach to examining my pussy and masturbating.....which I've been doing for years and very effective.
Firstly, when I get excited, I start to pull one side of my panty leg aside and rub my clit. As I begin to get wet and my pussy starts to get slippery from all that juice, I hurriedly get undressed..as, clothing gets in the way when you are HOT. I strip, place the mirror on the edge of a stool, turn on a lamp nearby. I have one always nearby. Then I spread my legs wide open over the mirror and position the mirror so that the lights reflect like a spot light on my pussy which lets me get a better view of my pussy. Due to the lack of clothing, I now have both hands free to spread my pussy lips wide open, examine it in all its glory and angles, rub or roll the shaft of my clit [in the hood which protects the clit] between my fingers so it gets enlarged...now push back on the hood and look at my enlarged wet glistening clit with more juices in vagina. Usually, I don't have a problem as my pink sensitive clit is already protruding as soon as I spread my lips. When my clit is wet, I can use my fingers and run over it...and it feels sooo goooood!!! As I am using a make-up mirror, it gets better because I can flip to the magnifying side to get an up-close view of my wet glistening pussy. I've done this so many times.....especially when I get excited, I MUST spread my pussy wide open to examine it as I think it's the most beautiful out there and it's like I'm seeing my pussy for the first time!!
Lyn
I like to draw a nice warm bath, but only so its up to my hips when I lie in it. I usually use bathrooms as well. Then I get the attachable hose with the head to the faucet and use it as a jet on my clitoris under the water. It feels so good that way, especially when I rub it. After that I know I'm wet with my own juices - just the thought of that gets me even wetter. I get onto my knees raise one leg onto the side of the bath so my legs are wide open. Depending on how I feel I'll start gently. I slide my fingers over my opening and slide the juices over my clitoris and rub very softly teasing myself. I would do this over and over again, never letting my fingers actually penetrate, even though I so want to. Sometimes I imagine a man or woman licking or fingering my anus. Just to tease myself further I'll quickly insert my finger into my vagina and quickly take it out. Next time slower and then I pick up the pace, knowingly my hips usually start to rock. Sometimes it gets so intense I lay my head on the edge of the bath so I can use both hands. One on my clitoris and the other fingering so hard and quickly. I can feel my walls start to spasm around my fingers and I know I'm so close to coming. Most of the time I let myself, but sometimes I stop abruptly and start all over again.
Laura
I love to go in a hot tub and press my pussy hard against the water jets!! If you ever masturbate and get nothing out of it, trust me, this will get it for you! I am not exaggerating when I say, this is by far the best feeling I have EVER felt in my entire life!!! I'm telling you guys this puts your pussy in heaven!! At first it wont really feel that good but then you'll start getting this slight feeling and then it gets more and more intense until your clit explodes and you jump and you clit can't take it anymore, so you'll have to wait a few minutes before you can do it again! I'm telling you guys this is the BEST feeling you will EVER feel in your whole entire life!!! By far waaaaaay better than sex!!
Anonymous
I had recently turned 18, and after four years of trying (and failing) to masturbate in a satisfying way, I discovered the one technique that makes me come without fail. I lie in the bathtub, spread my knees, and run warm water over my vulva, shifting repeatedly so that the intense stream of water doesn't numb one area. Sometimes, to enhance the experience, I put a finger up my butt (amazing), or in my vagina to massage my g-spot. My favorite part of masturbating is not the orgasm itself, but the divine, inevitable rush that precedes the actual spasms.
Emma
I was quite young when I first started to masturbate. I first accidentally found out that it felt good when you touch yourself on the clit it was when I was in my sitting room and I accidentally touched my clit on the edge of the sofa, after that I rubbed myself on the sofa on purpose and rubbed on pillow edges. Then shortly after I found out that I could use my finger to rub myself and it felt so good. One day I walked past my brother's bedroom and he was watching porn and he was masturbating and his room was right next to mine but I felt so turned on by it so I shut my door (left it open a little bit enough so I could hear) then I started to rub myself and it was the first time I had a proper orgasm. It was so warm, then when I went to borrow my mum's jacket in her room one day I discovered that she had a vibrator, so later on in the evening I got her vibrator, washed it, then I used it. I went on for hours having sensational orgasm's one after the other.
