It was a summer night and I was with my boyfriend out in a wheatfield. We were laying in the sun when he gave me a juicy kiss. They became more intense when he ripped my shirt and bra off exposing my erect nipples. He began to suck on them. I saw his giant bulge in his pants and I took his pants off and boxers to expose his hard cock.  I put it in my mouth and swallowed his juices. Ooohhh they were soo good. Then he licked my clit and oh it felt sooo good that I began to scream. I cummed all in his mouth and he loved it. Then all I wanted was his silky hard cock in me so I said go into me and he did. He fucked me over and over again. Finally we went to my house and did it all over. I will never forget that day.  

Okay, I seriously feel like there is something wrong with me! I only just baaarely started having sex like about a few months ago, I get laid probably once a week, because my man works overtime:(......but when we do, I don't enjoy it, or more like, I've never gotten an orgasm...I'm getting frustrated because everyone is all like it feels good, but for me whenever we have sex like certain positions I feel this overwhelming pressure in my lower tummy and sometimes it feels like too much it doesn't hurt but it feels soo weird I have to tell him to slow down, because whenever we do it its like bunny sex fast and hard! The only time I've felt something was when I first tried masturbating, I felt something good for like two seconds, then I stopped because I heard something..but other than that nothing...

I've only been doing it for a bit and my friend keeps reassuring me that it takes time, that everyone's different...but I feel like a freak! Someone please help.

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I am so thankful I found this site. I'm 17 and a self proclaimed bisexual since I was 15.

Even when I was young I loved looking at genitals, and I remember many occasions when I was 7-8 where my best friend and I would lock ourselves in her room, or mine and just take our clothes off and look at each other, or dance or just play "truth or dare" with each other.

As I got older (11) I developed a crush on a boy. He never felt the same about me, and 'dated' this other girl instead.

I hated her, and yet ironically when they broke up, I stopped hating her and developed a crush on her after getting to know her some.

When I was 12, I started masturbating, usually to porn. When I was 13 I had my first sexual encounter with my girl cousin, and step cousin.  We performed oral on each other, and we've mutually masturbated together.

When I was 14 I acknowledged to myself I was bisexual, and I was pretty cool with that. I didn't tell anyone until I was 15. 

When I did, I told all my closest girlfriends, and thankfully for me they all accepted me, and didn't turn against me just for being bi.

I put up this strong "I'm only into girls right now" front, up until just recently, so guys would liked me, and who I didn't like would leave me alone sexually. It worked.

Another reason why I put that front up was because I didn't feel conformable with getting sexual with guys. I still wasn't completely comfortable with myself sexually and stayed away from sex because I knew in my head I wasn't ready at all. So I stayed a virgin, and  I'm still a virgin.

When I turned 16 I began to fantasize on what it would be like to have sex with a transvestite. (Blame rocky horror picture show.)  I also started wondering about intersexuality, and other forms of genders.

I never really thought of myself as any different as anyone else. I just loved variety, and I did some research, and it dawned on me, that no matter what, everyone was human and deserved love just as much as the next.

I've become very active in gay rights, and while currently right now I have a guy friend who I've become very intimate with, I still love women, and fantasize about them. 

I think this is an excellent site and I have sent a link to my best friend.

I can't think of anything else to say at the moment.

Thank you for this amazing site.

Lauren

Okay, so I had a funny weird experience with my man! Just yesterday I went over to my boyfriend's house and may I say he looked FUCKING gorgeous when I opened the door..I remember thinking wow I've never seen anything more beautiful! Anyway, we were watching a movie when I turned around and started giving him pecks on his neck, cheek and then mouth..Then he held my face and we started to makeout....His hand slowly caressing my stomach moving up and down gave me the chills! He went towards my breasts and then moved down to my pussy..He slid his fingers and went to town..after that I started to give him the same treatment, I slowly got on top of him and started to go down on him. He pulled off my shirt and moved my hair to watch...then I guess he must have wanted it all because he pulled me off and started to kiss me and pull my pants off...I started to rip his close off..he reached for a condom and put it on and he slowly went into me..God it felt sooo good him just going in! I started to ride him slowly then I sped up, and looked at his beautiful face and next thing you know he starts to laugh....I stopped and I looked at him and was like WHATS SO FUNNY??! And he's like nothing and continued laughing I didn't understand..I was like is he laughing at me??? OMG.....so I asked again why are you laughing and he's like because your beautiful, and I love you..I'm like whaaat?? And he's like its because you made me come already! And I was like OMG (because it wasn't even two minutes, this gorgeous man usually lasts FOREVER, I mean FOREVER, one of the reasons why I don't like going down on him because my jaw gets sooo tired! Lol)..and he's like yeaa I could feel it coming so I was thinking maybe I should get on top but it felt so good I was like eeeh fuck it! lol..so then I was like oooh and started to laugh..and he's like ooh yeaaa what a great relief for you babe that it was me why I was laughing..HEY stop laughing at me dick! And I just bent down and kissed his soft lips!

