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I'm happlly married and we have an wonderful sex life. I do also enjoy masturbating. My first time was shortly after my seventh birthday; An older girl showed me what to do. I think it was the secrecy of our little experiences that made me feel it was wrong somehow. Why do we so think masturbating is wrong?

I stopped altogether at about 19. When I got married I had difficulty reaching orgasm during intercourse. I enjoyed intercourse, but no climax for me. (That's all changed now btw, I orgasm easily during intercourse.) After a while my husband guided and encouraged me to stimulate myself during love-making. This was great; It turned him on big-time and I orgasmed every time. I gradually got to feeling okay about doing it on my own, just for me.

I'll be 36 next birthday. I'm a morning girl. Sometimes my husband fondles or kisses my breasts before getting out of bed to go have a shower. This gets me hot. Seeing his erection (he often wakes up with an erection) also gets me going. Then, while he's in the shower I have fun on my own.

I rub my clitoris, softly at first. I like gently squeezing and pulling my nipples with the other hand.  When I'm in a hurry I squeeze my legs together tightly. Alternately contracting and relaxing my vagina while rubbing my clit also brings on my orgasm quicker. I go blank when I come--I've often wondered what would happen if he came out of the bathroom when I'm in that state--I know I won't be able to stop. I don't moan or bounce much though--I come quietly.

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I first masturbated when I was about 10. I had a pool in my back yard that was about 4 feet deep and got alot of bugs in it. Because of the bug problem my parents would leave the pool skimmer in the pool so I could scoop out the bugs when I need too. One day the pool had lost some water in the sun so I had the hose in the pool with me along with the skimmer. I was messing around with the skimmer and prented to ride it like a horse. When I moved my body against it I got this weird but good feeling so I tried it again. I started humping the skimmer until I heard the door open that lead to the back deck. (Our pool is bellow the deck because the deck is pretty high up so my parents can check on me about once an hour.)Anyway I stoped until my mom said she was going back inside. Once she was back inside I started humping the skimmer agian. I looked over to the water hose. I remebered a time a swam by it and the cold water had hit my pussy.  I went over to the hose and put it down my bathing suit and started humping the skimmer again. I kept going until my breathing stoped and I started shaking. I did that until I was about 14 and then the pool broke after my brother jumped in from the deck. I still miss my fun.

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The best way I've ever masturbated was just after I had a really hot dream. This is it- . For some reason, we were all (classmates and I) at a mall with a motel room. I was in the motel room with my friend Dahlia and a few other girls. There were two or three beds, and a girl was on each bed. For reasons I don't understand, I was in just a bra and underwear. I think I was making out with Dahlia- she was naked- or was it another Asian girl? I'm not sure, but Dahlia was either in the bed with me or next to me. Anyway, me and the girl on my bed were making out, and we essentially kicked the other girls out and started trying to start having sex. She said Brianne (I don't know who that is) had found her spot, and that she was sure I would too. I asked her if she was a prostitute and she said that's one way to look at it. I think she was like the anti-prostitute, like I think I was the prostitute. I was definitely sitting up, and the girl was unhooking my bra behind me. I held it up, still covering my breasts and asked the girl on the other bed next to mine- even though I kicked them out, she was randomly still there- I think she was Dahlia.- the time. She said it was 3 ESPN time. I knew randomly that some game or something ended at 3 ESPN time and everyone would have to come find us. I think she was still kissing my body, trying to convince me to still have sex with her, but I disagreed and woke up.

Before I was really awake, I masturbated. I masturbate by just rubbing around my clit and slit, and the combination of the mental and physical stimulation gave me the best orgasm of my life. My hips raised, I shook, and after it was over I felt so exhilerated and calm.

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I'm 13 and have been masturbating since who know's when (: , and everybody says something about climax and cuming but when I masturbate I don't cum [ejaculate], why is that? Answer

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I am 19, and started masturbating last summer. I have never had a boyfriend, and used to have a lot of issues about that and my body, but I have gained both self-confidence and a sense of self-sufficiency by masturbating. At first I didn't really know what to do, and was too afraid to look online for ideas, but knew that the clitoris is where most nerves are located. I also didn't feel comfortable with penetration, so I just rubbed myself, concentrating on the place that felt best. After a while, I found that I was really wet, and that encouraged me. After more time, with growing intensity, I started to feel really tingly all over, and then I had a long burst of pleasure that was stronger than I had imagined possible.