I am now in a relationship with a gorgeous man and I lost my virginity too him, and now I enjoy sex, we have sex as much as we can, trying out different positions; we love Karma Sutra :). We have started to use thing's such as body paint, oooo yummy yummy. But there is one question I would like to ask, is there anything around houses that is good too use (when my partner ain' t here) ;).
Willow
I was at Walmart the other day and there were these mini back-massagers. I took one, just because my friend told me it felt amazing against your clit. I took one, went to a little corner and started masturbating with it. It felt AMAZING and a huge wave of orgasm hit me. I started screaming and this person asked me if I was fine and I told her that I was fine, obviously lying. But it felt great and you should buy one of those, really!
Dorio
I love to touch myself, I get horny all the time, but don't have a lot of chances to get my cookies. When I do, I love to make my little pussy climax as hard as possible! I have large breasts, and tender nipples, so playing with them and sucking my nipples gets downstairs roaring. Rubbing my boobs, then tummy I slowly start that circular motion on my labia, not wanting to go straight to that little clit. By the time my panties are soaked, my nipples harder than rocks, I start to touch it lightly. Going up and down at first turns me on a lot.
When I start rubbing on target, I have an orgasm that makes my thighs weak, juices squirt, and the moaning is almost too much. Boy, it is well worth it.
Katherine
One thing I have to say about this site is I love it!
And the stories are soo hot!
I've been masturbating since I was 11.
The first time I did was I would stick a pillow between my legs and squeezed them super tight. Then usually stop.
One night I woke up so hot. I couldn't go back to sleep, I took off my clothes, cause it was so hot. I turned on the tv. And saw a movie I guess with two people having sex, I watched it. I was soo aroused by that.
So I put my pillow between my leg...
As the movie went on, and their sex getting hotter. The stimulation was to strong, I turned off the t.v locked the door, and took of my bra, and, panties I started, touching my body, teasing myself. I finally opened my legs wide, rubbed, my vagina up and down. I hit this spot that, felt tingly, (I later learned this was your clit) I rubbed it soo lightly and fast I was cumming all over my hand. I wiped it all over my pillow (still turned on) I rode the pillow humping it as hard as I could.
Now I learned a lot more.. Thanks a lot to this sight.. I have been using the shower method since last summer. I start first by filling the tub up to my stomach, then I sit down, putting the showerhead to hot and directly to my clit.. Put my head back and I don't know what I think about.. Mostly about hot sex or people talking dirty to me. Then I start to moan softly.
Once I feel like I built this horniness, I remove the showerhead and start rubbing my clit. Then I stop again, for at least a few seconds, then continue with the showerhead.
Then I have this really long orgasm.
Right now I have a water bottle filled with hot water, just moving around, so.. I think I'm gonna finish this off.
So continue to keep sending your stories, tips, fantasies, etc.. And keep people satisfied with all your hot stories. Like me right now!
Your site makes people walk away happy and horny.. Thank you for letting me share my technique and stories :)
Steph
I'm 14 and I've been masturbating for a few years now. What I do is strip down and lie on my back and I rub my clit till I orgasm. I usually think about my boyfriend, who's 16, doing less than innocent things to me, but we never have actually done anything like that. He's very sweet to me and respects me. I'm completely straight but I would like the opportunity to mess around with another girl to know what it feels like. Unfortunately my few friends that know, won't so I'm stuck flying solo. I can't wait until I can somehow purchase a vibrator because I've been longing for one.
Debbie
Hey I'm 16 and been masturbating since I got my period, so since I was 10, I use my fingers. I grab my clit between my two fingers of my left hand and rub fast with my right hand. It gives me a gushing sensation, but I have to ask when I hit climax. I can't continue and the thing is I want to continue, because I know that something more magnificent is going to happen, but I can't continue can someone help me.