My first actual sexual experience was not that long ago. Me and some friends, along with one their cousins, went to hang out at our local skating rink, and the whole time him and I would flirt, and joke around about us fooling around later and we eventually couple skated (ikr soo cute lol). Afterwards I stayed the night at my friend's house (the one with the cousin) and I just happened to pack short shorts for my PJs.

He came into the room that me and my friend were in and sat on the bed, by his cousin/my friend, facing me on the air-mattress we all just talked and looked through dirty truth or dare apps and then my friend said goodnight, and as we thought, went to sleep. And then it was just me and him (let's just call him Mark) talked and stuff and listened to my iPod. We had to share earbuds so Mark  climbed into the air-mattress and complemented how I looked in my shorts. And then the battery on the iPod died so Mark was like sooo wanna make out, I got the biggest smile ever. And then we started doing small pecks but laughing every time we would lean in to kiss but then we started making out the first time he put his lounge in my mouth I jumped away he laughed.

But then we made out again and then he started moving his hand near my breasts and then he asked if it was okay to touch me there, I didn't care so he rubbed my breast as we kissed. He gradually worked his way down to my shorts and grabbed my butt and said he loved my shorts, but in no time they came off along with his. I grinded my wet pussy onto his erection as he felt me up. And then he pulled the covers up over us, and reached into my panties asking first and of course I said yes. He pulled them off me and then he sat in front of me, spread my legs and fingered me loudly. Mark knew I was enjoying it so he leaned down and ate me out. While he was doing so I was trying my hardest not to moan and wake my friend up, but the entire time in my head, I was just thinking Oh.My.God. He came back face to face with me and said return the favor so I sat in front of him and jerked him off and then blew him. Eventually Mark came in my mouth and not knowing what to do I swallowed it.

And then we heard birds chirping and realized the sun was up and it was 6:30am, so we put our clothes back on and we just spooned during our pillow talk. We kissed each other goodbye and he left to go back to the room he was suppose to be in and I fell asleep. When I woke up my friend was up too and she told me we kept her up last night. I apologized a million times by she was like it's okay I know y'all have liked each other for a long time .and then made fun of what we sounded like and what we said. She summed it up with I didn't stop y'all because best friends don't cockblock. Later that day, while I was at home and talking to Mark, I was blushing non-stop my parents were staring at me wondering what happened. The next day Mark broke up with his girlfriend to be with me.we were both 13 and still are.    

So I've read some experiences and it encouraged me to share mine...I am 17 now, and for a LONG time, even before I had a boyfriend, I read and watched all about "making love". All those movies with passionate sex just made me want to experience it for myself. I had many boyfriends, and now in today's generation, sex seems to be the "in" thing. However, I never gave in, even to the most HORNIEST boyfriend. Finally at 17 I lost my virginity; It saddens me because I am one of the many girls who regrets my whole first time and say "I should have waited".

It was with a guy I had met when I was a freshman in High School..and he was a senior. There were some conversations, some emotional, some casual. Finally one day he tells me he's liked me for a long time..Which I found great, because I did too. Only one problem, he was my older brother's best friend. Perfect right? Haha...

Some how the word got out and he disappeared. We ran into each other a few times throughout the years because of my brother. But it wasn't until my senior year that we ran into each other and talked. He got my number and we talked hung out (Forced to hide from parents and brother) and finally he tells me how he's felt about me all these years, then he asks me out. Me knowing him for such a long time and him knowing my brother and family I trusted him, however we had to hide it..We dated for a while, and didn't take long for the topic of the hour to come up..Sex..He told me that he didn't wanna rush me because he "loved" me, but he confessed how sexually attracted he was to me.

I told him "sorry" but that I wasn't ready..He expressed to me many times how he wanted to make love and share the pleasurable feeling of it all..One day he tells me to sleep over..Me knowing that there was a possibility that "it" might happen I agreed..He picked me up, and went with his friend and his fiancee to have a couple drinks. We could all feel the alcohol setting in, so I laid on the grass for a bit. He looked at me and asked if I was tired and if wanted to we could go lay down..I smiled and said sure..We went in, and as soon as we closed the door, he started to kiss me..He moved from my lips to my neck and then said do you want to..and regretfully I said yes..(What I regret most is loosing it to him and that I was sooo tipsy but getting back to the story;P)..He lead me towards the bed, and kissed me gently then unbuttoned my pants and practically ripped them off..he pulled off the rest of my close, and his, and he got up to get a condom..He slips it on and then says ok here we go..

Jesus.....

