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Female Masturbation Techniques
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Hi my name is Cassie and I have been masturbating since I was 8 years old and I love it. I first became curious about my body and discovered that I could receive great pleasure by touching my breasts and playing with my pussy. I am now 29 years old and still single but I masturbate daily and sometimes twice a day. These days I hardly ever use my fingers. I have graduated to the use of toys such as dildos, toothbrushes, showerheads, butt plugs and anal beads. I also love to smoke cigarettes and masturbate in front of a mirror. The sight of smoke exiting my body and my pussy stuffed full of some toy is more than I can handle.

 

 

Anonymous

I am 46 years old and feel the need to masturbate two or more times a day. I try new ways and items all the time. I like looking at nude female bodies while playing. Here is a list of some things I have used and places where; outside, lawn mower or leaf blower vibration, hot tub jets, I've humped a knot on a low tree branch, garden hose, lawn sprinkler. In the Kitchen: blender, taped up beater, put wrap on it and oil and spin away, fruit, in my pussy and ass, ice cream, yogurt, honey, butter sticks (inserted). In the living room, slid broom in between cushion on sofa, tape a condom on the end, slide it in where it fits, cell phone vibration, In the tub, I fill tub put a water pump from a rock garden in water and sit on it, liter bottles of soda, may take more than one, shake it and let it spray on clit area. I plan to video tape my personal techniques and share the video with women, who can watch me climax and learn.

Sam

Firstly, I'd like to thank you for creating this wonderful site. I've never found anywhere that has just ...information like you do. I appreciate. Secondly, I'd like to thank all the lovely ladies (and guys) who post their techniques here. For some people it's a really personal thing to share ...I know for me it is, and it's a great help (in every sense of the word) to read about how many individual and unique ways there are of making yourself feel good.

I became aware of a pleasure when I was quite young ...about 4 or 5. I was quite a tomboy, and I loved to climb trees on our outback farm. Once or twice while I straddled a branch I felt this warming sensation...and usually I would squirm a little to see if the feeling would come again. Sometimes it did, sometimes it didn't. It was something that fascinated me, bit I never really mentioned it to anyone ...because I always thought it was my little secret.

My curiosity developed as grew older...and it surfaced in many unusual and (at times, gruesome) forms. There was the usual; I'd idly touch myself while watch television...or rub a doll against my crotch, just to feel that sensation. There was one time though, when I lived in a house when I was 10 or 11. I discovered this sensation also came about when I urinated...and I loved the warm feeling I got from it. So, sometimes, I'd lay under my bunk bed on the floor, gather some clothes beneath me, and urinate on them. It always felt really good...and I did this secretly for a few months until the guilt stopped me eventually. Sometimes now though...when I'm really horny, I'll wet my clothing...just to feel that sensation again.

Through Sex ed. classes when I was about 13 I began to realize this was all connected to sex...and that these good feelings were connected to arousal. This didn't settle the curiosity...oh no. I would lock myself in the bathroom to take a bath, and I'd touch my body ...wondering if it came from other places. Sometimes it came from my nipples ...which were starting to develop, or when I would touch my skin softly in a certain way.

When I was 14, I discovered the water technique or as it is so named here. My mother, was bathing me (I was clothed) and the rubber shower hose that was rinsing my hair suddenly came off...the attachment was still on the tap, so a strong jet of water sprayed straight onto my groin, inevitably where my clitoris lay (I didn't know it was there at the time). I paused for a moment, as that sensation came in the strongest form it had ever come...and I think my mother noticed it gave me pleasure ...because she asked if that was good. I nodded, of course! From that point on, when I bathed on my own, I used the attachment...and I slyly removed the hose again to spray it on my clitoris...lo and behold, after about ten minutes, my body began to spasm ...I almost whited, and when that tingling subsided ...I realized with awe that I had my first orgasm. And boy, was I proud of myself!

I am now 17. I use this water technique, while also I just caress and rub my clitoris in bed. I realize now it's significance in my body (partly thanks to this site that I stumbled across after that first orgasm) and I love giving it lots of attention. In fact ...I so enjoy pleasuring myself, I haven't really noticed the appeal in guys until a few months ago. But now I also noticed that there's a wealth of pleasure lying in that direction, too. I can cum over a range of time periods....from 5 minutes to 2 hours. I basically orgasm under strict circumstances...from holding my breath and tensing my thigh muscles ...I don't think I can do it otherwise. However I know that's not the most important thing. Just recently my boyfriend bought me a muscle massager...and I've just begun to see the amazing benefits of having a vibrator; although I sometimes I need to hide it, for fear i'll become addicted to it! I haven't had any form of partner sex yet, apart from touching...and I don't plan to until I'm a little older. Then I think I can deal with the emotional and mental aspects they'll bring. I don't think that my vagina will bring the same kind of pleasure (well, at least not in the intensity) that my clit does, and I don't think I've found my Gspot yet...well, at least I haven't experienced that intense sensation many women describe. And, from this, I haven't yet ejaculated. I've tried once or twice...and the concept never fails to fascinate me.

To all you ladies feeling insecure about your genitalia and your bodies in this respect - don't be afraid of them ...they're the greatest tool you have. I think sometimes that being able to pleasure myself is probably better than having a partner, as you know what you want, and you also know what you can do to get it. I love my body, and my clit...and I hope you guys all do to. Because...well, they're the best!!