Adriana
Hi, I, like all of you, love to rub my pussy. Reading all of these stories has turned me on and I'm really wet. I usually masturbate while talking to my boyfriend (he masturbates as well). We talk about what we are doing and what we will do to each other when we meet up.
Once when he was at my house we went for a skinny dip in my pool. Then my boyfriend grabbed my pelvis and thrust deep into my pussy. He f****d me hardcore, until I came in the pool. This was when we first met. Now after we broke up, I always fantasize about what happened and always get the most amazing orgasms.
Jay
Hello all, my name is Jay and I love to masturbate. I use the tub method as do many others. I feel it gives me privacy and gets the job done. I have a boyfriend but I fantasize about women and one of my boyfriend's friends. I would love to eat a pussy. I want to learn how please a woman, I just haven't gotten the opportunity. I am waiting for one. When it happens I feel that I will orgasm like I never have.
Marie-Claire 15
Hi, I just wanted to say how great this site is. Its nice to know there are other girls out there like me!! I'm 15 and have been masturbating since I was 12. I really don't know why, but I found myself regularly looking up porn on the internet, while my brother and I were left home alone. After a few sessions I started to touch myself, and boy did it feel good. Ever since then I have regularly masturbated. When I was in year 6, my brother who is two years younger, and I started to experiment, and twice we had intercourse. Up till now it was only my mum who I've ever told, because I thought the experiences caused the ''bleeding,'' really I just got my period. But I have felt so bad about it because I am the ''role model'' but I have excepted it and moved on. My first boyfriend, was a really good guy, but when we were intimate, he got really horny and wouldn't listen to 'no' luckily he didn't go far, but it scared me a lot. I fear I will never fallen love, and can only pray that I will. Thanks for helping me get stuff off my chest. MC
Anonymous
Well I'm 16 and I have been masturbating since I was 11...and I love it..I usually start off by talking to my boyfriend on the phone...he always gets me going with his deep voice...if we get off the phone I just lay on my back and rub on my clit slow and soft first but then I like to get faster and do it harder till I cum...other times I like to use the whole running water thing..if feels sooooo good...I start shaking and then I back up away from the running water...I first discovered masturbating when I was in the shower...the shower head hit my pussy lips and pressed up against my clit...I thought if felt great...so I took the showerhead and put the water power on low...I opened my pussy lips and put the running water over my clit...it was a funny feeling at first, but I loved it..I'v'e been doing it ever since...
Anonymous
Ever since I was about 10, I used to lie on my stomach and make two fists and rub a blanket or pillow back and forth. I move my legs faster and faster, until I reach orgasm. Then I relax and enjoy the feeling.
Dianne
I sometimes like to masturbate thinking of first time I did it. I am now 58 - so this was long time ago- i was about 14 I think. I went to all girl's school so heard about 'feeling good' down there! Finally I asked one girl whom I was pretty close to, what girls did to feel good? She told me about finding a spot that felt good (the word clit was probably unknown then!). So, one day I went to field where there was a hut that let me see if anyone would be around.
There was a bench there - so took my panties off, and put finger in my vagina - other than feeling wet - it did not do much. I was getting pretty excited at even doing this! I remembered the friend telling me roughly where to touch - so started moving my finger around. This started feeling good - I kept doing it, and slowly felt myself coming (of course at the time I had no idea about orgasms!) Finally - I came - guess it was pretty strong as I was excited about experimenting. After I came, I worried if I had done any harm to myself! - and was happy a bit later when I found I could still pee!
I tried again couple of days later - feeling more confident - and of course came. Then - after resting I decided it was worth another try (no one had told me about multiple orgasms!) So - decided maybe I could do it again - this time I remember having much stronger feelings - and I know I was sort of moaning at this new - never before feeling! Finally - I had really strong orgasm that shook my body - and made legs feel weak. And to worry me, I felt something running out of my body (did not get this first orgasm!) Thought it maybe my period!! I still come quite a bit - but think some of my it at the time was pee. But..it felt soo good! From then on I was hooked - and have masturbated ever since (even when I was married - I like being alone to do it!) mmm
Diane
Laine
I'm Laine,18 year-old from Philippines. I started masturbating while I was 13 until now, but its not that often, I stopped it for about 1-2 years, but it seduced me again when a guy asked me to have a phone sex, I masturbate lying on bed & finger my clit, it feels good anyway, but I'd never tried inserting any object in my vagina, even a penis hadn't yet inserted inside, but now I'm trying to stop that again cause I'm wondering if I'm addict on it, am I?