As he was first going in, I I was like "okaay this isn't so bad" then he thrusted it in..and I thought "OOOMMMGGG...OOOUCH!"..as he did so he waited to see if I was okay, and I told him not to be rough...He didn't listen...He kissed me then moved his body up and down slowly speeding up...All I could feel was pain...I just wanted him to stop..but I didn't because I wanted to get this over with..He went faster and faster and I felt like he was tearing me apart inside..I felt NO pleasure what so ever, and I guess I was soooo tipsy because next thing you know the lights were on and he was telling me to get up..I looked at him confused, but he was telling me to get come in the shower because I was bleeding..Reassuring me that we weren't gonna have sex he opened the door and said okay run across...I stepped out of his room and I look to the right and his friend is sitting at the end of the hallway at the dinner table staring at my NAKED BODY...I ran in the bathroom so embarrassed not sure if that was real. After we went back in the room put on pj's...Some stupid little argument he started got him riled up and stormed out..I was so angry at him because he was being so immature..I thought your really gonna do this to me my first time..I was so ready to leave until his friend's girlfriend walked in and asked what happend..I told her and she said I to just tell him to come in and talk or that I was gonna leave...Finally he settles down turns off the light and starts to kiss me..

Then he slowly started pulling my cloths off, and he got up to get another condom...then we were at it again, how ever it waas still very painful..He was going SOOOO fast..Our bodies began to make the slapping sound..and he was POUNDING on me so hard..I couldn't take it anymore I told him to stop but he only went faster..I told him again but wouldn't listen to me..I could feel my eyes start to water and even raised my voice..but he still didn't listen..Finally he stopped..He said sorry, I was needing to finish..I was so mad..I pushed him off of me..I thought not only did I not feel any pleasure again, I was in major pain the whole time and still in pain after..He hugged me said sorry and we knocked out...

The next morning, he drops me off my bff's house, and tell her the whole story..Meanwhile I was txting him he starts a dumb argument of how he feels I'm different..I was so confused, and he said I'll txt you later..I went out to a party that night and got stranded, I called him five times and no answer..Finally went home, I woke up the next morning expecting to hear from him (figured he would call after having five missed calls from me) but nothing..2 days go by...3..5..2 weeks went by without hearing from him..The whole time I didn't try to contact him because he's the one that never called me back or anything the day "after". I realized what had happened..I was done after the 4th day of not hearing from him...Finally after the two weeks he txts "Babe, please txt me back"...He goes on making up excuses why, but I didn't take him back....

I later find out that during those two weeks he was trying to get back with his ex girlfriend...

Plzz....Girls who are virgins!! Wait! Make him wait..because if he truley cares about you and "loves" you he will be patient enough for YOU to make the first move that will let him know your ready....Depending on how you feel and your trust toward him, make him wait a month, more if you have too.. a guy who is just really looking to get some and likes you but doesn't really care enough to wait...WONT..he will probably break up with you..But if you feel that he hasn't pressured you at ALL then now its really up to you and when your ready..

Don't let what happened to me happen to you..

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Firstly, I want to thank you for this website, and thank the women who have shared their stories. I was surprised to find how deeply affected I was by some of your experiences. I am 24 years old, and have been in a wonderful, honest, healthy, and sexually satisfying relationship with an incredible man for four years. Unfortunately, though, it took me a very, very long time for me to let him in (figuratively and otherwise).

For almost the entirety of my teenage years, I was in what I now know was an emotionally abusive relationship. I ignored the warnings and advice of friends and family, and stayed with him anyway, convinced that they were all wrong, and that I saw something in him that no one else did. He hated my friends, and so I stopped seeing them. He was completely unpredictable, and could erupt into a rage or clam up in a wordless melancholy at any time, and I always seemed to do or say the wrong thing. I waited until I was 17 to sleep with him, and only did so because he refused to believe I truly loved him, and I wanted to prove it. It was extremely painful, and afterwards, he was upset that I didn't orgasm.

The next few times it happened, it was still very painful, and he got frustrated and upset with me that I was still "complaining" of pain. I also never had orgasms, and he said he was doing everything right, and he couldn't understand why my body was so "slow" to respond. He said it made him feel like he was a bad boyfriend, and like less of a man, so I eventually just started faking it. It was my best friend, when we were 18, who told me I should masturbate, and learn my own body, that there was nothing wrong with me, I just needed to understand myself. I tried, and though it felt good, it took several months before I was calm enough to actually reach climax. I think I was putting too much pressure on myself. When I tried to show my boyfriend how I needed to be touched, he tried, but then kept asking if I was close, and got bored and frustrated. Eventually, he broke up with me freshman year of college, so that he could date other people. He didn't want to be in a committed relationship, but he still wanted to sleep with me, and so I would go visit and sleep with him (at this point, there was no foreplay, often not even a kiss, just sex void of all warmth and tenderness). I wanted to prove to him I still loved him, and wanted him to take me back someday. I felt like trash, and am still very ashamed that I ever allowed myself to treated this way. I am, and was always an intelligent, proud person, but it is easier than one would think to lose oneself in an unhealthy relationship.

It was during this time that I met my current partner. He became my best friend. He was in love with me, but never told me, realizing what a tough time I was going through. He comforted me, cheered me up, was always by my side, and helped me rebuild my self esteem. I told my former boyfriend, the next time he tried to sleep with me, that it would never happen again. I told him that I refused to be his security blanket, or his back-up plan because I deserved better than that. I was becoming myself again.

Eventually, my current partner told me how he felt, but put no pressure on me. I told him I needed to be single for a while, and learn who I was on my own, before getting into another relationship (I also went through therapy).

