I'm only 14,and I'm just getting into masturbation. I started a few months ago but thought it was wrong. I was kinda sexual as a kid, like when I was seven me and my friend stole her parent's sex positions book, we would always look at the pictures and I was always getting wet, but I had no clue. I started having dreams of sex with the guy. I like-dreams with threesomes even. Me and my friend would play house a lot, and lay in bed naked rubbing each others clits, rubbing our pussys together, I remember one time she even licked mine. We made out a few times too, we never told anyone, and we don't speak of it at all anymore, I secretly dream about it still, she's hot now, like really sexy and I dream about having sex with her a lot, and in the past few months I've officially thought of myself as bi. Then I got my first boyfriend about two months ago, we've been making out and he's been fingering me a lot and I've sucked his penis a few times. I was curious and nervous about if we actually had sex so I started watching free pornos,and I found myself orgasming just from watching them-especially girl on girl, I got this masturbation technique from porn. I've yet to read it hear actually, but I love fingering myself, inserting two of my fingers (that's all that fits) up my tight pussy is my favorite thing to do, then I suck on my fingers after I cum, I love licking it all up. My favorite feeling in the world is fingering my anus too, it feels amazing! I suck on my own nipples and hump pillows and shove my fingers up my pussy and anus and rub my clit and dream about my sexy friends. Now that I'm thinking of it, I've never in my life had a sexual fantasy about a boy, unless it was a threesome, well, I'm really horny right now. I'm gonna go watch some lesbian porn and finger myself until I have to change my sheets they're so wet. Don't worry, I do this about eight times a day, I EVEN DO IT AT SCHOOL in the bathroom, talk about a rush. Try it.

I'm only 14 but I have been masturbating for a about a year now and I've had some great experiences. I'm not a lesbian and I definitely like guys but I masturbate while watching lesbian porn and me and my friend Gia often experiment with each other, we often make-out, touch each other and we have given each other oral sex, I love it when she licks my clitoris really fast and sucks on my nipples but I don't find it as pleasurable when she tries to finger me I only reach orgasm when I do it myself, but I would recommend to anyone to find a friend that you trust and is willing to experiment and explore each others body's.

My name is Selina and I am 19 years old and at the age of 8 I was sexually molested by my best friend at the time. I know there are other women out there that have been in the same boat that I am/was in and others who haven't but I wish to share my experiences with you going down the road to being healed from the pain that was placed upon me over a decade ago. Anyone who has been in my shoes can empathize with me that the road to healing is one hell of a long journey! During my mid-teens, my fear was so bad that when I tried to insert a mans' phallus into me, my muscles would clench up so tight, it made insertion impossible and painful! Eventually I trained my body to relax so that it is easier for penetration. only 2 times have I ever had re occurring visions of the molestation run rampant through my mind during sex and both times have resulted with me breaking down into tears and my partner either in panic or frustrated which didn't help. There are some days where I will detach emotionally during sex and when that happens, my body numbs itself from any and all pleasure and I have to fight just to even fake an orgasm. Other days I am hyper sensitive. My body and mind are constantly out of sync in bed and it ends with a lot of frustration and no satisfaction. I have gone through therapy for this but it did not help. Ladies out there, if you have ever been in my shoes or know someone who has, you are not alone! There is help out there!! Sex is something that can and does heal people. The people that hurt you with it are too stupid to realize that fact. Sex is the second most powerful drive in the human body and having someone hurt you that way and having to suppress your drive due to guilt, shame and the pain only does more damage than confronting the fear and regaining your grip on the thing that caused you pain and turning back into pleasure that heals and frees you. I keep that in mind when I go to bed with my partner and I am now starting to have more enjoyable sexual experiences than I ever did in my life! If I start feeling some trauma during sex, my partner and I stop, we cuddle and I get it all off my chest weather it be crying, getting angry or just being depressed. The naked factor also helps because it makes me feel like I don't ave to hide any more and I find I can express my pain a lot better and heal faster. It's a long road and I have a long ways to go but at least I'm on the right track!

Don't ever let anyone or anything stop you from regaining what is rightfully yours ladies! You and you alone have the power and control over your bodies and sexualities and if anyone tries to prove you wrong or show you otherwise or even damage you then get the hell out of that situation and remember that those people, regardless of who they are, are not worth your time or the cost of your well being, mental state and your sexuality!

I'm in tears typing this right now because your website has changed my life. I have had so many body issues growing up like most women and my marriage of the past 10 years hasn't really helped that. I was always a ballet and jazz dancer where they want you to starve yourself to be thin. Then after I had babies I also came down with a major  illness (which I'm thankfully recovered from now) and those things caused me to go from a size 4 to a size 16. I have lost quite a bit now, but I'm still nowhere near my goal and I've been telling myself for years that I will look good when I reach the goal. I will look good later. No way can I possibly be sexy now.

The pictures of women's bodies and genitals are SO empowering. Seeing all those women who look so different from one another look so good naked was amazing.