Janey
I love masturbating. I started when I was eleven years old. I've always used my hands to rub my clit and I love it. I'm embarrassed to go out and get some toys but that's just me. I'm still a virgin.
Kathryn
I love to read porn or watch porn first as I get really wet and throbbing between my legs. The wetter my slit is the better I like it. I slide my fingers up and down my clit pressing harder and faster till I come. I love my partner to finger me and bring me to the edge time and time again and stop. When I finally do come it is so intense. I love to get under the shower jet holding both breasts in my hands letting the strong jets of water hit my erect nipples. I can orgasm this way without even touching my clit. I often use the top of my roll on deodorant bottle it is rounded and smooth I apply lube and slide it up and down faster and faster till I come. I think of women naked and smooth rubbing their clits against each other while I finger myself. Mmmmm I am wet and throbbing now so think I'll use the last method to have a great orgasm. Keep enjoying girls.
Anonymous
I get extremely turned on by female masturbation and clitoral stimulation with a vibrator. The first orgasm I had was when I put my mother's vibrator on my clitoris. I moan and grunt really loud when I'm masturbating it makes me orgasm uncontrollably. Sometimes I go in my car in order to be completely uninhibited with my masturbatory noises, the sound of the vibrator and my intense pleasure as it brings me to orgasm. I masturbated in a library once because I read the Hite Report, the stories women told about masturbating their clitoris' to orgasm, I was so uncontrollably aroused that I had to go into an isolated public bathroom and orgasm by rubbing a lipstick back and forth on my clitoris. I think about that when I masturbate and it makes me orgasm.
First, I start by reading sexual stories, just to get heated up and horny. Then I take a large pillow and pull down my pants and strip off my shirt. Then I lay face down, the pillow between my legs, and start to move back and forth on the pillow. When I feel a climax coming, I stop for about a minute then start again. If I get horny enough, I will lay on my back and put in two or three fingers into my vagina. Then I raise my hips and buck them wildly so I am fingering myself. Sometimes, (I don't own any dildo's or vibrators) I take one or two toothbrushes and put those inside me. When they are inside, I lay face down on the pillow again and move back a forth, causing the toothbrushes to move in and out in a most pleasureful way. When I'm close to an orgasm, I will think of a special person and scream there name till I come.
Amy
I have always touched myself for the pure pleasure of the touch, at night before bed, in the shower in the morning, in the car, etc, but rarely have I taken it all the way to orgasm. In college, after drinking and dancing, I would be worked up enough to take myself all the way to orgasm. I love the feeling simply getting the blood flowing, the fine feeling of everything getting warm. But when I want to have an orgasm, I have to be laying on my stomach with my hand between my legs. I use a combination of pressure on my clit and thrust my hips into my hand. I don't really penetrate past the lips, but pushing myself on and off my fingers, using the same hip motion of intercourse gets me to orgasm the fastest. After the first one, I sometimes can simply keep rubbing my clit and have a 2nd almost immediately.
Ellie
I have been masturbating for as long as I can remember (I didn't know what it was until I was about 11). I position myself so I am half laid across a table with my clit on the corner and just rub myself against the table. I start feeling immense pleasure almost immediately. I have never had an orgasm but would really love to have one. I masturbate about once a day and this website has really helped me. I notice that lots of people use electric toothbrush and will try that tonight. I would try it while I'm reading these stories except that my parents are in the room. I have never told people that I masturbate as I worry that they would be ashamed of me but I fantasize about masturbating with someone watching me. I hope that you try my table position as it feels so good.