After two years of waiting and being my closest friend, I realized I was in love with him, and I finally gave him a chance. Best thing I ever did. He is still my best friend, and we have an incredible sex life. The first time I allowed him to venture below the belt, he made me orgasm in mere minutes. I was so relieved, I cried. There was nothing wrong with me, after all. I just needed a loving, patient person to prove it to me. Turns out, I am also a loving, patient person, and have a very healthy sex life with myself, too. If anyone out there is reading this and recognizes themselves in my story, please be assured that you are a beautiful, worth-while individual who deserves respect, love, and patience, not just from your partner, but especially, from yourself. If a situation doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. If you don't want to, don't. If you DO want to, DO. I know it all sounds cliche, but sometimes it is the simplest, most obvious, most necessary things that evade us, that we deny ourselves. Thank you for reading.   

My boyfriend & I bring new meaning to mutual masturbation! I know this is very common, but after we've kissed for some time, he'll start to massage and suck my breasts, sometimes doing both at once. He loves to hear me moan. He'll let me get a good position while I'm on his lap, straddling one leg so it pulls my lips apart. Slowly, he'll move me against him, my clit being stroked each time. It feels good for him because it's rhythmic and so close to his area, and it brings me to orgasm. Of course, after that I'm a little sensitive.

So, to be fair, I'll reach in and massage him, too. I love the way his penis feels in my hand and the way he reacts. Not a moment of this only pleases one of us.

I have ALWAYS been a very sexual person. I think a lot of it stems from abuse as a child and the fact that I look at sex as more of a fun sport or activity than a loving act. But everyone once in awhile I go into these extreme moments of horniness, almost like I go into heat, and I just cannot get enough and all I do is think about sex and fantasize.

I am 25 and have been having sex for about a good 10 years. However, orgasms were few and far between. I had my first internal orgasm by a long term boyfriend at 15, but it was a rare occurrence and took a LOT of work and only happened a handful of times over the next few years.

I always masturbated internally and I don't think I even knew where my clit was until I was 17 or so. I had boyfriends go down on me and things like that, but I don't know if my clit was just lost in the folds of my lips or what, because I did not get much out of it. I was 18 before I had my first clitoral orgasm with a vibrator and was totally blown away with how amazing it felt. I was 24 before I was able to have a clitoral orgasm with my hands! Between abuse, having children, and being cursed with some large labia I am pretty uncomfortable with my genitals, so it was not something I explored often and it was definitely not something I let other people explore a lot of. 

I am married to a wonderful man, and even though my attraction is 80% toward women, he is awesome and has done an amazing job at learning my body and making me feel amazing. We have been together for 6 years, and I STILL fantasize about him. Even still, it hasn't been until the past year or so that I let him go down on me without being ashamed and he is soooooooo good at it that I fantasize about it often and I want it often, but I'm still too embarrassed to ask for it.

The passed few days I have been extremely horny and sex has been filling my brain. Monday night my husband was already asleep when I got into bed, so I snuggled up behind him and started rubbing through his pajama pants. It didn't take long to get him aroused and he rolled over and pulled his pants down for me. I laid my head on his stomach and marveled at him like I always do, slowly running my hand up and down and admiring the soft skin over the hardness. It wasn't long before he nudged me on down for a mouthful. It was definitely not what I woke him up for, But I enjoy pleasing him and swallowed his ejaculate like I normally do.

When he was finished I rolled over and took out my pink vibrator and started to play with myself. For a little inside with the g-spot nub and then outside and back in. I have recently had quite and obsession with squirting. I do not know why, but it makes me VERY curious. I have been trying recently to make myself do it. I know I have managed to so SOMETHING recently. Whether or not I am peeing or squirting I do not know, but it feels great regardless! I was hoping to do it while lying in bed with my husband, but I always get too nervous and embarrassed and it doesn't happen. I did have a great orgasm though, but no relief. I just just kept wanting more.

I slept terribly that night. The throbbing in my lower regions kept me up. The next day wasn't any easier. All I could think about what how I wanted to touch myself. But it just was not possible as I am a stay at home mom of two small children. I talked to my husband through out the day and he said he was not feeling well, so I knew my likelihood of intimate time later was thin. I tried to take my mind off it, but it just wasn't happening. By the time my husband got home I had a movie ready for the kids and I stole away with him to the bedroom for a quickie. I immediately rolled him over, pulled his pants down, and took him into my mouth soft. It was amazing to feel him get hard in my mouth and I quickly slid my own hand down into my pants to part my big lips open and flick away at my little nub. He asks, "Are you playing with yourself too?" and I looked up and said, "Is that a problem?" and kept going.

Shortly afterward he asked, "Do you want me in you?" and sat up. I got on to my hands and knees for him and he started pounding away, then I leaned back so I was kneeling as he went and I could feel his whole body smacking into mine. It was awesome, but still ended too soon for me! I just couldn't get enough!