Thanks for reading, and have fun playing!!

Love Sam

Anonymous

I am 17 years old and I have been masturbating ever since I was about 12. When I first started getting the urge to touch myself at 12 years of age, I was watching a Girls Gone Wild commercial and I just started humping my bed and grinding on it until I reached an orgasm. I kept using that technique for a while but I never actually touched my pussy or clit. Later on, I did start putting things into my vagina. It felt really good and I cummed. After that, I finally discovered my clitoris and found it to be very sensitive so I would only touch it when I wanted to orgasm. However, now I can ONLY orgasm if I'm touching my clitoris. This is an extremely difficult situation to be in when I'm having sex, because I can't really rub my clit if he's on top, or where ever he may be. So my question is, is it normal not to orgasm if you don't rub your clit? If so, why is that I was be able to orgasm before without rubbing it and not now? and lastly, how can I have an orgasm when having sex?

Serena

I have been masturbating since I was 6 or 7 years old. Sometimes when my parents were at work they would leave me and my sister alone. She used to sleep all day so I had to entertain myself.

I found some porn magazines in my parents room and I used to look at them and feel a tingling between my legs. I didn't know what it was but it felt better when I straddled the corner of the bed and humped it fast. I was lying on my back one day at about 7 years old, and feeling my pussy through my knickers. All off a sudden I started to shake and I couldn't breathe. I had no idea what happened to me, I knew I loved it but I was afraid I might die! I continued anyway, it was worth the risk.

Around the same time my female cousin who was 10 or 11 showed me how to french kiss. She had seen it on TV. She then told me how she saw people kissing each other 'down there' and touching each other. We would slip a finger into each others slits and slide them up and down while french kissing. After that one of us would spread our leg out so the other one could hump the other ones leg. We often tried kissing each others pussies and licking them but it was not as nice as humping.

I have masturbated once a day since those days. I am now 24 and masturbation is my favorite thing whether I am in a relationship or not. I use any objects that fit inside my pussy and hump anything I can find. I watch porn and fantasies about men and women all the time, even when I am in Lectures and university. I am incredibly horny now so I will get out my Rampant Rabbit and have a play.

Serena

Kaitlynn

My name is Kaitlynn and I started masturbating when I was maybe about 5 or 6. I remember putting a pillow between my legs and rubbing the pillow up and down. I didn't know what I was doing but I knew it felt good. I was always worried that I was doing something wrong though because my mom would always catch me and tell me to stop. I haven't really had an orgasm but I'm still trying. I guess I'm just too worried that I'll do something that will harm my body so I quit when I think about what I might potentially do to my vagina and clit.

Any ways this is the technique I use, right after the shower, I go in my room and lay on my bed and spread my legs. Then I get my pocket mirror and examine things and I just start fantasizing about my best girl friend licking and touching and rubbing my clit. (We just recently admitted to each other that we masturbate, I'm not a lesbian but hopefully that fantasy can come true someday.) I don't know what it is about thinking of girls but guys just don't do it for me. I have a boyfriend and I'm all for boys but I've always wanted to touch a girl and a girl to touch me. An ways I am usually wet by then and I just keep rubbing and when I see all the wetness and stuff coming out of my pussy I get really horny and I moan quietly to myself so my brothers don't hear. Moaning really makes me cum. I don't know for sure if I have orgasmed, I just think I got to a high climax. I want to experience the feelings that have been described on this site, I just don't know how.

Dannie

When I was 4, I got a rocking horse for my birthday. When I rocked back and forth my bottom hit the neck of horse, and WOW, what a good feeling it gave me. When that happened my legs would shake. I rode it every day, sometimes 3 or 5 times a day. I rode my horse until I was 11 and a spring broke and Dad put in the basement. I wanted to find something to do the thing that made me fell so good. Then that summer I started to play softball. Mom bought me a bat and a glove. One day my bat was laying in the sun and it got hot and I was putting my glove on the bat with the hot bat between my legs. With the heat of the bat and the wiggling of it made me feel an explosion in and through my bottom and legs, I felt like my lower stomach was rolling like thunder with sweet waves of pleasure. From that day until I was 16 my bat was my lover. This was my way to an orgasm. When I took a shower at night, every night, I put the bat in the shower with me and the hot water got the bat nice and warm. Then I put it in bed with me. I put it with the handel between my legs and where the bat enlarged, I would, with my panties on, hump that hot bat and it gave MANY wonderful orgasms. I was faithful to my bat until I was 16 and my b/f when he worked his hand up my skirt to my panties and he plundered around down there, along with kissing him, the pleasure built higher and higher, like a balloon and exploded into the most exciting orgasm to that date. My bottom gets wet just thinking about it. These experiences thought me how to pleasure myself BetweeN our dates. His touch is SOO much better than mine. Just being around him is so sexy to me. Thank You so much for this site.

Abbi

I started masturbating when I was about 5. I lived in South Africa, and outside my front door, there was a car port. It was held up by two thick, large polls. Nearly every day I would climb the pole closest to the front door. My muscles got stronger, and I was able to climb the poll very quickly, and tightly.

One day, about half way up, I felt tingling. My legs started to shake and I got tired. I couldn't climb anymore, so I just sat up there, letting my arms hold me. It was a feeling I'd never felt before, but I liked it. Then as I did it more, I thought I'd try doing it without panties. Weird, I know. It didn't feel particularly good, because the paint was all chipped and it actually hurt me, but it was different, and I liked that a bit as well.