Tonight I forced myself to really look in the mirror. I put on lingerie and forced myself to look without judgment and you know what? I look pretty damn good even if I'm not a size 4 right now. I was surprised at my reaction but I figured hey if those women who are overweight or have uneven breasts can pose naked for photos I can look at myself in the mirror all alone in the bathroom.

Thank you again for putting this site together.

Hello!!

I'd just like to say thanks for all this wonderful information. I'm 17 and I'm still a virgin and so glad that I found you before I taking the leap. Before I thought I was rather abnormal because I was so "old" yet still a virgin, now I feel more comfortable and I'm really enjoying learning about my body. I imagine now I'm better prepared for my first and subsequent sexual experiences when they come. I come from Africa and sexuality is top of the list of taboo subjects. Given the fact that so many young girls, in this age of STDs and AIDS are having unsafe sex with multiple partners regularly, not to mention the number of rapes reported daily, I wish that the community were more open about this things, educating us rather than leaving us to stumble in the dark. I can tell you firsthand the standard reply when you try to talk to a parent or guardian about sex is "Concentrate on your books, these things will come later". I'm very angry about this considering the precarious and unpredictable nature of hormones in young people, this is information we need now and as you pointed out in one of your articles, sexual growth is much like bodily development: to reach full maturation takes a few years at the least.

I'm not sure if what I want to tell is understood a personal experience only or like a comment.

I read your article about anal sex, and was a little bit disappointed. The whole website is full of true, detailed information, always saying every woman is different.

This one isn't. My first time anal sex came surprisingly, I didn't know my boyfriend had planned to do so. He just started to lick my anus, then put some fingers inside, and then penetrated me - very carefully, always asking if I felt a lot of pain. I didn't feel any pain. I can just enter my fingers or his penis into my anus without special relaxing stuff before, I just don't need that.

And to avoid that you think of me as a generally relaxed person: Vaginal penetration hurts me a lot, I need to do it on a regular basis because every time i don't have sex for a month or more (no matter how much I masturbate) causes me the same problems as my first time ever: Pain. The first 2 weeks after a month or more of abstinence hurt, that's a fact to me I have to accept (By the way: I read a reader's comment who said she started masturbating very early and didn't feel any pain during her first intercourse. Well, I started masturbating when I was 9, and my first time did hurt. All my first times, actually.) But anal sex never hurts.

Maybe I'm weird, I don't know. But the rest of the page made me think I ain't. So I hope you can consider this comment as motivation to improve this part of your website. Not every woman needs hours to be prepared for anal sex.

I'm 17 now and was 15 when I experimented my first vaginal and anal penetration. With the same person, means, the same penis.

Thank you for this website. And for having it translated into Spanish, as my boyfriend doesn't speak any English. Apart from this one article I love the way you write and explain women, it feels so true.

Greetings from Germany :)

Webmaster's Note: The article about anal sex is cautionary because the risk of STD transmission is greater during anal sex than during other sexual activities, which requires greater care to prevent injuries to the tissues that would increase the likelihood of transmission.

I was sitting in my boyfriend's room one day in the summer. This was one of the first times his parents actually left us home alone. He comes into the room with a bracelet that he bought for me. I took one look at it and fell in love. He was my first love. All of a sudden he leans in and whispers in my ear, "I only want to see you in just this." I don't know what my face looked like then, but it must have surprised him. He started to slowly pull down the straps on my new tank top. He looked into my eyes, checking to see if i was okay with it. I was nervous but it was mixed with lust and excitement. He then pulled off my shorts in the same manner.

He then closed the curtains so the room was dimly-lit. He laid me on the bed and pulled down the straps on my bra which was new with lace. He unhooked my bra and then I was lying there in my new bracelet and underwear. He then starts to kiss me deep and passionately, which I respond to with much enthusiasm. This gets me going. he caresses me all the way down my body and up. He then slides his hand under my underwear and pulls them down too.

I am laying there with nothing but his bracelet on. He stands back for a second to take me all in. This makes me somewhat self-conscious but makes me want him more. He kisses me more and moves his lips all the way down my body until he reaches my clit. He moans a little and sucks on my clit and kisses it. He then moves his tongue up and down my pussy, which makes me moan enthusiastically. I stop him there and I help him by taking off his clothes. First his shirt, up and over his head. Then comes his jeans. Ahh I knew he was a boxer guy. Once he is in just his boxers, he goes down on me again. He sees I am coming to an orgasm when he takes out his hard dick and teases me with the tip of it. I can't wait any longer so I take his hips and he helps me out by putting himself slowly inside me. I can feel every inch of his big erect dick slide inside of me. The feeling is amazing. He thrusts his dick in and out while still trying to be careful because he doesn't want to hurt me. I scream with ecstasy, which he seems to be pleased with. This goes on after orgasm after orgasm. I yell for him to go in harder and harder until we both collapse out of breath. We lay there for another hour passionately, but tiredly kissing and laying there. His parents get home and we act like nothing ever happened. From that day on only we knew about our upcoming summers together, and we made the most of them, but the first time ever was the best day.

