I'm 21 and I've been masturbating since I was young, managed to orgasm around 15 and been loving it ever since! Its great as a stress reliever and if you cant sleep! Its so sad that masturbation is seen as dirty. For me learning about my body and what I like sexually has helped me become more confident with and without my clothes on. I'm still a virgin when it comes to men, but for me learning to make love to myself is the best preparation. I know what I like and through experimenting I can come multiple times. Sometimes I fall asleep masturbating because I just keep on orgasming. The first one is usually the best and longest and after that they are quick but still great. I love the fact I can get myself off, without needing anyone else.
I'm beginning to experiment with putting things inside me occasionally when I masturbate, not too big - toothbrushes usually, but just enough so when I come I can feel it there. Otherwise I use my fingers on my clit. I'm very curious about using vibrators/dildo, but I'm not sure. I might get addicted and never leave the house!! :) I have heard though if you use a vibe it desensitizes you. But still I'm curious. Can anyone give me some advice? Is a vibe worth it over using fingers? Like many, no one knows I masturbate so to keep it hidden would be key. It would be mortifying if my mum found it or something.
Thanks and happy masturbating!!