I also had a trusty dog, called Jick. He drank out of the toilet sometimes which I thought was strange ...Anyway, so one day I was climbing my pole, and I kind of peed a little... I can't remember whether or not it would be good or bad. But it happened. Then my dog came along and started licking the pole. Now I remember it, I wish I had actually let him lick me down below. It's a disgusting way to think, but why not? No one would ever know?

Then I resorted to indoor forms, as my family thought I was a bit strange. So I stood by a door, held onto a handle with each hand, and clamped my legs up tight. I would make sure my feet weren't touching the floor, and I would rotate my hips a bit. Then after some tingling, the blast would happen.

I don't recall ever feeling WET though...

Now a days, I replace the door with my hand. I can do it fully clothed, and I have trained myself to do it without breathing heavily.

Anonymous

Hi, I've been masturbating since I was about 4 or 5. I had a Paddington bear as a child and his boots (that were a soft plastic) would come off. I use to place them in my underwear and move around which usually got me excited.

I am 18. And I have to be truthful, I think about sex non stop. I lost my virginity at 17 and I have faked every orgasm with my boyfriend (who I'm still with). He does not understand the clit at all and seems to enjoy making burn marks on my clit by rubbing at a fast pace. Though he's older by 4 years he really hasn't got a clue.

I love love love masturbating but in all my years I have never came or had a truly amazing orgasm. I get worried. Is there something wrong with me?

When I do masturbate I like to sit on a chair or sofa and I usually watch porn. I bend my thumb on my right hand so it curls underneath my fingers and place that on my clit. I then curl my fingers up and place that over my crotch and rub myself. I can only seem to do this with underwear on and without them it's fair too sensitive and kind of begins to hurt. Like some other people, whilst in bed I might role on to my front and do the same thing, its nice but again doesn't get me that wet.

I love to think of penetration and having a vibrator in me. Like a lot of women on here I also love the thought of a women with me. Fantasizing has to be so amazing and really adds to the sheer enjoyment women feel whilst masturbating.

Elizabeth

How I masturbate is by putting baby oil on a banana (unpeeled of course), and sliding it slowing into my pussy.  It feels very good...mm mm ...sliding it in and out.. the long banana.  I will then masturbate for about 5 minutes, also raising my legs up in the air to get a different sensation.  Often times, I'll use baby oil and insert 2 fingers into my pussy, sometimes I'll need to do that for 15 minutes plus. I'm just a very horny 40 something year old woman.  I prefer to masturbate in the nude and lying on my back with my legs spread very far apart.

Anonymous

I have been masturbating since I was 4 yrs. old. I am married but masturbate several times a week. I fantasize about women and never had the opportunity to fuck a woman but would love the experience, I rub my clit with my hand, finger my cunt sometimes use vibrators or dildos, when I'm really horny which is quite often, at orgasm I love to stick several fingers in my cunt imagining my tongue deep in a woman's cunt. thanks for the opportunity to say this one day I hope I have the opportunity to taste the sweetness of a woman's cunt.

Kailee

Hey all.. My name is Kailee and I'm 18 years old. Wow, I used to think my masturbating techniques were uncommon, but thanks to this very helpful site I know they aren't. I started masturbating when I was about 12 with the jets on the side of my bathtub. I would spread my legs as far apart as I could over the edge and curl my toes and let the jet work its magic on my erect little clit. I don't know what it is about my legs being spread far apart when my clit is getting played with but its just the most amazing feeling. My boyfriend loves playing with my clit, he is now an expert. He spreads my legs as far apart as they will go, and sometimes ties my feet to the bed posts on each side of the bed so my legs are spread and can't move. I love the feeling of humping my boyfriend's fingers stroking my clit while my  legs are tied down. I prefer him to use his fingers on my clit rather then his tongue because they can go faster. Its an amazing feeling he strokes my snatch slow for a minute then suddenly and unexpectedly strokes my pussy extremely fast, and he does this over and over until I cum. When he does this I jerk my pussy up and down and stiffen my tied up legs. Another way to give your clit spasms of ecstasy is to lie down in the bathtub, with your legs spread apart on each side of the faucet. Turn the water on, and it feels especially good when you turn the cold water up and then down, this feeling is incredibly sensational. I used to have a dog that would love to lick my clit, and I have to say that was the best technique I've ever tried. His tongue was long and wet and it could go a million miles a second, he would lick my clit even faster if I peed a little. I don't know know if this will be put on your site, but it would be such an honor if it did because I am a HUGE fan of your site. Thank you!

K

I had my first orgasm when I was 9, on holiday in the shower, holding the shower head between my legs and then feeling this explosion inside me. I did that everyday for about a year, until one night I  was in bed and I was touching myself, I never knew you could have an orgasm by using your hands before that, since then I've been masturbating 2-6 times a day everyday.

Michelle

Hi, I've been masturbating for as long I can remember. When I was 12 I used to do it by humping pillows or stuffed animals. I would think about all kinds of things, usually things that weren't very sexual. Sometimes I would think about my uncle (eeewww), sometimes unicorns (I was so weird). Now I just fantasize about normal things but it freaks me out to remember what used to get me off.