I left him to the kids and took myself to the bathroom. I was already dripping wet between my own juices and his and used my left hand to hook my fingers in and pull at my g-spot while the right went to down and started rubbing all across my puffed up lips and clit. It felt so good and I was shaking all over but my orgasm just kept dancing right out of reach. Finally I leaned back as the orgasm finally took hold and I squirted/peed all over my hands and across the bathroom floor. My whole body was weak and I felt totally spent. I cleaned up, and then headed down stairs.

You would think that would be enough, but it wasn't! I got everyone else in bed later than night and then soaked in a hot bath, reading a book with one hand and trailing my fingers over and in between my lips with the other. I know that they aren't very pretty to look at, but they are definitely fun to play with! Before too long my clit was poking out again, wanting attention. Obviously I cannot see my own parts very well, so I grabbed my cell phone and started snapping some pics so I could see exactly what my husband looks at. This went on for a bit and I kept touching. eventually I decided to take a video of myself having an orgasm. So I kept my cell phone near by and started vigorously rubbing myself and moving my hips in and out of the water. I felt my orgasm nearing, leaned my hips up, and placed my cell phone with the video running to get a shot between my legs. The idea of being "watched" helped speed things along and I had another powerful orgasm complete with a squirt/pee that I caught all on video.

Despite all of that, I still wanted more and tried to wake up hubby for another romp. He was too tired and not feeling well though. I did not sleep well again last night! I think I may be a little too sore to take care of things on my own today though!

Hey I'm 15! It was a warm day and I have very very pale skin :/ anyway me and my boyfriend went back to his house after an hour or two at the beach. (Still in bikin I and him in his swim boxers) he saw that my shoulders were a bit burnt so he put some cream on them, he had some cream left over and rubbed it on my tummy. I felt sooo good! :) when he'd finished I looked up and kissed him hard, he kissed back and put his hand on my butt. We both felt his penis become erect and hard. We climbed onto the sofa and we made out until we tore each others swim wear off. He had a man bangle on his arm, he pit it on my wrist, a sign that he did love me. He grinded hard on me until I noticed we hadn't used a condom. We were both reaching orgasms so I didn't want to stop.  We carried on until we both moaned and screamed with pleasure. AMAZING at the time

A couple days later I told my older sister. She was amazing. She gave me 'the pill' to take.

I wasn't stupid. I was just curious. To anyone who is considering sex please be safe and wear a condom. :) x

Hey! I'm 15 and had my first orgasm on my 15th birthday! My parents took me and a friend to Spain, little did they know that the friend that came was my boyfriend of four years. They were cool about me and him sharing a room on our own.

It was late and we'd just returned to the hotel,  my boyfriend handed me a small box and inside was a gorgeous necklace and bracelet, I put them on and went into the bathroom to get changed. When I came out he was sitting on my bed wearing his boxers, he said 'now here's an extra present.' I was really turned on and went to him.

We kissed deeply and intensely, he slipped my pj's off and I pulled his boxers, feeling his penis! He kissed down my body and got to my pussy. The he licked me and sucked me, it was soooo good!!! Then he hit the exact spot of my clit. I screamed in pleasure!!! It was the best holiday ever!! Even better than Disney Land!!!!

Every time I wear my bracelet or necklace I remember......

Now I masturbate three times a week, I find that touching my clit myself hurts and I can only get orgasms by running an old electric toothbrush up and down my pussy. I don't put things in my vagina because that hurts too, that's why I don't have sex. Does this mean that my clit is too sensitive???? My boyfriend want sex but I don't, I'm in danger of loosing him so anybody please help!!??!! Thanks x

Hey I am 14 and have been masturbating since the age of 4 (in year 1). Back then just pressing on my pussy and never really having a orgasm. It all started when me and a 6 year old friend, who said he'd seen it on the internet its OK, took me into the boy's toilet at school removed both our clothes and asked me to suck his "winky," as he called it. In the end I did ,he never got a full erection but instead just let out a little bit of wee in my mouth. He told me this meant I had done well. He then attempted to lick my pussy, he must have done something right as that's when I had my first sexual pleasure. He gave me 3 long licks  before asking me  to get on my hands and knees where he attempted intercourse, only succeeding in rubbing his penis on my pussy causing little pleasure. After one more round of oral he licked my nipples put his clothes back on and we never spoke again.

At the age of 8 I had my first orgasm. At the time I was just in puberty and was exploring my sexuality when I came across my clit. I was shaking once I'd finished rubbing.

By 10 I was not a virgin and had sex with my 11 year old boyfriend regularly. He was a early developer and was 5 inch he even had pubes. He was in the year above so we sneaked off at lunch to a small wood over the fence where he would take me against a tree. We broke up after 6 months and I turned to rubbing my clit again, gradually moving on to a hair brush handle.

At 12 I used my mom's vibrator/dildo combined when she was at work, often cuming repeatedly and I still do today.

Love the site, thanks.