Kimberley
I am a 27 year old female and have always been very uncomfortable about clitoris stimulation because I am prone to urinary tract infections. I have been out of a relationship for 6 months now and haven't found anyone that I want to have sex with, or even date for that matter. So, desperate times call for desperate measures and I sought out away to get off without a guy.
My mom was visiting and made a random joke about the enormous cucumber in my fridge, uh I never even considered using a cucumber for penetration. Well mothers always know what's best, I guess!
My first time I cut the cucumber in have and microwaved it for 30 seconds, shaved the skin off and designed my own penis, also making sure not to expose the seeds.(first went online to check any hazards, only noted one was particles being left in body which is easily avoidable) Then I lubed it up with oil and inserted slowly allowing my body to warm up to it. It really helped to rest my hand on my clit while handling the cucumber, it was mild clitoris stimulation because it wasn't the focal point.
All I can say is that I make runs to the market every other day now! Hallelujah!!!!
Sarah
Hi everybody and I'd just like to say what an amazing website this is and how its really widened my horizons on how to "play" with myself and I have found some of these techniques mind blowing. I had never become aware of masturbating until I had started a relationship with my boyfriend a year ago, and masturbating is the best thing I could ever imagine. My favourite way is to sit in the bath with the water quite hot and rub myself slowly imagining another woman rubbing her vulva on mine. I then insert a finger, frigging myself quite rough really begins to get my juices flowing. I then get the electric tooth brush and set it on to the most powerful setting and begin to circle it on to my clit giving me the best orgasms I could imagine. Its really good and you should try it.
Happy masturbating people. If there are any girls on here who would like to have a cyber session then please reply .
Anonymous
I usually start by placing clothespins or bobby pins on my nipples. I love the way it pinches them. Then I take my electric toothbrush and place it on my nipples doing this make girl parts throb for more. I then take this beaded necklace I bought and never wore and place it in my vagina (make sure you have cleaned the beads before use, and always leave a little so you can slowly pull it out). I slowly tease myself with the beads, and when I can't take it anymore I use my electric toothbrush on my clit until I am about to cum, but I don't I stop and play with the beads some more then after about five minute I shove the beads into my vagina and complete the job rubbing my clit really hard until I have the most powerful and orgasm. I sometimes can have more than one, and it is amazing. I masturbate because it feels nice and my boyfriend lives so far away that it keeps me satisfied until we get to interact. It also help with our sexual relationship as well.
Jenna
I love this site, reading everyone's stories gets me so wet and tingly and I have to put my hand in my underwear and rub my pussy.
I love masturbating and have been doing it for longer than I can remember. I love the thought of a girl sucking my clit and putting her fingers deep inside me while I grind on her mouth and hand. I remember when I was younger, me and a friend where having a sleep over and we started fooling around, kissing each others necks and she began to make her way down my body, sucking on everything. I remember her spreading my lips and slowly beginning to lick and tease my clit. I had never felt anything like it. after a few minutes she said it was her turn so I did it to her and felt myself get even more wet (if that was possible), I love thinking about that story when I masturbate it gets me so horney. I have never done anything with a girl since but I would love to have sex with a girl. I'm feeling really horney now so I'm gonna go and do myself.
Elliie :)
Hey , Well I'm 15. I would just like to say thanks for the people that made this site.
So I started Masturbating when I was 10. I used the foot and heel technique. I don't know how I came across it but I did and for some reason, the sensation felt familiar to me. Well after that I used to do It all the time. Even in front of my parents and friends and because I thought that I had discovered something new then I had no idea that they could of known what I was doing! CRINGE.
Anyway I started really to become more interested in sex when I was 14. And I lost my virginity at the same time with my ex-boyfriend. It hurt like hell!
But a couple of months later, I decided to start to finger myself and the first time I tried it.... oh god. It felt so good! I Orgasmed 5 minutes into it!