Jodie 13

First I take a long hot bath, it relaxes me then I get out and rub After Sun all over my body (including genitals). Then I lie in my bed and while my hands are moist I pull back the hood of me clit (and if I have a mirror it looks like I have a little hole) I start by teasing the hole with my fingertips and stopping then when I'm horny I use my finger tips in a circular motion round and round on the hole and when I have and hot sticky orgasm I stop and just finger myself it feels good!!

JJ

Well, I'm 15 and I started masturbating like a year ago. I watched porn though since like 8 and it turned me on...but I never experienced [orgasm]. I find that bondage turns me on way more than regular. When I masturbate I imagine someone raping me. For some reason that gets me to orgasm fast. I imagine the person in a mask and I like screaming 'NOOOO' as I masturbate. Those of you with a good imagination should try it...or it might just be me that's sadistic. LOL either way I enjoy it. 

Jenny

I love to masturbate. I don't know how I came across this technique, but this is what works best for me. Usually I fantasize about an older man like my fifth grade teacher, like him slapping me with a ruler on my butt for being a bad girl trying to seduce him by spreading my legs open during class revealing my pussy under that short Catholic school girl skirt.  At this point I am really wet, so I can start rubbing my clit with my left hand.  And nearby I have a hairbrush with a rounded tip which I slowly begin to push in and out of my pussy. I continue to fantasize about my teacher carrying me onto his desk and lifting up my skirt.  He stands in front of me pulling me to very edge so that he can stick his big juicy cock inside of me.  By now I am pounding my pussy with the hairbrush with my right hand while my left continues to circle my clit. And because it the brush is rubbing against my G-spot, I come so quickly and so good.  And if I'm alone I usually scream and call out the name of this guy that I've been messing around with. I'm loud and that turns me on even more. I've had sex and it was in no way comparable to the way I can work my pussy myself. But it always a lot nicer to have a boy to sleep next to.  But nonetheless I can't wait for a boy who can make me feel soooo good.

Anonymous

I enjoy using pillows. they NEVER SAY NO, nor do they care if I cum on them. They just feel so good to rub on.

Anonymous

Hi, I just found this site and as I sit here and read other women's experienced I couldn't help but touch myself.  I'm 18 years old and I've been masturbating since I was about 8 or 9.  My method has always been rubbing my clit against something.  For example right now I'm laying on my floor face down with a pillow between my legs rubbing back and forth against it. My clit is swollen and it's one of the greatest feelings, every single time. I've been having sex for about 6 months but have never been able to come. With my pillow method I come every time. Most of the time I think about rubbing my pussy together with another woman's pussy. That is my fantasy and right now I'm horny and I want it more than ever.

Danielle

When I was about five or six, me and a friend of mine would masturbate each other. I would go over to her house and we would lie in her bed, on top of one another, and rub each other's vaginas. We seldom really reached orgasm, but it was fun, and my first encounter with sex. We would also strip and pose for one another, which was also fun. Then, at the age of nine or ten, I started masturbating myself with an electric toothbrush, and I would have an orgasm every time. Now, I can do it by just rubbing my clitoris with my hand, which also works every time and is far more convenient. :)

Anonymous

I have always loved to masturbate by moving my hips - I could never come by just using my fingers. I start off by fantasizing about my best friend licking me and playing with me and then I grab anything - a pillow, a soft toy or anything that I can rub against my clit. Then I start to hump it and after a while I come.

Lora

Hi, my name is Lora,

I am 16 years old and masturbate a lot since about 2 years. I always imagine that my stepfather takes me and I get wet and hot every time I close my eyes and think of him. I stick my one finger inside my pussy and rub my small breasts with the other hand. Sometimes I also put a finger in my anus and move it slowly in and out. This gives me lovely feelings. In my dreams I lick his penis till he squirts his cum all over my face. I wake up and am all wet and hot. Than I masturbate my pussy and within minutes I come again. I often masturbate 3 to 4 times a day. I cannot stop touching myself. Once I nearly got caught by him and afterwards I wished he saw me masturbating. I have had a boyfriend but nothing gets me hotter than thinking about my stepfather. I really wish he would screw me one day.

Rebecca

I remember discovering masturbating at the age of nine. My mom was comforting me a day I was sad. I sat straddled on one of her legs wearing only a nightshirt. Suddenly I just started rubbing against her leg. She was stroking my chin, and I had my first orgasm right there on her leg. After that I straddled a lot of things. I even went bike riding wearing no panties under my dresses. Today I usually rub against my hand while lying on my stomach. I still straddle things. But its rare. Tight jeans can really do it too.

Jodidid

I love orgasming. I've been doing it since I was nine. Use a pillow. It is the best way to cum.

Lisa

Well this is the first time I saw that someone climbs a pole, when I was 11 years old I tried to climb a pole because there is one on my deck, and it felt real good. Even when I climbed a tree. But I never knew that it was masturbating before I started masturbating. Even when I climb trees I feel it. Wow. This is interesting

Anonymous

I am in love with my clit! I like to masturbate naked after a shower, at night. I am a hetero, but for some reason I like to fantasize about a woman sucking my clit.