I am married, for over 15 years, it was an arranged marriage. I never fell in love with him, he never attracted me. So sex was not any fun. But recently I met a guy, and I fell in love with him .This is against everything I believe, my catholic and cultural background. I just couldn't let him go, even though I tried very hard. He experienced the same thing, it is like we are made for each other. So we planned to meet and that happened two months ago at a beautiful place. We had sex, first time in my life I felt like a woman. He licked my pussy, touched inside me. I was in heaven. The best part of sex is licking down there. The man should know how to do it. He did it gently, and fast. This was his first experience. So it was great. I love my man. Now we are far away but will meet again. It will be double exciting next time.

I am and extremely sexually open 17 year old girl. I have been open and enjoying sexual experiences since I was about 10 years old. I've had sex with two guys before and recently broke up with my long time boyfriend. After the breakup my friend Michael and I have gotten much closer. My ex didn't like our friendship so I took my new single life as an opportunity to get closer to him. He has a girlfriend so I cant pursue him even though I would like to. So anyway to our super hot sexual experience together. I was sitting in my boring history class and he was sitting on the other side of the room. I took out my phone (which I'm obviously not supposed to use during class) and texted him. While waiting for him to reply I put my phone in my lap and covered it with the hem of my shirt. When my phone vibrated with his reply it was right on my clit and it felt sooo good. So then I told him what happened and he kept texting me. At first he seemed reluctant but then texted me 'this is so hot'. No one else suspected a thing but he was watching me squirm slightly in my seat as I stared straight at him while I got closer to my silent release. I told him I was close and he sent me seven text rapid fire just as the class was ending. I felt my toes curl and I orgasmed right there. As we were walking out of the class I told him that I did orgasm. He was quiet but I could see a bulge in his pants. This is as far as out sexual experience has gone but I want more in the future and I hope he does too.

I'm quite young, only 14, but I have a small amount of sexual experience, small being the operative word. I'll admit, up until about a week before Valentines Day, I never masturbated. Actually, my boyfriend of the time was telling me about a sexual dream he'd had about me, prompting him to ask me if I was wet. I responded with yes, so he told me to play with myself a little. This was all over text messaging, I should mention. Well, over the next week, our relationship escalated quite quickly. The day after Valentine's Day, we had a free day of sorts in science class and were sitting hidden behind some desks in the back of the classroom. We began making out, and he started gently rubbing my clitoris through my jeans. He asked if he could actually touch it, to which I hesitantly replied yes. He slid his hand under my jeans and began fingering me, even shoving his finger up my vagina (we were still in the back of a full classroom...) After this, I started gently stroking his penis, just to return the favor. This is the extent of my sexual experience. This is the same guy who gave me my first kiss and slow dance a year earlier. The only regret I have is that we ended up breaking up two days later because he was upset that I was starving myself. But I was happy.

Ok well...I'll start with how I was introduced to sexual things. I was about four I remember and my parents and I shared a one bedroom, I guess they didn't know that I was up one night while they were having it. I remember it soo vividly, they were in the Doggie position...since then, I've always deep inside have had that curiosity of sexual things even though I hide it with people. During my childhood years I would look for books with sexual content and I would try to see movies that I KNEW had sexual stuff in it. I've always had that burning desire of such things but I usually hide it. Later when I was 9 I had several encounters with sex porno or education videos, sex toy magazines...and I would wonder about these things. Anyway, I one day went to my uncle's bedroom and I don't know but I was just looking through their stuff and I stumbled myself upon a paper bag, when I was about 9 years old, in their...it wasn't new to me that they would have stuff like this somewhere in their bedroom. I mean they talked about sex and dirty jokes like all the time. I found the bag, and it had a sexual education video...it was a VHS and I played it LOTS of times, always getting feelings that were indescribable and I would be like this O.O [wide eyed] just staring at the tv screen... I always made sure to hide the video back so they wouldn't find out what happened every time I was home alone in their house, at the time we lived with them. Later we moved to L.A....then several years later we moved back to Utah with them and shared a house. I was like 12 at the time I think...of course I was older and I understood more stuff of what they said, them thinking I was naive to everything sexual. But I wasn't, I one time found that same video and an actual 5-hour porn video... I found sex toy magazines, educational books on positions and whatnot...of course it was ALL my uncle's and aunt's stuff. I saw the porn and the vid...and one time I was even caught in their bedroom in their walk-in closet putting the video away, I was ALMOST caught but I lied my way out of it luckily lol. I always wondered what those feelings were when I saw stuff like this...and I've read of masturbating and actually when I was younger I didn't get the idea of how you can actually have pleasure having sex...until I was introduced to the word "climax".... I found out like at the age of 13 that its like a peak of this feeling that's called an orgasm. I was pretty happy at the time that I was finding out about this sorta stuff.