I would love to orgasm in public. It feels so much more exciting. The other day I was at school and Me and My friends were hugging and pushing each other and my crush (who is also my best guy mate)- his knee just rubbed up and down where my clit is and ..ohh uhh I exploded all over the place as the waves of pleasure came over me. I just pretended that I hurt my leg but :O I was soo good.
I think about Sex a lot
I always sit in lesson and just about lads in my class and their penis. lol
I know this sounds weird but I can imagine what the boys in the class penis looks like. I can just tell by the colour of there skin and there hands.
It gets me turned on real good.
Anyway I'm happy to of shared that with you!
Julia
Hey, everyone.
This site is amazing. I get so wet reading about all you girls getting off and exploring your bodies! I'm 17, and I love to take off all my clothes when no one's home, get on the internet and look up pictures of naked girls and finger myself. I only seem to orgasm when fantasizing about girls and women, though I don't think I'm a lesbian.. haha. I had the hottest, most amaaaaaazing orgasm the first time I realized I could just let everything go and accept that girls realllyy turned me on. I love looking at the female body, and I literally shake with pleasure every time I see naked girls.
Desi
I love masturbating sooo much have been doing it for years and I'm nearly 23. I have to admit that I used to feel guilty and ashamed about masturbation, but from reading these stories I realize it's nothing to be ashamed of. I love nothing more than to take off all my clothes and caress my nipples whilst slowly rubbing my clit, I like to speed up and then slow down. I love to keep on rubbing my nipple and my clit at the same time it gets me so hot and wet and I have the best orgasms, I wish they could last forever. Also in the bath letting warm water run on my clit gives the most intense orgasm ever
Abbz
OMG I can't believe people are the same as me. I must have been masturbating for years, since I was 6 or 7. I didn't even know, and still do exactly the same, and I'm 18 now, I started by leaning on things, putting pressure on my clit and not even realizing, now I put my whole body weight against things that will hold it and I'm away! I don't play or anything that feels crap compared to my partner! I thought I was the only one that did this. lol Weird how all women are the same in that sense, but makes me feel happy knowing I'm not a strange one after all. ha ha!
Anonymous
I started to touch myself since I was 11. But I can only climax by rubbing my clit. A technique is to find your sensitive spot and then rub, squeeze ect.. the way you like it. Sometimes I find it better to do it by myself. But If I'm really horny I'll push my finger(s) inside to make myself go crazy! My sexual thought is to have a women caress me until I feel really good then take a dildo to use on me.
Anonymous
Every since I can remember I have loved to touch myself. I remember one time I was in the car when I was about 4/5 and I had been holding an umbrella between my legs. I started to press the umbrella between my legs harder and I felt this twitching nice feeling on my vulva. From that day forward I tried to recreate that feeling. Not knowing what that feeling was I would try to recreate it on the couch visible in front of my parents and when my mom was putting me to sleep I would do it under the covers and she would say "why are you wiggling?" and I used to tell my babysitters to tell me "capture" stories that would get me aroused and make my clit sore with wondrous feelings. I don't think I have every reached the feeling of an orgasm. Although this website is really helpful. BTW to the 14 year old girl that can't feel any pleasure in her pants, use a vibrating back massager. They REALLY work well. I got really close to an orgasm with one of those.
Kaylee
I'm 16 and started masturbating just recently. One day I just touched myself between my legs and it felt good. I thought it was bad to do and wrong but I didn't care because it felt right. After coming to this site and seeing that I wasn't the only person who did it, I felt better about doing it. If anyone has any techniques or something, please let me know.
Samantha
I started to "make my butt feel funny" as early as I can remember. We had a rocking chair with slats on the back, and I would take off the cushion and hump the slat in the middle while holding on to the top. I would also climb poles at play parks and such whenever I had a chance, and discreetly do the same thing. I didn't know what it was, and although my parents caught me several times doing it, they never really did anything about it. I am really thankful that they didn't have weird hang ups about a girl exploring herself.