In the past, I would always masturbate by massaging my clit. But now I'm trying to climax by penetration only. I can always bring myself off by tweaking my nipples and caressing my pussy. Then I put two fingers inside to feel my G-spot. I have a theory that the G-spot is somehow connected to my clit, even if I'm not touching my clit simultaneously. When I touch my G-spot, it feels SOOOO amazing. I alternate between my nipples and my G-spot. I get wet in no time at all. I like to smell my fingers; it makes me hornier. When I'm ready and hot, then I make my legs extra-wide and use my left hand to open my "fork." My right hand goes from my G-spot inside and I use the extra lubrication to rub my clit.

When I'm very horny, I rub my clit for extra-fast satisfaction. But when I like to make my orgasm stronger, I really try to take my sweet time.

The best is just before I come, and I'm pounding my fingers inside my pussy. It seems like the deeper they go, the better it feels, the stronger my orgasm.

When I masturbate, it helps when I think of the first (and only!) time I ever came when my ex-boyfriend was inside me. It felt SO good. It was a few years ago and I still daydream about it! The only time I can come is when I do it myself. But I'm trying to train myself to come with penetration.

I'd like to try masturbating with a pillow. I've seen a lot of great comments about it. Hey -- gotta try new things!


Kelly

The moment pubes began sprouting I became very horny.  I was about twelve and began each morning over summer break the same way.  The alarm went off. Panties came off.  My legs spread like a frog and I rubbed my clitoris slowly for a few minutes and then sped up.  I would breath heavy through my mouth and my whole arm moved my fingers over my pussy until the contractions of orgasm began.  I would push my wrist hard and put a finger on my anus to feel the contractions.  One of the recent stories mentioned leg straddling and I did that at least twice with my uncle.  I would wake up and begin masturbating and when I was almost there I would put my night shirt (and panties)on and go downstairs.  My uncle worked later and stayed with us a lot.  He would be watching TV and I would plop down on the couch too...except with my legs exposed or panties.  I loved how he would stare at me.  I think it is kind of sick now.  I would often pull my panties over to the side just enough to show my pubic hair.  I could see him looking in the corner of my eye and my mouth would go dry.  Then I would go back upstairs and orgasm in like one minute!  Sometimes before I could go he would poke at me and I would wrestle him on the couch and the first time was the time I remember most.  I was SO horny just coming down from my room and I was straddling his thigh and the feeling began.  I tried to get up but he held me down (playfully) and I began grinding my crotch against his thigh.  I probably looked like I was trying to get up.  I continued and after a minute I was leaned over humping and panting inches from his face until I orgasmed.  At the time, I had never been so aroused.  It was innocent though.  Well.  That's my crazy story from growing up! 

Anonymous

I'm 23 years old and I try very hard not to masturbate.  I feel guilty doing it.  And its very addictive for me because I can have multiple orgasms.  The most I've ever experienced at one sitting would be around forty or so.

I developed to ability to have "mini orgasms" much the same way men learn to practice keeping their penises up.  I would bring myself to the brink of an orgasm over and over again without going over.  And I would practice this technique over and over again until I had a great deal of control over my orgasms.  They didn't just "come."  I was very much in control of when they came and how many I had.  When I started to orgasm, I'd take my hand away and lean forward, letting the orgasm rush down into my vulva and away from my clit.(I find some of my best orgasms are urethral ones.) 

I would suggest a woman try masturbating at least once sitting up. You rub your clit until you start to come, but pull your hand away before you can complete yourself.  And than you lean forward, placing the pressure of the orgasm onto your vulva instead.  I find full clitoral orgasms leave me more sore.  But vulvar os leave me more sensation in the clit in order to have more climaxes.  I also like to clench my PC muscles as well.

Annie

I will usually begin by tickling my clit with my fingernail outside my underwear. When I start to get wet I either thrust my hand down the front or pull my pants to the side. I dip my finger into my vagina and use the wet lubrication to glide my finger over my clit. I like to go slow, I like it to last as long as possible. If I get more worked up I will take off my bra and pants and underwear and just sit or lie in a t-shirt. The t- shirt over my bare nipples feels good. When my clit is swollen sometimes I straddle a chair and let my clit lightly brush the fabric. The computer chair is coarse and the tiny scratching feeling on my swollen clit teases me even more. I can climax as soon as I decide it's time. Its most satisfying if I then push my vagina into the fabric of the chair and grind. Its great to slip over your own juices, feel the mess on the clean chair. The visual image of myself is erotic, bare ass from the waist down, swollen red clitoris, wet, slippery vagina grinding into an office chair.

Kris

I know that this has been stated, but thank you so much for creating this site.  Learning more about women's sexuality and masturbation puts me at ease.

My name is Kris.  I'm currently 19 and I started masturbating at a very young age.  Being raised in an extremely religious household, I knew very little about sex and less about masturbation.  All I knew fell within the realm of both being considered dirty. 

Before I learned about masturbation from a friend, the first time I felt tingling between my legs was while I watched Zena: Warrior Princess.  There were some scenes in which she was nearly naked and I started to grind against the edge of my bed in reaction.  Surprised by the sensation, I did this frequently while watching the show.  I continued doing so until some one showed me how to masturbate.

There was this girl named Becky and she was 10 while I was 8.  We became close friends and eventually she taught me how to touch myself.  Honestly, it was a beautiful friendship.  By age 10, I was very well developed and she was the only person I felt comfortable showing my body to after the catcalls and other comments from extremely older men.  After school she would come over to eat me and fondle my breasts.  We just did what felt good.  Eventually, my mother found out when I was eleven and stopped me from seeing Becky amongst other things.