This is a true story:

I was at my friend's boyfriend's house. Lets call the friend A and the boyfriend Z? And we were watching movies in the basement. The boyfriend's best friend was there. And me and the friend are and were completely into each other. When Z wanted to go to the kitchen to get a drink, I decided to come because I did too. A fell asleep and the friend came up to see me. We sat on the couch and started about boyfriends and things. So I told them that I never really kissed anyone I actually liked. And  the friend knew I liked him. So he told me to get up and I did. I followed his directions and went over to where he was sitting, sat in his lap, and feel him get REAL hard. He turned me around and started to kiss me. Very lightly a few times, and it start to get more and more and more intense, Z just sat there going DAMN BOY YOU GO. As it started to get to the max of being kissing we started to make out he started to kiss my neck nibble on my ear, he began to pull my shirt down a little and kiss my chest. now Z told us he would leave us lovebirds alone and go see A. After the friend was sure Z was gone, he carried me and laid me on the floor. He laid on top of me and started to rub my clit thru my shorts. He took my shirt off pulled my bra down and just started licking and kissing my boobs/ it felt BEYOND good/ he took my shorts off and started to eat me out. As soon as we heard A coming up the stairs he helped me get dressed and we went to the couch again. She came in and winked at me and just smiled and walked away. The friend took me up to A's room and got me undressed as fast as he could. I was really tired now and started falling asleep. He woke me up right away and I started to get uber horny. He stood up as I got on the knees rubbed my clit with the Trojan finger vibrator. And sucked his hard cock. He grabbed my head and made me go faster and faster and faster. I didn't swallow but he loved it. He got his Pone out and started to record it. He grabbed my boobs and started to massage them, and put his face in them and kiss and caress them. He told me to turn over and I did. He got on top of me, put on some lube, and started. It hurt so bad cuz it was my first time anal, but it was worth it with him. I was breathing so hard that he turned over, stopped a while. He got the vibrator and turned it on and started to rub my clit down. It felt SO good. And then I felt him standing me up, kneeling me down and I felt myself start to give head again. I started when I licked the head. My boobs were shaking and hurting from him being on top. He came out and then warned me he was going to cum, so I laid down real fast and got it in my pussy. It felt like in a hot tub if you can some how get the jet in your pussy it feels beyond good. Suddenly A and Z were knocking on the door. Being the genius, the friend was he put on his boxers, left me naked on the bed, and answered the door. Z just said OHHHHH! And took A into the room and we all did it at the same time. First foursome.

I have tried writing this so many times, I want to get something off my chest as writing it like this can be cathartic, but every time I read it I feel "this is too strong!", yet I am still compelled to write it. So here goes.

I am 52, happily married, but these events happened nearly 8 years ago. My husband & I are quite adventurous sexually, we have tried most things at least once, but after 18 years together we wanted to give sexual experimentation a go, so we tried something called "same room sex" which is a bit like swinging for wimps. For those of you who are wondering what that is, it's where a couple have sex in the same room as another couple or couples,all very erotic & visual, but no actual partner swapping takes place. Inevitably, this led us onto actual swinging, first with just the one couple, then at their invitation, at an actual sex party. This is where the events I am writing about took place.

I had once mentioned to my husband that I had fantasized about having sex with several guys at once. Don't ask me why! It was just a fantasy of mine. However, unbeknown to me, Phil (my husband) had arranged a surprise for me at this party. We arrived with our friends Will & Angela & as is usual with these events, we were ushered to a communal changing room where we all got undressed, me down to a my stockings & panties as I was still a bit shy & wrapped towels around ourselves while we wandered around the various rooms. We got to the conservatory which had a hot tub in it, but that was full, so Angela & I sat down & chatted while Angela waited for some space to become available as there wasn't any action occurring yet. Will & Phil went off & seemed to be deep in conversation. Phil came back alone some ten minutes later to find Angela still waiting to get into the hot tub. He beckoned me to follow him so I went off with him with Angela following, he took me into this room that I assumed was hosting some sort of activity he wanted me to see but when I walked through the door I was confronted by Will & two other guys stood around an empty sofa. I thought "ok, now what?" the penny hadn't dropped at all. Phil led me by the hand & I heard Angela say to me "Phil & Will had this planned as soon as you two accepted the invitation to come". Even then I didn't grasp what was meant. "Had what planned?" Then Phil whispered in my ear "your fantasy about having sex with several guys. The four of us are going to give you the time of your life tonight."

I was speechless, and also a little taken aback! I wasn't prepared for anything like this. That night was our first ever sex party & I had come with the idea of watching & partaking in a little bit of group sex, not having a gang bang!

I was relieved of my towel & panties & I felt Phil put his arms around my waist from behind & start to kiss my neck, something that always gets me going. My heart was pounding, I was aroused for sure but also quite apprehensive. I let him put his hand between my thighs & even I was amazed at the level of my arousal. Then Will & one of the other guys started to kiss my nipples & that was it. I was hooked.