When I was about 12 or so I started experimenting with myself and with my best friend, a rather dorky and over-horny boy named Mike. we would go in the loft of my rec-room, and although we didn't really do anything sexual, I let him touch my boobs through my shirt and I touched his penis through his pants. I never went farther than that, but at night I would think about it and touch myself. I tried putting random things up my pussy, like brushes and such, and would like to look at it in my full-length mirror. But I never got an orgasm from that, and although I didn't really know what it was I loved the way I felt after I would hump a stool-leg or a door, while holding the doorknob.
Anonymous
The only drawback to masturbation is that I can reach climax so quickly, and then it's a major letdown. I can't surprise myself, after all!! :) So lately what I've been doing is stimulating myself ALMOST to orgasm, then stopping for a few moments, catching my breath, etc. Usually I shut my vibe off totally. Sometimes it's so damn good I hate to quit, but I want to prolong my pleasure as much as possible. As my clit becomes more erect, I'll draw my legs apart as far as they can go, while also drawing my knees toward my chest. It makes my clit stick out more, and it feels WONDERFUL!! I prefer direct, firm stimulation on my clit.
Anonymous
I started to masturbate properly at 11. I get some towels and spread on the bathroom floor. I lie on it and masturbate. Usually I read some stories that make me cum and then I masturbate. I just rub my clit and think of some erotic stories. Before it took long to cum but now I can do it in ten minutes.
I think masturbation helps me to relax. However, I do have a doubt: Can you masturbate whilst you have your period? Is it safe?
Now I am 13 and I enjoy it. I even got horny during lunchtime at school and started to masturbate in a cubicle in the bathroom!
By the way, taking pictures of your self naked is good fun and, believe it or not, I feel more confident with myself! I'm really ugly compared with others but I appreciate my body and I know now that I am beautiful. When I'm wearing clothes I look so ugly but when I look at myself naked, I realized that I actually have curves.Ash
Hi all!
Its so nice to find a place where we girls can all be frank and share our thoughts, thanks.
Anyway, I knew quite a bit about sex from a young age but in a very technical way. The first time I got wet was listening to an R Kelly cd of all things! It was a track with very explicit lyrics, most of which I didn't understand but I had an overpowering urge to get hold of the cd and go play it alone in my bedroom.It took a few times masturbating till I had an orgasm. I think I was scared of what would happen if I kept going after a certain point. I don't believe young girls really understand how durable they are. No need to be afraid of experimenting with your body.
I am 24 now and have had quite a lot of different experiences. I watch lots of porn and both read and write erotica. My boyfriend doesn't have any problem with this at all. I have great climaxes from rubbing my clit but like many others have said, I can't seem to cum just through penetration.Oh, before I forget.... someone said you can't rub you're clit while he's inside you?.. um, yes, you, can! lol Better still, let him do it. If you're bent over or on all fours and he takes you from behind, he can reach his hand round and play with your clit. If his co-ordination isn't up to it, you can do it yourself. My boyfriend is great like that. He understands that without clitoral stimulation I tend not to cum, even though penetration feels amazing and sometimes is the trigger I need.
Anonymous
I usually hump my pillow for masturbation. When I told my boyfriend, he teased me about it and asked me to hump him. Well, I did, he lay on his stomach and told me to do it my style. It was kind of strange at first but then I relaxed and followed my own rhythm. In the end I got off grinding my clit on his lower back and ass. The other day he lay on his side and I humped his hip bone, he then changed position and lay on his back so I could sit on his stomach and had the most wonderful orgasm. I had never expected outercourse to be this satisfying...
When he wants to get himself off, he strokes his cock really fast and I lick his balls. This turns him on so much, I love it. When he is about to come, he tells me to suck him so he can squirt into my mouth. He says his orgasm is much more intense like this rather than ejaculating outside.
Fun on Your Own
One thing that I love to do is masturbate. I think that it is one of the best feelings when you are in the right mood to do so. When I have the urge to play with myself, I focus more on my clitoris. I recently discovered that when my clit gets really hard and sensitive, tapping it makes it feel amazing! It's like sending little shock waves through your pussy. In order to cum really hard with the tapping, I do make sure that my legs are spread wide apart and just make sure that I have my clit lubed with my wetness and tap my clit until I cum. When I do cum, its intense and makes my whole body shake. I would DEFINETLY recommend the tapping technique to anyone! I hope that you ladies enjoy it!!