Since then, I've gotten a vibrator, which I like to use as well as my hand. I also like imagining myself in many situations that I would never normally like or agree to, but I've found that fantasies and real life are very different, and that there's no shame in exploring your sexuality. This site has been wonderful in what I consider my coming of age (haha, sorry for the pun). Thank you!

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I had my first orgasm when I was 10, it just happened one day when I had been lying on the bathroom floor with my legs in the aid draping ice cold flannels on my pussy, as I stood up i had the most amazing orgasm, I moaned and gasped and had to straddle the bath.  I tried for days after to do it again, then one day I sat against the bath with my legs wide open and began to rub around and around, I came again! after that I thought I would forget how to do it so I did it time and time again, at school under the desk, in my room, in the school toilets anywhere I could.  One night I played with my clitoris and had an amazing orgasm so I did it again and again and again, 23 times it was amazing.  One day while we were on holiday I got horny sunbathing on my stomach, so I put my hand down the front of my bikini and began to rub,it was sensasional as I was about to come my mum said turn over, I couldn't stop so I rubbed harded and came right in front of her! I am now 50 I love to masturbate in the car with a biro, I wind the windows down and moan while driving rubbing my clit with the biro then when I orgasm I shout "oh god I am coming" it makes my orgasm so good

Thanks for letting me share, I need to go rub my clitoris right now

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I Started Masturbating At The Age Of 12. I Never Really Thought About It To Be Honest As In Earlier Years I Hadn't Had A Moment When I Had My Pussy Rubbed & Felt Good However I Found Out That I Got Horny So I Do It Once Every Night Now. I Read Erotic Stories And These Get Me 'Wet' So I Slowly Massage My Clit. This Sends Heat Through My Body Making My Legs Slightly Hot.

Then When I Feel A Good Feeling I Start Faster In Smaller Fast Vibrating Circles.
(I Warn You Your Hand Aches). I Am Too Young To Have Such Things At 13 & I Don't Have Any Vibrating Children Toys, A Electric Toothbrush Or Use My Mobile. Unfortunately.
I Feel A Great Orgasm Though. The Other Night I Had 3 In A Row.
WOW! It Was Amazing.

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Oh man. I have masturbated for a long time now. I love licking my two middle fingers and rubbing my pussy with them. I fantasize that girls are licking me all over. I love to sometimes get in my tub and let the water flow on my clit. And slowly raise the water temp. It's such an amazing feeling. I recommend it to everyone.

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My technique is kind of weird, but I use it because I orgasm very quickly. First, I rub my clit through my shorts, take off my shirt. I then stick my hand through my shorts, rub my clit , stop and then get fully naked. I tease myself for awhile, getting me really horny. I then take off my shorts, and I have made my own special "lube" out of my juices. I lay on my back with my legs spread wide. I then run my finger around my vagina to get some lube. I tap on my clit , slow at first , then faster. I fantasize, rub some of my vagina`s lube all around my genitals, hoping for a breeze because it feels amazing. I stick my finger in , wiggle it for awhile and then I cum.

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Well I really don't remember when I started but I think it was around the tender age of..8 or 9. I just used to press my thighs together and after awhile I used to feel this great sensation, I didn't know what it was at the time.

I was reading this one book, that I got from my school library in 6th grade, and the girl asked her sister if she should have sex with her boyfriend and she said she wasn't ready, her sister said just practice by going under the faucet in the bathtub and let it run for a little..

So after I finished that chapter I got curious and went to take a bath, at first I didn't put it on my clit (didn't know what it was or were it was). So I didn't get any good feeling out of it..I kept to my regular pressing the thighs together..

When I started to research about "masturbating" I found new ways..First I had to explore the female's best friend so I Googled diagrams so I learned where my clitoris was, then I read some ways to "pleasure yourself" and that's how I found this site. I read if you massage your clit then increase the speed you can orgasm.