To cut a potentially very long story short, I felt I had to take some sort of control of the situation so I got them to sit on the sofa or kneel/lay on the floor as I played with their cocks and one by one, they took me. I know I came a few times at first, all that stimulation was almost overwhelming! I remember at some point in the proceedings looking across at Angela who was avidly watching events unfold. When she saw that I was looking at her she parted her legs & made a show of fingering herself, with a big smile on her face!

But, and there had to be a but, it wasn't what I had imagined it to be. By the time the third guy penetrated me, I was beginning to get a bit sore! Number two admitted that he found wearing a condom desensitized him to the point that he took for ever to come.

Phil was the last person to take me & after only two or three minutes I had to ask him to withdraw as it was getting painful, even with lashings of KY jelly. He brought himself to a climax over my now red raw vulva & that was it.

I hope you enjoy reading about this as much as I have enjoyed reliving it for you.

I am a 46 year young woman who had never masturbated or experienced a mind blowing orgasm until 2 years ago. After being in an abusive relationship for far too long (anytime is too long) I divorced him and two years later found the love I never thought existed. I am now very happily married to a man that has taught me the true meaning of pleasure! He has taught me that there are many ways to please each other and that it is ok to masturbate as well. He even has been a patient teacher in many positions and helped me so I would feel more comfortable doing it. He likes to watch me do it also, it makes him so hard then he cums inside me as we both explode in ecstasy. I love this website because it has helped me realize that many women do this and it is ok to do it. Masturbation does not make you a freak. I also wanted to say that I have a 'thing' for my husband's ass. (He has great buns!) He has even made me cum using just his buns! Now that is talent ladies! I never realized a woman could ejaculate, let alone that I was one of them. That was actually a frightening experience the first time since I thought something was wrong with me. My husband reassured me that this happens to many women and encouraged me to do research on the internet for information about it. That is when I found this site. As a person with OCD, I was afraid of letting myself feel an orgasm (fear of losing control) but I have learned from my very patient,loving husband that it is ok to feel that good and to please yourself too. It is also very important to share your feelings, wishes, and preferences with your partner (this will improve the experience for both of you!) Sex is not everything in a relationship, but it sure beats sleeping! Shoot for the moon, even if you miss you will land among the stars! The more you do it, the more you will relax and let yourself go and truly enjoy the sexual experience- shared or alone.  Don't be afraid of how good an orgasm can feel, there is no limit! Happy exploring!  

To get all turned on while I "Jill", I just think of all the secret encounters I had while young and experimenting with girls.  One girl had me suck on her budding titties, barely starting to get big, but her nippies were getting big, about the size of a hershey kiss.  She wanted to see what it felt like to nurse, and I was happy to oblige. I can still feel her large nipple in my mouth. ( mine were still nonexistent so I was intrigued.) And I also think about how we used to drop our panties and rub against each other.  There was usually struggle to get them "matched" just right, but being on top felt awesome and humping pussies was an after school activity. The orgasms came eventually after "doing it" a few times, and I get turned on by thinking of  how pink her pussy looked after I came on it and left a wet spot on it. Pervy, huh?  Excuse me while I go cum now.

I'm 18 years old I've had a total of 5 boyfriends and I've only had sex with two guys, who both sucked. My first kiss was at an all girls sleep-over at age 14 and it was very awkward for many reasons. We were playing Truth or Dare and you got a pass on a dare, the options were, either I got to pass kissing a girl or keeping my panties on when dared to strip. Its not like it really mattered because I was wearing a lacy pink thong. But my first kiss was with some girl named Rhianah and her lips were chapped, and I was very sad my first kiss was not with a really hot boy with flippy hair.

The first sexual experience I had I was 16 (he was 18) with my second boyfriend, it began with phone sex during the first month. I got bored cause I often got bored masturbating . But if you mean the first physical one, we were on our very first date and we went to go see Twilight. It was a very boring movie, but what surprised me is that he fingered me in the movie theater. I was wearing a dress with leggings so no one suspected anything. It made me very uncomfortable. I was often frustrated with him some times, because when he'd come over he'd just play video games. He was stupid though. I was going to move to North Carolina so we decided to go to the zoo and he humiliated me by going inside the rock statue that had mist to refresh himself, it had ropes around it, even the little kids looked funny at him. So on our way home to make it up to me he showed me his penis for the very first time ( I was 17). It scared me, it was weird, it probably had to do something with my dislike for pubes or the fact that his foreskin was pulled upwards. I told him to put it away. The next week we went to the pool and he told me he shaved his pubes and I was like "oh... not again" but this time after some awkward sexual contact at the pool. I some how ended up giving him road head, which is legal in Kansas. I then asked if there were some how we could be alone to have sex, cause I was not willing to loose it in a parking lot, in the piece of shit he called a car. Just then it hit him in the head that his mom left to see her boyfriend on Saturdays! I told you he was a dummy. The day before we lost it he confessed to lying to me, he'd never had a girlfriend before, he told me he'd dated all forms of girls. The day I lost it was in June and it was on an SAT date. He came and picked me up from my car and we went to go buy condoms, it was the most awkward experience in my life. The tension I felt driving up to his house, he told me that if I didn't have to do it if I didn't want to. But I wanted to, I wanted to get it over with as a form to rebellion against my parents, specifically my mom, who still thinks I'm a virgin :)