Well I'm 15 now... I started masturbating when I was 14, in February. I sorta remember reading about masturbating in Cosmopolitan Magazine and it made me curious about all this stuff even more. And I'm Mormon or LDS..and I've been raised so far that you aren't supposed to arouse such feelings in your body...but I don't know, doctors say its very helpful and then religion says something else. I'm still working on finding out about myself...but actually at the time when I was 14 I didn't own a computer yet, so I would go to my neighbor's house and use his, always making sure to erase the history. Because I would go like on Ask.com and ask questions like, "What is masturbating?, What are good masturbating techniques for a 14 year old girl?" etc. I have to say that masturbating and finding out that I can pleasure myself has most definitely opened a whole new door. When I first began touching myself, I would just touch myself down there...and just let my fingers explore everything and whatnot, I still didn't know about my clit lol but I would stick a finger in my vagina...and I wouldn't "feel" anything "good"...but I soooo vividly remember my very first orgasm. I had come out of my shower and well I just started to touch myself, and I laid down on my back and opened my legs and began exploring again...and then I found this little thing...it was my clit. At first I didn't know it was that, but I touched it and it felt like "something"... I kept on feeling this "Feeling"...until it started to actually feel good, something was building up and I was like "Is this what it feels like?" It turned out it was better, it's a feeling I couldn't describe...but it took my half and hour to get there, but it was worth it. I was extremely happy that I had actually had my first orgasm, it was like my butt and lower back had this spreading warmth and then just Bam...like a roller coaster, after I was like tired...but I wanted more, but I didn't want to go through 30 more minutes getting there. I also remember feeling very ashamed of myself...and I would cry for doing what I did. I felt bad for a while, and I would know that each and every time I did masturbate I would have that same guilty feeling, but the pleasure was more worth it, and I often did feel like crap like 10 minutes later, after my orgasm. Now though that I'm 15...its changed, I sometimes no longer feel bad, dirty or guilty of what I did, its my body and I'm finding out about it.

When I first began... I was already wet just thinking of me touching myself to climax, I open my legs, touch my thighs and use my fingers to move around and about my wet vulva... I used to just use my clit for pleasure and I would get toe curling orgasms where I literally had to use a pillow or my hand to cover my mouth so my mom couldn't hear me moaning in my room. Like I said I'm 15 now...and I use softcore, female friendly porn sometimes. That REEEEEEAAAAALY turns me on like a lot! Not that blowjob stuff or hardcore. Sometimes now I masturbate to that and get good orgasms...I've been lately using a Sharpie and rubbing my clit at the same time, I'm determined to have a G spot orgasm...I've been close, but somehow it turns into a clit orgasm...still good though :D. I love to tease myself and when I'm almost ready to come... I stop and I do this about 5 times...and the final one... I just EXPLODE! It's the best happy feeling ever. I love touching my downthere...and I usually fantasize about having a fallen angel or immortal make hot love to me in the missionary position, where he grinds deep into me in the starry night...lol I know weird but its me and I love it. I'm happy I know I could do this to myself...I've definitely learned about what I like, don't like and what's gonna make my sex relationship with my husband in the future better. Thanks for this site... I get wet from reading these stories xD. Thanks again!

I just want to start off like most other girls and women have that share here about how much I love this site.. I thought I was weird!

My first sexual experience was when I was about 13. My cousin also female, was the same age as me and we both found ourselves wondering about sex and lesbians at our sleepovers. She had told me that she had kissed two of her friends before. I had never kissed any one so I was very curious. During the day we chatted and made a bet that whoever lost had to give the other one a "massage".

We went into my room, my parents and sisters were all out of the house. We said nothing even though we both knew what was happening. She stripped down with just her knickers on. I was already wet. as she lay on her stomach I sat on her back and massage her back. Things got more intense. I was curious and she was horny as hell. Her big breasts were squashed so she turned around and told me I could continue on her front. I massaged her tits for about half an hour. She then instructed me to take of my clothes and she would massage me. I did as told and she, more experienced then I was massaged my breasts and slowly worked her way down to my pussy. At this stage I was sopping wet and from what I could see from her glorious pussy, so was she. She then massaged my clit and we kissed passionately on top of one another and dry humped each other. Over the weekend we made several "movies" which were us kissing.

When she was going home the following week she pulled me into the closet and we kissed in the dark as she fondled my breasts and I fondled hers. We never did anything like that again, and to this day we haven't spoken about that weekend.

Although I do find myself thinking back to that day. I know something will happen again. She gives me a horny looking smile every time she sees me.

I lost my v[irginity]-card last year in the summer, and even though I gave myself up I felt like I was being raped..He promised me he would stop as soon as I said the word but it didn't happen, I felt excruciating pain as he entered me. He went in and out and gradually sped up....it was painful and I got absolutely no pleasure from it...it was just pain, I told him to stop a couple times but he just didn't...I tried to push him off of me, and he only held me tighter and went even quicker... I told him how I felt but he whispered to me that he almost came.... I knew he wasn't going to stop, so I put my arms around his shoulder and held him tight as I felt pain....finallly he was done, and I got in the shower, since blood was everywhere..

He was my boyfriend, after he took my v-card he didn't call me back for two weeks. When he did I told him to fuck off...