I tried a couple of ways like humping a pillow, inserting things, etc. But nothing really satisfied me except rubbing my clit. I masturbate every other night, I usually stay up till late at night so I can watch porn on the movie channels, Sometimes I think about my favorite celebrity.

If I watch porn I usually wait and see if there is lesbians on cause they can really get me wet, I love to watch guy/girl rub another girls clit I rub mine the same way and speed and imagine there doing it to me I can't really turn the volume up cause my mother sleeps next door with the door cracked and she don't know what I'm doing, so that includes no moaning..

If I can't watch porn I imagine my favorite celebrity in my favorite era eating me out then I imagine rubbing my clit against his hard big cock it gets me so horny, I rub my clit really fast then right before I climax I let go then start up again seconds later then I orgasm and cum a lot.

I usually like to go to bed after that or take a shower. I want to be able to access a dildo or a vibrator but I can't cause I'm only 13 but when That day comes It's going to be amazing.

Well I'm going to pleasure myself. Happy masturbation!!

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I'm 15 and have been masturbating since I was 12. I love it! What I use to do is hump the edge of my bed or a large stuffed animal and it made me orgasm in seconds. Lately though, I have been using this stuffed horse that I won at a carnival. It has these legs that dangle down and it really turns me on because I think of them as penises (I know, weird). I have never penetrated my vagina because I'm not ready for that, so what I do is I spread my legs and I rub the horse's leg on my vulva, slow at first but then faster, and it is the best feeling that I've ever felt! I usually do it twice a day and paired with some good porn, it's even more amazing!

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I am now in my 60s and masturbate as part of my love-making. Four children have left my vagina slack and I find that a long session with my vibrator tightens me so that when my husband enters me, he gets greater pleasure too. He loves to watch as I masturbate and we have a lot of photos of me rubbing myself. I particularly enjoy masturbating outdoors and often take the picnic rug to a secluded spot in the garden where I can enjoy myself without interruption, lying on my back with the sun beating down on my body. Sometimes I push my vibrator deep inside me, but mostly I get more intense feelings from stimulating my clitoris. The secret is to use lots of KY warm gel and use my fingers as well as the vibrator.

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I'm bisexual so when I masturbate I always fantasize about my girlfriend. I think about her touching my nipples and sucking on them and then I start to rub by clit. After that I place my forefinger inside my vagina and I start to finger myself until I orgasm. I love when my girlfriend watches me masturbate too. It makes me come faster and my orgasms are amazing.

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Hi my name is Alice, I'm a 21 year old bisexual female. I love to masturbate. I usually do it when my roomates aren't home. My favorite thing to do is clitoral stimulation. I love to lie on my back and spread my legs apart and rub myself. I usually think about my girlfriend while I'm doing this. I think about how good her oral is. That usually gets me going pretty good so I grab my vibrator and turn it on high and penetrate my vagina with it. Sometimes my girl friend watches me and even joins in on the fun. That when I reach my climaxes. They are usually really intense because my girl friend is doing all the work! I love to masturbate to pictures she's sent me and porn. I love it all!

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Hi there!

Right well I think I started masturbating at around the age of 11/12. Of course at the time I didn't know what I was doing, I just liked the feel of it. I found myself getting horny lying in bed so I came on here to read other people's experiences. I have 4 different techniques that I use and 2 embarrassing experiences to tell you.

Let's start the with the experiences. One day in school me and 3 friends were talking about sex and pleasuring yourself (I've never told anyone I do it) and my friend next to me put her hand on my thigh and started slowly moving it closer to my vulva. She told me to say stop when it started to make me nervous but I didn't say stop until she reached my vulva and started rubbing it. But all of a sudden I felt myself come so I ran off to the toilet. (my excuse was I felt sick) we never played that game again.

Experience no. 2. As a child my brother was given this soft woolen doll about the size of a toddler and whenever my family were out of the house I would take the doll, strip down naked and have sex with it, so to speak. I would ride it and hump it and it felt like I was shagging a real person and the feel it gave my vulva was sensational. I'd like a bit of variety so I'd do it standing up against the wall, on the hallway floor, in the bathtub, in the sink, on the sofa, in everybody's beds, on the toilet, on the stairs, on the kitchen table and on the trampoline, however if my family were in I would stick to pants around my ankles doing it in my bed or the loft which is like a second bedroom. I'd get so into it I'd start making out with it. But one day when I was doing it on the living room table, the window cleaner came and saw it all. I died of pure embarrassment. But I still do it to this day and I recommend it to all women.