When we got to his trailer I could feel the tension it was stiffening the air, I could tell he fixed up his room although it was still messy, he had managed to make his bed. As he went to go lock his dogs up I removed my clothes and lay there in my undies. I undressed him and we made out it was intense but I think he was trembling. I had to undo my own bra. We were fully naked and his erection was pressing against my bare vulva. I had to help him put on the condom as they don't teach people how to do that at school, but I read how to do so in a book. He was lying down on his back and I was on top of him as I guided him inside of me, it didn't even occur to me I'm not a virgin anymore. After some time I asked to switch to doggy style and I queefed, he asked me if I farted, and then I said "No, I queefed" and then I had to explain what a queef was, it was awkward. After a couple of thrusts he went limp, I think it had to do something with the fact that he got XXL sized condoms and he had a size 6.3 in penis. He then remembered his brother gave him a condom, which was surprisingly his size, but he had to go to his car to get it, so I was bored waiting naked in his bed. I think the sex lasted an hour and I got bored, whenever he needed to cum he would flip me on my back and thrust really fast. He did it all the time so it began to piss me off. After sex he refused to cuddle because I was sweaty. Two months later I moved, we went out for a year and 2 months.

The second guy I slept with was a friend who eventually became my boyfriend. He used to have a huge crush on me and he was a virgin. During the middle of December, I realized I had a huge crush on him, but I was really scared to tell him cause I'm not good with words. But eventually what happened is my friend Justin and I made a bet we were going to play the cherrie picking game. My cherrie was my friend, his was the stalker. I won, as you can imagine. We started to go out the day there was a lock down at the school, he held my hand the whole time. Things were going a bit slow but things turned around when we made out at my 18th birthday party. Next week I gave him a blow job, he had to run some errands so he took me to his house it was empty, I wasn't supposed to be there. Later our friend Taylor came over and he figured it out and it was awkward. Two days later it was a Monday, April 12, and at lunch he asked me if I wanted to go to his house and do it. I said yes, I was exited I hadn't had sex since August, also I was exited to win the bet. I couldn't think about anything else for the rest of English, we were reading Mc Beth. After school instead of taking the bus I hoped in his car and we went to his house and I won the bet. He just lied down on his back as I did all the work, He lasted 2 minutes, and his pubes chaffed my vulva. But afterwards he cuddled with me, no one had ever done that. I won, but here is the catch we got locked out of his house and he confessed to his parents of the deed done. He was freaking out about me being prego as we did not remove the condom properly, he begged me to tell my parents so we could buy a Plan B. I lied I found a different solution I found a recipe for a herbal miscarriage on Google. He broke up with me that week I was trembling and I was dizzy due to the miscarriage. I hate him, he didn't speak to me for a week and we fell into a repetitive pattern, cybersex, then being ignored for a week. I even gave him a bj one time after school. Everything was dramatic afterwards he said he never wanted to talk to me again and called me a fucking liar, he even accused me of having sex with the stalker. I will never see him again and he is dating a girl who is looser than octo mom, graduation is the last day I ever saw him.

After two disastrous experiences I am considering checking out women, as guys do not know my anatomy well, and refuse to return a specific favor.

It's me, Cilla, again. I want to tell you something else. My girlfriend, the older girl who showed me how to masturbate, and I used to do it together. Not her me and I her, but each on her own in the same room. I was seven and she was probably only a year or so older. We used to play at her house and when we were alone at home, we sometimes did it.

It normally started with a game. We'd always get to the masturbating part in an indirect sort of way; I don't know why, maybe shyness, maybe we felt it was a little bit "wrong." The game would always evolve to touching. We'd pretend we were models e.g. and change and model our outfits. We'd help make up and dress or undress one another. The toucghing would linger a bit in sensitive places and we'd become more and more aroused.

Like I said, we did not masturbate one another, although I think that would be okay too. We just didn't. I remember, while masturbating like this, I'd be watching her and become very aroused by her pleasure. Early in the episode I'd be stimulating myself, but I was always more interested in watching her than in what was happening physically for me. Eventually when she came I would masturbate furiously to also finish. I guess that's where I learnt about squeezing my thighs and vagina muscles to come quicker. Sometimes I just pretended to come. She'd touch me softly while waiting for me to come.

At the time I did not fantasize about boys while masturbating. It was not a girl/boy thing for me. It was just feeling good and ... well, nice.

This isn't really a fantasy and it's not like others I read in this category.  It's what I imagine while I'm with my partner.  I'm very grateful to this website   It has taught me about my body, how to look at my body, how to talk about my body.

We do other things, but this is what I think we do best.  And we talk about it, so it's a bit like a play.  We know our parts and we rehearse them.  Readers should know this story comes from both of us, even though I'm typing it.

As soon as I begin to get horny, I begin to concentrate my thoughts on how I'm feeling down there.  Because I can't see it all with my eyes, I see it with my mind...and then I let go of seeing and pay more attention to feeling.