Haven't seeing Becky since, I learned how to masturbate on my own without her.  Usually, I lie on my back and only stimulate my clitoris.  At times, I do insert a finger into my anus to send me over the edge.  I get very wet and tend to come at varying times.  Usually, I last about thirty minutes but there have been times I barely lasted 5 minutes or exceeded 2 hours. 

Reading literotica would usually get me wet in my early teens, but now just the idea of masturbating is enough. 

I still feel guilty touching myself, but I plan on become more comfortable with my own skin.  I work in a research library. While shelving books I sometimes pinch my nipples or gently rub them against random books just to stay awake!  Along with this, I try to masturbate more frequently.  I do this because of the feeling it gives me and to remove shame from the act.

Now, I'm growing to love being horny.  Sometimes I get on my hands and knees and bump against the wall with a small dildo taped to it.  After doing that I spend a good hour give my clitoris and nipples some healthy attention.

Other than Becky, I haven't allowed anyone such access.  I haven't had oral, anal or vaginal sex with a guy, but I don't feel ready yet.  There is no need to rush anyway as far as I can see. 

But I should stop my rambling and go masturbate!  Thanks again for this site!

-Kris

Anonymous

I love masturbating in a parked car in a parking lot. I love the excitement of knowing no one knows I am pleasing myself. I get a vibrator and slowing lower my pants. I get so wet just thinking about it. Then I hold back my lips and tease myself wild until I come. Everyone around me knows nothing.

Anonymous

Try to get your hand on one of those electric fingernail buffers from New Look. This makes a fantastic clitoris vibrator! You can change the heads, the purple pointy one is best, and each packs its own orgasm! Try it-its cheap and doesn't look suspicious unless you bite your nails.

Gina

I am middle-aged and have been masturbating regularly since about age 15.

Sometimes I like to fantasize that I am masturbating another woman and she is always wearing panties.  There is something about the feeling of having an orgasm with panties on, and when I masturbate I like to keep mine on.

Lately I have had cyber sex occasionally and it has given me some of my strongest orgasms ever.  I go into a chat room (usually a lesbian one) and while me and my cyber partner are talking, I have my vibrator resting against my clitoris so that I can type with two hands.

Another thing I went through a phase of enjoying though rarely do it now, was phone sex.  I would go to a lesbian chat room and ask if anybody would like phone sex.  I think I did it about 5 or 6 times and it was a truly amazing experience, talking to another female on the phone while we both masturbated together.  Hearing another woman cum intensifies my own orgasm many times over.

When I masturbate alone, I like to look at myself in the mirror, and at the point that I cum, I love to watch my labia contracting.  I usually wait until I am alone in the house, sit and relax and drink a few cups of coffee so that my bladder gets nice and full.  Firstly I will, with my fingers, toy a little with my pussy.  I stroke it over my panties paying extra attention to my clitoris.  As my panties get wetter and wetter, I then use my vibrator against my clitoris in circular motions (I don't like penetration too much).  As I feel my orgasm coming closer, I will pull the crotch of my panties aside so I can watch myself cum.

Another thing I like to do is masturbate in a public place, like a train or anywhere really that's public.  I will do it surreptitiously, say put my hand in my coat pocket and play with myself or cover that area with my bag or a newspaper.  I love the feeling that I'm enjoying masturbating while other people around me have no knowledge of what I'm doing, and the effort to keep still and not moan, or to cry out when my orgasm comes, just makes it all the better.  I'm not sure how I'd feel if somebody realized what I was doing though.

It's been a pleasure sharing my experiences with you and I must admit that talking about it has turned me on so I think I will have to go and spend a little time alone.

How good to see a site where us women can talk openly and share experiences in this way.

Danielle

I've been masturbating for as long as I can remember. When I was younger, I would scan my family's bookshelves in search of sexy images or passages for arousal and inspiration. It was probably around this time that I realized I was bisexual because images of women were just as, if not more, tantalizing to me than images of men. Before going to sleep at night, sometimes I would undress and enjoy a fantasy of being in bed with a lover. I would touch myself all over, and sometimes use an empty plastic tampon applicator to experience some penetration. My first orgasm resulted from tensing muscles in my stomach and pelvis, which continued to build until I felt an intense pulsing and release in my vagina. It kind of freaked me out the first time, but it felt so good, I continued to bring myself to orgasm on many nights.

As an adult woman, I enjoy self-love tremendously. It's often a sacred space and time for me, when I can enjoy being sexy without fear of judgement or my husband's prying eyes. One of my favorite things to do is to put on some porn. I especially like vintage lesbian (60s, 70s) porn, porn featuring women with large natural breasts (like my own!) and natural pubic hair, female ejaculation scenes, and lesbian fisting scenes. Watching porn helps me get really, really wet, so I'm ready for all kinds of penetration.

I have acquired a rather nice assortment of toys, including dildos and vibrators, as well as butt plugs and smartballs. Depending on how I'm feeling, I sometimes prefer double penetration- with a butt plug and a dildo, two dildos, or a butt plug and smartballs.

I usually start out by just teasing myself. I run my fingers through my hair, pulling gently on it, and spreading open my labia, without directly touching my skin. Then I like to massage and pull on my outer lips, bringing blood to them, and indirectly stimulating my clit. I do this as long as I can stand it until feeling the need to enter my well-lubricated cunt. To slow myself down, sometimes I massage my breasts, rubbing them in big circles, pulling gently on my nipples, twisting my nipples, and sometimes even sucking and biting on my own nipples (which is possible because I have DDs). Sometimes I like to lean forward so my tits can hang, and I pull on them and knead them together, and make them swing back and forth.