Now shagging the doll was one technique. Technique 2 is to get a pillow and hump it, sometimes I do it with clothes on but most of the time I do it with my pants off, the feelings much better naked. Another technique I use is putting a soft toy between my legs and moving my hips in a circular motion; ooooo it's so good! My final technique is using a sock or a piece of soft material. Place it in your underwear and again move your hips in a circular motion pushing your vulva against the floor. These techniques always pleasure me!!!

Now I've always found doing weird yet risky things where I could get caught out are very enjoyable. One time I was so horny I decided to piss on my brother's bedroom floor; I regretted it after. I've always had this sensational feeling about pissing outside so I sometimes go down this alley at the side of my garage, pull my pants down and let loose; this was only risky because my parents were in the kitchen and could come out at any time. Now the riskiest thing I've done is pull my pants down and parade around the garden for all to see my vulva. I actually took the doll outside and fucked it on the trampoline completely naked. There's something about pleasuring myself in front of people that makes it more enjoyable just not in front of my family.

I'm really glad I found this website as it helps me get horny and I really wanted to tell people about my experiences and techniques. I'm sorry if I've scared you but I can assure you I'm not mental I'm just creative and an experimentalist.  

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I sit under my bathtub faucet and kinda hump up and down and then I get this feeling like I am kinda peeing then after that if the water keeps hitting it I kinda twitch and can't keep it under the water.

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Hey, it's me Cilla again. I love reading these pages. Thank you for the the site. For the first time, last year, I masturbated while on the phone to a man! I worked at a guesthouse and when there were no guests, which was often, I was bored. The owner wanted me to be there in case there were calls" even if there was nothing to do. I went on an online dating site and began messaging with a man 8 years younger than me. It evolved to sexy texting and emails. I could arouse him very easily. He'd masturbate. It would turn me on. It made me very horny and I would go to one of the rooms and masturbate too. I did not tell him this :) I used it as a way of becoming very aroused. The secrecy was part of it. I had very intense orgasms this way. Sometimes he'd be busy and I could not entice him away from what he was doing, but I'd wait, resist doing it without him having gone first. These "wait" periods would send me into a frenzy.

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I had my first 'orgasm' (I put it in 's cause I don't know if it really was an orgasm, or if I've actually ever had one) when I was about 9. I was in the swimming pool with my granddad and he touched my clit down there. I knew it was wong but it felt nice so that night I tried it myself. I'm 16 now and I don't think I've actually cummed or orgasmed before. I do get wet and have that nice feeling when I'm finished, but nothing ever comes out of me.

Anyway, I like to get out of a hot bath and lay on my bed completely naked, then I rub my clitoris up and down, sometimes I like to imagine girls touching me. I'm not a lesbian or anything, I just don't find imagining a guy having sex with me does anything. So, when I touch myself I arch my back and hold my breath, I move my fingers faster and eventually I climax. It's the best feeling ever!

I also like to play with my tits, and sometimes I just lay there and stroke my pussy.

I'm still a virgin and I feel that I'm so ready to have sex, because if touching myself feels this good, I can't wait to know what sex feels like

Great website by the way. It's nice to find something mature and sensible :) x

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My first sexual experience was a year ago. I was tired of always having to wear pads so I wanted to try tampons. My family is very discreet and I was embarrassed to ask my mom how to teach me. So I taught myself every night, for a week, I would get in the shower and finger myself so I would be able to put a tampon in without worrying of getting it in the wrong spot. As I fingered myself, I felt tingles all through me and I loved it. After awhile I felt ashamed. But now I have moved from small objects like fingers and pens to travel size shampoo bottles. In a way I use porn and even the stories on here to reach an orgasm. Sometimes I try and just fantasize but it doesn't always work. I have never masturbated in front of anyone nor have I told anyone. It's a secret until somebody wants to share it with me.