A month later I was introduced to this guy who was smart, confident, hilarious, outgoing, sarcastic, GOOD LOOKING, addicted to adrenaline, he reeled me in easily....VERY SEXUALLY ACTIVE, more like a sex addict too... I mentioned to him what had happend (not in detail) and I told him that he just had to be patient for the sex, since I was soo afraid he would leave me the way my ex had..as we got to know each other he told me that he would wait for me to give him the go..but he said I'm a sexual guy and I love sex, once you give me the go, its on everyday after that.. I was okay that's fine.. I was excited, since I hadn't felt pleasure from my first, I was expecting to have a great feeling from this new guy...I am deeply in love with him, can't imagine life without him... I love to pleasure him, but I get sad, because I've never orgasmed and never gotten pleasure from sex.... I feel like I'm broken, I wanna experience what he feels when he bites his lip puts his hand behind his head, looks up at me, smiles and just moans the words "OMG;fuuck baby;your fucking amazing;god this feels good Jesus;fuck."

Why don't I feel anything when I have sex?? :(

Webmaster's Note: The majority of teens and women require clitoral stimulation if they are to experience orgasm during partnered sex. This clitoral stimulation must be provided with hands or mouth, or through outercourse. For teenage women, only 1 out 2 experience orgasm during partnered sex, so unfortunately you aren't alone. 70% of women also prefer a position other than the missionary during vaginal intercourse.

Wow, might I just say, this website; awesome! Given me ideas girls.. :) Well, I'm 16 and I'm an xbox gamer. Sometimes when I'm playing COD online with my boyfriend I purposely get myself in the danger zone to get my controller to vibrate.. As soon as it begins to rumble, I push it against my clit and it turns me on like holy hell.. It's a massive tease  :)  Sometimes at school (lunch & recess) we turn each other on by kissing each other's necks or rubbing each other.. And moaning.. (one of our teachers lets us stay in the music room at school: don't judge, its a huge turn on in public) ..he bites my neck and pushes me up against the wall, oh god, getting wet now! He unhooks my bra sometimes and.. He hates my belt. Heheh, the force he gives me when he wants sex; when he wants me! Wow!   In situations like this, we kind of need to sex, but the law says otherwise. So, we lock the door and hit the lights. We'll make out a bit as I undo the front of his jeans and slowly slide them down as my kisses move south. I give him head for a few minutes, then go and kiss his neck as my hand works its magic until he is about to ejaculate.. Then his fury (lol) because I stopped makes him break my belt pull my pants down a smidge and then he teases my clit for a minute then rubs faster.. And faster.. Until I scream. Then the bell goes, and we're off to psychology.  Ooh, while I'm still writing, the best way I find to reach an orgasm (coming, squirting as well) is to lay on my bed and think of my partner masturbating next to me, or just being taken over sexually. I slowly slip my pants off.. Then my underwear, then my shirt and bra. I like to play with my nipples , then work my way down. This may sound odd.. But my dildo is a deodorant can (Impulse cans). I wrap it up in cling wrap and shove it in my mouth, pretending I'm giving my boyfriend head to lubricate the can. I slide it over my clit, back and fourth.. Faster, then I plunge it into me deep, penetrating fast then go back to rubbing my clit like mad. Repeat. My record is just under a minute. But hey, I had him watching me as he played with himself, I couldn't have been more aroused in my life! Thanks (: <3

After ending a (in all aspects) unsatisfying relationship I started going out and checking out men again a few months ago. I have always liked good looking, tanned guys, not too tall but well built - that is what my ex looked like, and I still can't help but to lust for this type of guy. Never did I think of having sex with someone quite... overweight. But that is what I do now, and the quality of the sex still surprises me every time we do it.

I met him at a party a few weeks ago. Since he seemed to be a nice guy but absolutely not one I thought I could be interested in - way too much belly, longish hair, strange kind of beard and not too interesting as a person - I told him a lot about me, my ex and so on. A lot more than I would have told someone I find attractive! He was very understanding, told me about himself, expressed his liking me but at no point any expectations that would have made me feel uncomfortable. As we kept talking, the alcohol and the memories of the past made me pity myself and suddenly I found myself lying in his arms crying. This led to kissing and when I said I wasn't sure if this was right he just said I should do what feels good and strange but true this did feel good. I just knew I could trust him and he would 't hurt my feelings, so I took him to my place.

He ate me out which was nice but we didn't have intercourse due to the drinks and the late hour. I spent a few hours of sleep on the sofa in the other room since I'm not used to share my bed anymore, and in the morning I went back to bed. We had sex three times, I came amazingly good. He took all the time he wanted to pleasure me with his hands and mouth, and fucked me really good with his enormous cock. I get so aroused writing this...

My point is, he is a much better lover than many of the good looking men I had who think just their appearance and their dick put inside would inevitably send a girl to heavenly pleasures, so they don't bother to make some effort to REALLY satisfy us. But he - massages and licks my pussy (even when I'm having my period) and fingers my anus forever without wanting anything in return. It turns him on to make me come, and he cums good fucking me or stroking himself while I show off my privates.

I admit, it feels a bit like the Beauty and the Beast to be with him, and to me this creates a kind of aesthetic that I find surprisingly arousing. I don't know how long this will go on, but we respect each other and the fact that we're not made to have a proper relationship, so I guess as long as it feels good for both of us, we will keep meeting occasionally to have sex.