When I get this aroused, I usually prefer to not use vibration, but to use manual stimulation to more graduatlly bring myself to climax. Lately, I've been wanting to experiment more with g-spot stimulation and self-fisting. I enjoy feeling fullness in my cunt while slowly tracing circles around my engorged clit, and "jacking it off" by sliding the hood up and down slowly and firmly. The sensation added to the visual stimulation of women touching each other, licking each other's nipples and clits, or a particularly exquisite cunnilingus scene between a man and my favorite porn star, will inevitably push me over the edge. I love talking out loud while enjoying these scenes, saying things like, "She has such gorgeous tits, look at her nipples, oohh, look at how he's licking her beautiful big clit, mmmm, her labia are so wet and aroused." These are probably the most satisfying orgasms I have because there are no limits, and I can completely let myself go.

Anonymous

I'm 25 years old. I love to masturbate! There are two ways I masturbate. One is with the showerhead. I put it on the pulse mode and put it directly on my clit. I usually do this standing up. My other technique is the electric toothbrush. It's the best! I read this book on great sex, look at the pictures and put the toothbrush on the right of my clit. Sometimes I imagine my boyfriend going down on me. Anyway, those are my tips, even though I know a lot of people already said these tips! 

Rachel

I have been playing with myself for most of my life. I am now 40 years old. I have tried many methods and, after many years of practice have discovered the best. I watch a porn movie or two, preferably with two women making love to each other and this really turns me on. During the movie I will drink as much water as I possibly can. I then retire to my bedroom, take all my clothes off and stand in front of the mirror and caress my body. This turns me on even more and I feel my large thick nipples start to get erect. I then lay on the bed with a large towel under my ass, (I need this), and then spread my pussy lips and slowly run my fingers in my split. By this time I'm getting pretty hot and my juices are beginning to flow. I keep thinking about the movie and imagine another woman is feeling me up. I work my way up to my clitoris and start to play with it with my fingernails, so as to just hurt it a little, but pleasurably. By this time I'm soaking wet. I then insert one finger into my anus and one or two fingers into my vagina, all the time rubbing my clit. After a while, I can feel myself starting to cum and it is very hard not to call out. When I'm just about to cum I start peeing like made and then while I'm doing that I have an enormous orgasm and ejaculate and the same time. I must admit I don't know if I have screamed out at all when I orgasm as there is so much going on and things get a bit confusing. However, I feel so great after I have finished I don't need multiple orgasms, just this one big one satisfies me a lot. I truly recommend it.

Lynn

My thing to help me to release is laying down without nothing on and rub against the floor until I feel done ...I have been doing it for many years and I thought I was alone but now that I see that some people do it also it makes me feel better and now I have made my self a homemade toy made with rubber gloves filled up and I put it inside of me and rub against the floor..This site has been my newest friend, thanks.

Cleo

I love to masturbate.  I have been masturbating ever since I can remember. At first I used to lie on my stomach and use my fist to rub my clitoris until I had an orgasm. This way I could pleasure myself every night before falling off to sleep.

Later, I found that if my clitoris is positioned the right way I can squeeze my legs together tightly and have an orgasm.  I also like to keep the shower on my clitoris until have an orgasm.

Now that I am older, married and in my 50s, I still masturbate.  I visualize having sex with another woman and that helps me to have one of the most beautiful orgasms. I usually fantasize about having oral sex with a younger woman and that brings me to an orgasm.  Even as I write I feel very sexy and am squeezing my legs together.  Also, reading about all the different techniques made me want to come to have an orgasm.  Thanks for allowing me the privilege to get this out in the open.  I love women and would really enjoy having sex with a woman. One of my greatest fantasies when I am masturbating is to fantasize about another woman penetrating me with an extra large clitoris.  It just gives me goose bumps to read about the clitoris information on your site.

Anonymous

I started masturbating when I was 12. I get really horny when I pull down my pants in bed. I then take a water bottle and roll it around where my vulva is. I am so horny right now! Got to go start the pleasure!

Molly

Whenever I smoke a cigarette, I get nice and wet. For some reason smoking is just a sensual experience for me. Today I stood outside my car in the parking lot and smoked a cigarette. I could feel the stirring between my legs as my pussy got wetter and wetter with each puff. I could feel my clit pulsating and I knew I needed my fingers inside my pussy ASAP. I couldn't wait until I got home. After smoking the last of my cigarette, I slid into my car, undid my jeans and slid my hands into my panties. They were soaked as I knew they would be. I traced my pussy lips with my index finger, then plunged it into the wetness below. And begin to slide my fingers in and out of my dripping wet slit. I love masturbating in my car where people can see inside but not know what I'm doing.

I could hear the squishing sounds of my juicy pussy as I slid my finger in and out, finally working my clit until I brought myself to an mind blowing orgasm right there in my car.