I feel my outer labia swelling up larger and getting firmer.  So as soon as Benny gets hard, I kneel on top of him, squatting down to clamp his penis between these lips...a bit like grabbing a hotdog along its length with a bun.  If I tilt my hips back and forth, sometimes I can actually lift him up off his belly and when I look down it's as if his hard penis is sticking up from me instead of sticking up from him.  But most of the time I don't look.  My eyes are closed and I'm seeing what I'm feeling.  When I rock back I can feel the base of his penis pressing against my perineum and my asshole and the hairs on his scrotum tickle a bit.  When I start getting wet the new warmth drips down toward my asshole.  I rock forward again along the shaft of his penis and lower myself down to Benny's chest and he knows this is when he must keep still.  I can feel him matching up my nipples to his nipples, but I'm concentrating on gently but steadily lining up the tip of my clitoris with the tip of his penis.  Sometimes I slip the shaft of my clit across his shaft, feeling the skin covering each of them shifting.  If I think of it, I'll lever myself up and rock my hips back, opening my eyes to see if a drop of his clear lubricating juice has emerged yet.  If so, I'll drop back down and gently let the tip of my clit smear it around the tip of his penis.  If I can stand it (sometimes I can't) I'll keep the two tips in contact with both of us being as still as we can, moved only by our breathing.  Because I can still feel the full length of his penis between my big lips and pressed up against my (flattened?) inner lips I can also feel that sudden clenching when Ben's about to come.  If we're properly positioned, the next thing I feel is a hot splat on the tip of my clit and the thickness and gooeyness provides a shield as we break our stillness and rub against each other more forcefully and my imagination seems to trigger my orgasm.  If I'm still coming, I'll sit back up and, holding Ben's by-now limp dick in my fingers, rub its tip against my clit some more.

Something else we do is for him to get on top, straddling my chest.  When he's hard I'll clamp his penis between my breasts.  He comes within just a few seconds, brushing his belly against my nipples.  Again, with both my breasts I can feel the spasm before he comes.  When I've got his penis between my labia all my imagination is concentrated on how it feels for me; when he's between my breasts, I imagine how his penis is feeling.

We don't talk during sex.  But we talk a lot afterward, describing to each other how it felt.  And how we want it to feel next time.  Again, thanks to this website we have the words to use and the ideas to discuss.  We even talk about the people who write to the site.  Neither of us is an adult, yet, and we haven't had intercourse.  The website calls what we do outercourse...but so much is inside our mind as we carefully imagine what we are feeling.

Hey, I'm 17 and I've been masturbating for about three years now. I LOVE it. I have a boyfriend and I just thought I would share a little experience with you about what happened to me. We were just messing around in bed one time and he asked me if I knew what female ejaculation was. I said that I did and he asked me if I wanted to try. I couldn't believe it, because I had wanted to ask him that for ages, but I didn't because I was too scared of what he would think. He told me that he had been doing some research on how to do it and that he would try his best. He told me to lie down on my back, and then he put two of his fingers into my pussy and started to stroke my g-spot really quickly. He was really good at it. By the end of about two minutes I had my first orgasm, and squirted all over the place. The thing with g-spot orgasms is that they last a lot longer than normal ones, so after I had had six of them I was too tired to even get off my bed. But it was the best thing ever and I can't wait to do it again.

I thought I would share this with the men as I know they love these stories.

I have been married some 30 years now and what I am about tell you happened when I was 40. I think it was due in part to a stale marriage I was in, not having my own children and the thrill of chasing a married man. You see I am a woman in need of sexual attention and needs.

Owing to a medical condition I was unable to have my own children despite many attempts with my husband and others. I was brought up rather strictly so sex was a taboo subject so much of my experiences were with family members, boys where I went to school and fumbles in the bushes after school. My initial sexual experience was with a young boy when I was aged 16 that consisted mostly of groping. However when I was about 18 I was raped by one of my older brother's friends and I became a bit distrustful of men afterwards. Until I got married, aged 25, to a man (I was his second wife) I hadn't indulged in anything very exciting and I wasn't fully experienced in anything sexual even though I had had several boyfriends after I was raped. However, for most of the time, until I was about 40, sex was pretty normal and usual but I was satisfied and it was different from the forced sex I endured.

Whether it was the prospect of the change of life or the fact I hadn't had children I don't know but I took a great liking to a married man in my office. I wondered if I could entice him to make love to me and would dream of him at night when I was alone.

I asked him to drive me home after work one evening knowing my husband was working late and I had at least an hour that I could talk to him. We sat outside my house for about 1/2 an hour and I know I was teasing and egging him on to see if he would react. He didn't but I could see that it might be possible to take things further with him if I persisted.

For the next few weeks I got him to take me home and used these occasions to tease him mainly about his manhood - a lot. Then one night, when I knew that his wife was away for a few days to see her parents and my husband was on night shift, as we drove home I placed my hand on his thigh and stroked it gently getting ever closer to his crutch, teasing him. I touched where his thing should be and felt that it was interested. I knew he was excited then. I also knew that he would give in to me and we would at least share our bodies.