Anonymous
I started masturbating in middle school. I had heard about vibrators and such but I couldn't buy one at that age, so naturally I used my electric toothbrush! At first, I could only put it down there for a second because the feeling was too intense, but I eventually could leave it down there long enough to have an orgasm. It took many months of practice, though.
I still love to use my electric toothbrush as a vibrator eight years later, but after a while I needed something inside me. I use the handle of my "Soleil" razor. The shape, size, and texture of it make a great dildo. Here is my routine:I sit on the floor of my shower with my toothbrush on my clit. When I'm ready, I stick the handle of the razor (with the protective cap on the blade) and pulse it in and out of my vagina. I go faster and faster and harder and harder until I orgasm. It is amazing! I always hit the right spot with the tip of the dildo and it feels so incredibly good. I also do it in different positions--sitting up against the wall, laying down, getting on top, etc. In the last year or so I have been experimenting with multiple orgasms. After I have one, I'll turn off the toothbrush for a while and just play around with the dildo and my hand. When I am ready I get the toothbrush back on and go at it again, but it doesn't take long until I have a really strong orgasm. I go on this way until I have three or even four orgasms.
I strongly recommend this method to all of you ladies!! It is easy for beginners with things you can find at home, and it is also good for the more experienced. A fool-proof way for a satisfying session every time! Plus, nobody has to know what you really do with your toothbrush ;)Breanna
I always masturbate in the shower using my detachable shower head. I can't cum when I'm using my fingers and I have never been able to. I've been masturbating since I was fourteen...when I found the shower head could be used for more than cleaning...I'm seventeen now. I can't do it in my bed anyway, as I am a "squirter" and I don't want to clean the mess afterwards.
I've always been open about my sexuality and the fact that I masturbate. If someone asks, I'll tell them the truth. I know it's natural. But, I don't do it like a lot of the other girls on this site do. They touch their bodies all over and/or think about someone pleasuring them. I can't do this. I've never felt beautiful, so if I ever do do this, I feel stupid. Like: "you're not pretty, you can't think about/do this". I'm really self-conscious, even when I'm all alone.
So...I pretty much just lay down in the shower with my legs spread and the jet of water on my clit. That's all. My orgasms are never really that intense, and I've never tasted myself (I think it's kind of gross...and then I get that little voice in my head, et cetera...).
If you could tell me how to make myself feel more pretty or have a higher opinion of myself, that'd be greatly appreciated. I feel like since I don't feel I'm pretty, a girl I end up liking won't either. And even if I do find a girl that I like and who likes me, I'll never feel like I deserve it. Help if you can. And thanks for letting me share.Anonymous
I started masturbating when I was around 4 years old. I always loved to rub myself on pillows and stuffed animals. It was very addicting. When I was 8 years old in elementary school I had a friend that was a girl who loved to do the same thing. We would go to my house and satisfy each other.
Even now that i am 18 years old I still have the desire to masturbate.
Andrina
It's nice to know I am not the only one who masturbates. I still feel somewhat dirty though and if people ask me if I masturbate, I will deny it. I know it's nothing to be ashamed of but I feel as if my "good girl" image will be shattered. I really want to purchase a vibrator but I am too ashamed to go to the sex shop and if I buy it online and I am not home when it is delivered, my parents will see the return address and see that the company is a sex company.
I am 21 and have been masturbating since Kindergarten. I used to touch myself down there during nap time and put my blanket over me. Once, the girl next to me removed the blanket and caught me but never said anything.
I masturbate pretty much every day, often more than once. The only way I have been able to get off is by lying on my stomach and rubbing my clit over my panties. I have tried without them but it just doesn't feel good to me. It sounds strange but I fantasize about movie characters or even cartoon characters having sex.m@sturb8r
Hey, thanks all you gals, you really turned me on. After my shower I'm gonna hump my pillow until I orgasm.
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