Sarah

Before trying this technique, I was totally unable to reach orgasm while masturbating. The only way for me was to have sex with my husband, and I was starting to have a hard time getting off that way. One day, in the bathroom, I decided to try masturbation again. I started to rub my clit over my panties and the, when I got really aroused, I started looking around for something to use because I don't like touching my pussy directly. I found my Venus razor and started stimulating my clit with the round edge. Then, when I got really lubricated, I tried the ribbed side, inserting a little bit of the round tip into my vagina and rubbing my clit with the ribbed part. I always orgasm that way and usually sit, legs wide apart, on the toilet and look in the mirror and rub my tits. 

Patricia

I am a 15-year-old girl. I started masturbating since I was 5. I used to take a pen and draw up and down at my clit. I knew it was disgusting; all I knew was it felt good. My mum soon came to realized about my 'pen-drawing' and I didn't masturbate again until I was 12.

I used to enjoy watching porn on the net. However I realized that I can actually make porn videos of myself too!

Here goes: every time after I bathe, I will lie on my bed with my legs and arms spread opened. I would imagine that I'm being kidnapped by my crush and he has stripped me naked to rape me. Then I will blindfold myself. I will start 'pleading' with him to let me go as I touch myself all over the body to make myself horny. Then I will use a clip to clip on my nipples. It is rather painful but I can feel myself getting all wet. Last of all I will use the vibrator and massage my pussy up and down till I orgasm.

Then I will stop the video running, and I'll watch it myself. :)

Cindy

I enjoy taking a Barbie doll and placing it in between my two mattresses on the floor.  [The two mattresses on her bed must be sufficiently high enough off the floor to permit this.] I angle it so that one leg is facing outward.  (I can also use either a candle or a handle brush) I then get down onto all fours and back up until the Barbie leg is inside of me.  This way I can enjoy the pleasures of doggy sex without ever having to be with a man.  (I'm a virgin) It also is a great position to ejaculate from.

I love to master bate with my Barbie.  I take one leg, or two, and move it in and out of my vagina.  I also angle one leg upward to stroke my clit while the other one strokes my vagina.

Anonymous

I'm a 13 y/o girl, that has been masturbating since the age of five. When I was five or six I used to put my hand "down there" while in bed and I would hump a chair while watching naughty movies in my parent's room when they weren't there of course. And at age seven I used to have play dates with my male cousins who were older then me by one and two years. We used to lie under the bed sheets and dry hump each other. Then one day one of my cousins was fully naked and I was wearing a skirt and you can fill in the blanks. Once my dad caught me opening boxes of condoms because I was curious about the half naked lady on it. ROTFL!!! But at the age of 10 I started using the shower head and still fully not sure what I was doing. Then I started two feel guilty because I thought I was having SEX with the shower head, I know I am little slow. But now I use the shower head and the back massager and place on top of my general area. I luvs this site VerY mUcH!!! and ♥

Lucy

I would just like to say that I love your site, I masturbate frequently when I read your stories.

My experience may seem a little strange to some, but my first masturbation experience involved my parents. When I was about five I walked in on my parents when they were both naked. They were not having sex, but my dad was spanking my mom and she appeared to like it. She was sprawled on the bed and while he was spanking her she was humping a pillow underneath her pussy. They did not see me because their backs were turned and I did not know what was going on, but I felt this tingling sensation in my pussy and I had to do something about it. I went back to my room and took off my underwear and started wildly humping my pillow and eventually felt this explosion which I now know was an orgasm. I am now 26 years old and  continue to masturbate to this day using a pillow as well as my many vibrators, but that experience remains with me. I still think about that and remember it well. I was wondering if anyone else has been turned on by seeing their parents in a sexual act before, if so I would love to hear about your experience. Thanks for letting me share this and happy masturbating.

The Clit Girl

I grew up in a traditional Indian family, so I really did not know much about sex until I started exploring on my own. My family probably think I am still a virgin but I'd leave them thinking that way until my wedding night.

I am all about the clit. I won't deny I've enjoyed having sex with most of the boyfriends or one night stands I've had, and I love the "being filled up" feeling and the cuddling afterwards. However, the orgasm I get from touching my clit in a circular way can never be replaced by anything else. My current boyfriend knows that and has a way of being inside me while massaging my clit at the same time. He also goes down on me and licks my clit in a way that makes me feel so good! But I still masturbate each night when I am not with him by massaging my clit, and I'll admit sometimes I have wild fantasies about being attacked by random guys and forced into having sex all night. It just turns me on. The orgasm I get is so strong sometimes I feel the urge to kick the walls or scream.

First time I had an orgasm was when I was 8 years old during my very first period. I was washing my pussy and started feeling the clit and of course was not sure about it then. I started touching it and felt a weird sensation. As I went on touching it in a circular motion .....faster and faster, I felt a warm rush of liquid coming thru, and I screamed and sat down hard in the tub... I felt so good and my pussy felt it was going to burst. Ever since then I tried various items such as Q-tips, electrical toothbrush, ice cubes, mint flavored lip balms on my clit.

I finally let a guy I had liked forever inside me was when I was 24, before that I had been fingered by many guys I had dated so my cherry was in a way popped long ago. However, first sex was really hurtful & guy was a jerk. He was an Indian guy and did not know I was technically a virgin as I did not bleed, so he never called me after he had me since he thought I had been around a lot. That night after he left I cried all night but ended up massaging my clit to a point I orgasmed so hard that my mood suddenly changed. Later on he decided to call me but I just never wanted him back again. 

Now I have a wonderful boyfriend but my relationship with my clit will never change :) I think it's time to have another "session"

 


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