We got to my house and I invited him in for a drink knowing it was unlikely we would get that far. I opened the door, he followed me in, I closed the door and then swung against him kissing him as I did so. Now I am not very tall and he was taller. He didn't seemed phased by the kiss which I thought was nice but I must confess I was a bit shocked at my behavior at first and wondered if he might turn and leave. In fact he kissed rather tenderly and said that it was just so nice being together and then I felt his hands on my butt aa he pushed me against the wall, pushing against me as he did. I felt his hardness against my stomach. I wanted him then. He was trying to lift my dress at the back and eventually he succeeded and managed to place his hands inside my knickers on my butt cheeks. It felt good and as he pushed against me so I pushed against him which must have given him a signal. I wasn't expecting it to go further than a kiss on the lips that evening. Anyway eventually his fingers were easing their way in between my cheeks and I knew what he was wanting. I thought maybe a bit of touching at this stage but I suppose in the heat of the moment things just happen as I felt one hand come out of my knickers while the other edged around the side to the front. His other hand then came up in front of me and I could feel him slowly undoing the buttons of my blouse. So with one hand wandering onto my mons veneris, touching my pubes and the other attempting to get inside the cup of my bra things had moved on a pace. I knew we were ok for time but now I was beginning to think what the neighbors might be imagining so I tried to say something but he stifled the words with kisses and continued his efforts. He managed to get his one hand into my V while the other was successfully massaging my breast and nipple. I thought I should help so put my arms under my blouse at the back and undid the clasp as at the same time he was trying to get the bra cup below my breast. My bra was now loose and allowed him to view my now exposed breasts. He now stooped to kiss and suck my by now quite stiff nipples as his fingers searched around for the entrance to my vagina. I knew I couldn't back out as it was me that had teased him all along. I think it was at this moment I asked him quietly things like 'alright?' 'ok?' 'how's that for you?' He answered with things like 'you're so lovely' 'I didn't expect this to happen' 'are you ok' 'tell me to stop if you don't want any more' I just said 'shush'. I did want more but wasn't going to tell him.

His  finger was entering my vagina and he was pulling it out to spread my juices around my labia and I could feel him parting the lips to find my clitoris. He commented 'gosh you are nice and wet' and proceeded to spread some of the juices around me and onto my clitoris. Using his finger he gently massaged it in smooth circles with periodic returns to my vagina.

While he was enjoying himself with me I had managed to undo his belt, undo the zip on his trousers and find the opening in his underpants to locate his penis. He felt wonderfully hairy. I had his hard stiff penis in my hand and gave him gentle rubs knowing that it would end only one way for both of us. He was already dribbling juices onto my fingers and guessed that he may ejaculate fairly soon. As I was massaging his penis I felt him use two fingers inside me, withdraw them and take them to his penis where he spread my juices on his penis. He said it was just helping having more juice on him. I knew there was no point leaving my panties on so I stooped what I was doing and while he held my skirt up I dropped my panties over my hips and onto the floor.

He went back to manipulating my clitoris and he was kissing me as well. I said quietly I wont be long and he said me too and I thought that this would have to be the moment. I broke away from him and made to lay on the floor but instead he pulled me back to him managing to pull my skirt off me. He then lay me down on the ground on my back, pushing my knickers under my bottom and then went to lie on top of me pushing his dripping hard penis into my very wet vagina as he came down. He then began to move backwards and forwards in quick succession and within a minute I guess it was I felt him come inside me. It was a lovely feeling - the warm explosions of his sperm inside me and they seemed to go on forever. Finally he stopped and rested and after 2 minutes he started again and somehow he managed to get a finger onto my clitoris. So while he was pushing into me he was stimulating me to the point of craziness. I suppose I was only about 2 minutes coming to the boil and as I was about to "let go" I felt him surge again inside me and together we climaxed. The waves of orgasms were the biggest I had experienced in a very long time. It was magical. When I say the feeling to let go came it was indeed like an explosion and as I enjoyed my moments I could feel the juices seeping from me. When we had finished I was glad afterwards that he had put my knickers under me as they saved a lot of cleaning up, especially as both our juices were leaking from me. We parted after maybe 6 or 7 minutes of savouring the moment, feeling our bodies in close contact. Just feeling his juices inside of me made me warm and comfortable. After withdrawing we had a good kiss and cuddle.

He then pulled back and kissed me on the stomach, my pubic hair, inside my thighs and finally on my labia - so tender then with a few words of fondness it was over. It was very tender, loving and I felt loved more than I had for a long time. He returned to kiss my breasts and nipples and to thank me so much for sharing the moment and said he had no regrets for what we had done and I said me neither.

We had many similar times like this for almost 3 years afterwards and I even managed to take him with me on a long weekend with my husband while his wife was visiting her parents. It was nice having him close for a weekend but the only physical contact he and I could have was while my husband went to get the newspaper and while I was having a shower. It was a quick kiss, a touch, and a brief rub leaving us both wanting more.

We did manage one other long weekend with my husband and I when his wife traveled abroad for 2 weeks. On that occasion my husband had to go and get some stuff from a DIY store so while he was away for about an hour we managed to be close and intimate and have intercourse once more though I had to have a quick shower afterwards to avoid my husband discovering I had had sex.

It was lovely and great experiences and so contrary to my upbringing. I still think of these times and now wonder what has happened to him as he moved away from the area once he resigned his job.

Well, Can I just start off by saying I am 17 years old. Recently I have had this really great sexual Experience. I know a lot of people wont agree with this, as it consists of me being unfaithful of my boyfriend of 2 years. But Please read my reasons. (Can just skip this part if you want the juicy stuff). I am very unhappy with my boyfriend as he is too clingy and just wants to know what I'm doing all the time and I am only 17 and I'm not ready for a relationship like that. BUT, I Love him.. I know that's a bold statement but I do. I started chatting to guy online and I have seen him about my College which I attend. He is a very sexy man who is currently 19. He also has a girlfriend which he is very unhappy with as she never wants to see him and make love to him. But like I said , He loves her too. So when he started to talk to me online, I really quite fell for this guy. I know this doesn't mean I should of cheated but It has made me very happy that I have been in a long time...

Anyway Its starts as he asks me to come meet him one day as we chat almost everyday. I did, I know its risky but I thought "what the hell" (also went with pepper spray) I met him and he asked me to go back to his flat. He is very sexy and I couldn't resist him. When we arrived there, he told me his parents were in Italy for months so he lives alone. I didn't think it would end in sex. Anyway We watched a film which was very good. He started tickling me and I was trying to get away but he kept pulling me closer to his face. Then all of a sudden, he leaned in and kissed me. It was amazing! He is such a good kisser.. very soft and gentle and was no tongue which made it much better. I loved it! Then he placed his hands on my head and neck. It made me shiver. He suddenly started to caress my breasts as he gently lifted up my t-shirt. He gently sucked on my nipples which made me moan. Well One thing led to another and the next thing I knew, I was rubbing his hard cock which was huge compared to my boyfriends! and very thick. He was also put his fingers deep in me and rubbing my clit hard. I was moaning and so was he! He said he loved my hands rubbing his cock and he almost came! It was so amazing. It shocked me when he put his fingers back more and started fingering my anus... I have never done that before so It was a big shock and sup rising it felt good! no pain at all. Anyway after all this, he slid his big cock into me... It was amazing, I instantly felt like I was orgasming. After 15 amazing minutes, he came inside me, moaning so much too which is a big turn on. I thought it was all over but then he got hard instantly again so we went again! He make me have 3 multiple orgasms.. I was in heaven! Then he came a second time.. It was so amazing.

We plan to do this some more... it has made me so happy.. I feel bad though for my boyfriend.

When I was 14 I had my first orgasm from a shower. I used the water pressure to stimulate my clit. It tingled but I liked the little pain. Since then I tried almost everything to get me going. I used cucumbers, carrots, toothbrushes, folded bras in a condom, anything that's round and smooth. Then I figured I needed something new. Something that can give me a better orgasm. So I tried rounded but bumpy objects, e.g. a stone doll with a round head (but very bumpy at its body part) covered with a condom. It will hurt a little in the beginning of in & out motion but if you endure just a little more then you will feel much better. At the age 17, a guy from the next door and I had the most unforgettable time. I invited him over to talk about the food I was cooking. After I used the bathroom I think he fantasized about my pussy. He had a huge erection under his pants. It got me wet too, because that was my first time having a real cock erected in front of me. He sucked, licked, and fingered my pussy while I was sucking his cock..he wanted to insert his cock in my pussy but it hurt really really bad so we stopped. He just jerked off in front of me looking at my body. It is unforgettable because the mood, time, and foreplay were the best I've ever experienced. I wanted to let him do me, but I had to move. I miss him and I wish I could meet him again. Jessica.

I have not had any experiences, I came here to learn. I have had wonderful fantasies of sexual pleasure. I imagine having a threesome with 2  men. One is having anal sex with me. The other is having oral sex with me. It's amazing...

I have always had these exhibitionist fantasies, which involved getting naked or taking off my panties anytime I was at home.  I would even change into a transparent top and take off my bra. The idea that someone might "accidentally" see my pussy or tits naked got me extremely wet.  I never really masturbated before, but a few months ago I did for the first time.  I was in my living room and decided to record it on my webcam, it was amazing seeing me touching myself, and I could get really up close to the computer and see it better than with a mirror.  Seeing my fingers go into my vagina was extremely sexy to me, then I started to rub my clit and it was so intense I could hardly stand it and I squirted all over! It was simply exquisite! I have to do it every chance I get now, multiple times a day, it's almost all I can think about sometimes and I have to drop everything and go make myself squirt! I love to fantasize that I'm on a video or in front of a crowd while someone uses me to demonstrate how to make a woman ejaculate.  I wish I'd done this years ago...